In love, the average boy or girl who refuses to let go?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I know that he loves me, but there are some problems in the middle, then I will not let go, it is not easy to meet someone who loves me, I don't want to give up so easily, lose so much.

    But if he doesn't love me anymore, I will leave firmly, even if my heart hurts, there will be no more attachment, because he doesn't belong to me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Whether it's a boy or a girl, if you don't let go, you don't want to give up, and you still love him and her.

    Whether it's a boy or a girl, if you let go, you just want to give up, and you don't love her anymore.

    Ask me, why am I so reluctant to give up? That's definitely because I still love her. If you don't love her, of course you give up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Whoever is more affectionate often refuses to give up.

    This has little to do with gender, but girls tend to value love more than anything else, and boys often don't think so.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I was young, I was able to redeem myself

    Now, if you like to go, just calm down an incident

    All tm bastards.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm a man, I'm already separated, and I'm not going to look for her again, but I still miss her, I miss her, I dream of her, I'm waiting for time to heal this wound, not for her to change her mind, because even if she comes to me now, I won't accept her, even if I still love her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's a boy, the current society is very realistic, I haven't figured out what the reason is, [she] is over there unconsciously letting go, girls like to enjoy material things, boys can't do anything, and stupid.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm a boy because I love her, and I won't let go until she's really happy... I just let it go...

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whoever is affectionate will not give up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    <> because for many guys, falling in love with someone may be him and wanting to give it all. But many girls compare and think that if there is something unsatisfactory, they will threaten to break up with each other. Such a threat may have a certain effect at the beginning, but in the long run, it will only make the boy feel very tired and insecure.

    Many people will only think that girls and boys also need a sense of security, they are the one who gives more in the relationship, and the one who does not take the initiative, so the sense of security is also very important to them. We must know how to stop in moderation in love, and don't let our willfulness ruin a relationship.

    Fate is a very wonderful thing, many people are not so serious in the face of feelings, especially girls, think that they have capricious capital, and think that only boys can go on if they tolerate everything about themselves. In fact, this is not the case, many feelings need to be maintained and understood by two people, and only two people can stimulate each other and promote mutual understanding and feelings. Steady development and unilateral efforts will only make the balance of feelings unbalanced, and such feelings are not conducive to the future life of two people.

    Especially the party who pays more, it will explode after a certain age, and once they start to be disappointed in the relationship, there will be no possibility of recovery. Therefore, girls should not mention breaking up at every turn, especially hurting feelings.

    We Chang pointed out that everyone should work hard for their feelings, and not mentioning breaking up is the greatest respect for this relationship. Since they are together, they should move forward with good wishes, and they will break up at every turn, which can only show that they don't care much about this relationship in their hearts, and they don't have a protective heart, so in the long run, their boyfriends will also feel that they are not valued, so they think that a relationship is dispensable, and eventually go to a situation of failure.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think boys will hate such girls very much, because boys are rational in love, and every time they mention the point, the male Zhaosen will feel that the girl has lost confidence in this relationship and does not want to continue, so they will also be disappointed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's going to be annoying. 1. This kind of book-picking girl's love posture is unstable, and in the long run, there may often be problems in future life. 2. This kind of girl may not have a sense of responsibility. So boys hate girls who break up at every turn.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes. Boys will think that girls are immature, make a big fuss, and be a bit clever. But boys should summarize themselves, why do girlfriends always mention breaking up, or do you not give girls a sense of security in the relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. There is a kind of lover who is also sincerely good to the boy, he will be good to the person wholeheartedly, which is also a type of attraction to men, when the lover works hard to be sincere, this is a man is reluctant to learn to let go, because he is wrapped in feelings, there is no way to solve this kind of beautiful feeling.

    2. There are many lovers who are more reasonable, they talk less and do more things in their daily lives, and it is not easy to harm boys if they don't talk about things in the boy's house, they just want to talk to this man, this kind of lover likes to listen, when a man has such a person next to him, he is very happy, so he is reluctant to learn to let go.

    3. Some boys are reluctant to learn to let go of their lovers, because the two of them have been together for a long time and have a sense of dependence on the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Very kind, empathetic, with a particularly good character, and knowing how to empathize, such a girl will make men love very much and be unwilling to let go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Very good, very hard-working, very self-motivated, very independent, has his own ideas, and will not rely on men.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In love, girls who make men love so much that they are unwilling to let go have high EQ and IQ, can be financially independent, and are empathetic.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girls are willing to persevere, boys are not. Such emotions can be let go. The boy doesn't love you anymore, and no matter how much you keep him, it won't help.

    Feelings can't just be wishful thinking and dedication on your part. That doesn't make any sense. It's better to let it go sooner.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think this kind of emotion must be let go, because two people can't have common characteristics and pursuits, then two people can't come together in the end, and the efforts of one party can't be exchanged for the emotions of both parties.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Personally, I think wishful thinking is fruitless, and the relationship must be maintained by two people in order to go on for a long time. So for such emotions, then you should definitely take the initiative to let go, maybe after letting go, you will feel a kind of relief and freedom.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I feel that if the girl has always wanted to insist on such an attitude, but the boy really doesn't want this feeling, then you can give up, because only the girl herself wants the result, then it is impossible for the relationship to last long.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This kind of feeling should be cautious, I don't want to see girls too tired, and there is no need to do this, because even if girls insist, there is no point, and men are unwilling! I advise such a girl to let go of the liquid mold decisively.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Girls are willing to insist on love, boys are unwilling to love, I think the unfilial cherry to let go easily, you can continue to work hard, if it really doesn't work, then let go of Qi Qi will be a lot less regret.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Girls insist, and boys are unwilling, the relationship should be let go, because one party is unwilling, such a relationship will not last long It will only bring a lot of pressure to the other party and even make the other party bored In this case, it is better to let go of the earlier one and get out of such a strange Shouqingqiao relationship earlier.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    A relationship, if only the girl is willing to insist, and the boy is unwilling, I think it will definitely not be sold anymore, and it should be remembered. Break up right away. In this way, Sakura lead will cause the least damage to each other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I feel that if the girl has always wanted to adhere to such an attitude, and the boy really doesn't want this feeling, then you can give up the game, because only the result that the girl herself wants, then it is impossible for this relationship to last long.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Girls are willing to stick to the bad game, while boys are unwilling to stick to the relationship. This kind of relationship does make people feel very hard, and the boy is unwilling to insist, which means that he doesn't love you very much. Then you should choose to let go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Girls are willing to insist, and boys are unwilling, at this time, it depends on what the specific original pure seepage cause is, if there is really no way to solve it, it is better to choose to let go.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hello, judging from your description, it should be difficult for your relationship to continue to be held by Wei Ying, because the relationship can only be sustained by two people working together, and it is difficult to maintain the feelings of two people with a single square ridge and selling noodles.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The relationship should be two-sided, if the boy is unwilling to tease the socks, and the girl insists on being willing to get along with the boy, then this relationship is also fruitless, and the girl should be able to let go.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    As long as one party is unwilling to continue, only one person insists on it, because the problem of feelings is a matter of two people, and it doesn't make much sense for one person to insist, but his own wishful thinking and others will not change.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Yes, the relationship is a matter of two people, and the reluctance of one party will not go down, even if one party insists on maintaining it, it is just a piece of tissue paper, which will be broken at the touch of a button.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Boys don't want to, then you should let go, let go of each other, his unwilling feelings are torture for you, find someone worthy to pay your sincerity.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Yes, under normal circumstances, the attitude of a boy determines whether a relationship can go to the end, as long as it is not a fault of principle, the average man will succeed if he wants to redeem it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Personally, I feel that such feelings should be let go, because such feelings are meaningless, and such feelings cannot be maintained.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Of course, this kind of affection should be let go, because the guy doesn't like you at all and has no feelings for you, so it's useless to keep going.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Of course, you should let go, feelings are a matter of two people, not one person can stick to it, such feelings will not be happy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Yes. Because the relationship is a two-way giving, rather than a one-way giving, such a relationship must be broken up immediately.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Whether you let go or not has little to do with whether you love or not, love itself is just a feeling. But whether to let go or not is the result of the current chaos and delicate measurement.

    Although love is a pure feeling, maintaining a love and managing a love requires a realistic cost.

    Maintaining a love requires close contact, practical care, emotional intelligence to take care of each other's emotions and resolve some small conflicts, and material things to create a reassuring environment for coexistence.

    And you can't put your care into practice in a different place (no matter how hot online love is, it's really not as good as pouring water and a hug for your lover with your own hands), coupled with your young and impulsive, emotional intelligence is not enough to resolve the lack of a spear and a shield, and I am afraid that you are not completely independent in terms of material conditions. Isn't that enough of a reason to let go?

    No matter how fierce the long-distance love is, in the end you will only marry someone who accompanies you day and night to give you love, and he will only marry the person who snuggles up to him every day.

    Maybe you will say that you can solve the problem of distance in the future. How long is that time later? Aside from distance, how long does it take for impulsivity problems to be resolved?

    Is emotional intelligence enough to resolve conflicts? Are the material conditions enough to be independent? All of the above are necessary conditions for the long-term maintenance of love.

    To sum up, you have empty feelings of love, but you can't come up with an effective way to maintain love for a long time. What's the point of consuming it if you don't let go? You may just feel love, and think that nothing else matters, and you don't need it.

    But men need it! Men want real companionship more than women, men want a partner with stable emotions and high emotional intelligence to make him feel at ease, and men want to support a real home with a car, a house and a stable income.

    If it is consumed, the actual needs of men cannot be realized, and maybe even the feeling of love at the beginning will be consumed

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If a man doesn't give you companionship, tolerance, and a sense of security, and doesn't give you these things, it means that the other party doesn't love you, so you must let go as soon as possible.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you can't be tolerated, can't give the life you want, can't give you care, and don't give you these few things, you must be separated from the other party as soon as possible.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If a man can't give you love, can't give you money, can't give you time, can't give you tolerance, then let it go as soon as possible.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I don't want to fall in love" Don't listen to the superficial meaning first, we have to consider this sentence according to different situations.

    When I was a freshman, I fell in love with a girl who was the president of our student council, one year older than me, and was known for her kaolin flower.

    Because she is too cold, beautiful but proud, during this year, many boys have talked about Liang Liang one after another, and they have been rejected on the road of the revolution has not yet succeeded.

    She's also the type who readily rejects others, and I'm sorry, I don't want to have a boyfriend. ”

    Because since college, the friends around her have fallen in love one after another, so everyone began to speculate about her, and some people speculated that she had someone she liked, but this person was not from our school and didn't like her;

    Some people speculate that she likes girls, and she is rarely seen in private contact with boys, and it is difficult for boys to ask her out; Some people also say that her vision is very high, and her height is outrageous, and ordinary people can't look down on it at all.

    Therefore, although there are still people pursuing, but wave after wave of rejection, there are more and more rumors behind her, because many girls are also jealous of her, so some rumors are a little outrageous, and even unbearable.

    Later, everyone turned into a crush, and no one dared to act rashly.

    Speaking of which, do you have a feeling that it is one of the above guesses, or what is it all about?

    I don't believe in this evil, so I'm going to talk to you.

    However, this girl is not as difficult to contact as the legend of the scum ridge, but she is a very talkative, cheerful person, and occasionally laughs at herself, but she has always been alone and has never been in love.

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