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This kind of reaction is the characteristic of most ordinary people (ordinary people), that is, a kind of psychology that does not listen to contradictory words and rejects dissidents. Rebuttal is the expression of justification, self-justification, self-righteousness, and desire to prove oneself right, which is a common characteristic of ordinary secular people.
Why? Because everyone has a basic pattern (category) of mental and contemplative activities, this mode has been experienced for too long (too long in the cycle of life and life), and it is directly related to all his past and present activities, environment, experience, and cognition of things, and once it is denied and subverted by others, it is impossible to accept it at once.
People are different from each other? What's the difference? That is, the ability to understand, recognize, and accept the things that are divided by the new birth, and the ability to know, accept the truth, and be in harmony with the Tao is different. It will be easier if the good roots are deeper, and it will be difficult or even repellent on the contrary.
The problem in the question is that there are too many such people, and why it is difficult to cultivate the Tao is precisely the reason.
People can only become enlightened when they completely deny their own evil knowledge and wrong opinions, which is what is written in Zen Buddhism: "Take a hoe empty-handed, ride a buffalo on foot, and people cross the bridge, and the bridge does not flow."
How can people understand this now! Doing everything possible to justify oneself is naturally not new at all!
It should be called discernment.
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Differences: one has s, the other has English, ze is American, if you want to use it, it is better to use the latter, it is more commonly used;
It has the same meaning. Criticise is objective, and criticize is more personal. That is, criticise is criticism of objective facts, while criticism is personal criticism and criticism.
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If it's because we've done something wrong, and you're criticizing us? Then we should accept it with an open mind. He is doing this for our good.
There is no such thing as a bad one. Because what we did wrong, we should accept criticism!
Hello, it's a pleasure to answer for you. First of all, why do you want to see when others criticize you? If it's Shiver Sakura who criticizes us for doing something wrong?
We should accept it with an open mind. He is doing this for our good. There is no such thing as a bad one.
Because what we did wrong, we should accept criticism!
How to deal with conflicts with classmates?
What is the reason for the nature of the matter and the reason for others to criticize you? My own mentality is also very important. If it is for our good people, then we should laugh and provoke others before correcting our shortcomings. Let's put ourselves on the right path in life, bending the values.
If the conflict between you and your classmates is unruly over some trivial matter, then we should tolerate it, because it's all mutual. As long as it does not harm our dignity and some other interests. The classmates are all childish tempers.
And there's nothing bad about it. It will be fine after a while. So you make things clear, and there's nothing left.
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Summary. Dear, if the other party is kind enough to remind you and criticize you, you should accept it humbly and express your gratitude.
At this time, the other party criticizes you so that you will not make bigger mistakes. In essence, this criticism is to save you. So accept it with an open mind. Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, and good is great.
How to perceive other people's criticism of you.
Dear, if the other party is kind enough to remind you and criticize you to tease you, you should accept it humbly and express your gratitude. At this time, the other party criticizes you so that you will not make a bigger mistake if you sell well. In essence, this criticism is to save you.
Therefore, the sock song should be accepted with an open heart. Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, and good is great.
If the other party criticizes you, they are deliberately finding fault with you, and you are not wrong. Then, you have to be confident and clear about this matter with the other party.
Otherwise, the other party will think that you are a bully, and you will repeat the old trick in the future, or even worsen it.
If the other party misunderstands you, as long as you explain it clearly, you can forgive it if you can forgive it. can't forgive, and Sanzhu also wants to let Zheng Blind know that you are not someone who can be bullied casually.
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