My boyfriend is a top down man who broke up with me

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
54 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since we meet and fall in love, it is a rare fate to cherish it. If you are unwilling and reluctant, then go by feeling, and don't break up easily. may be angry, you say break up, he says break up.

    Don't use breaking up to prove whether he loves you, when my girlfriend and I contradict each other, I always say that I found the wrong person, break up or something, mine is divided, and after saying it, I won't say more, after a while, everyone calmed down, and they didn't take it seriously, but I was afraid that one day it would really be because I said that sentence easily, and resolutely did not bow to each other.

    I hope you recognize what you want, put aside other factors such as face, what is the most direct in your heart, love him and work hard to redeem it, even if you are not together in the end, at least you have fought for it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You are so reluctant, and you also use the nickname to belittle him, are you sure you are reluctant? I didn't see it. If there is really something shining in him that you have discovered, you are really reluctant to give up on him, you treat him well, you don't need to say it in the question, go through it in your mind, and then you will have the answer, how to keep him according to your behavior.

    If the last anger was not because it was a matter of principle that was violated, then it would be easier for you, but if it involves dignity or a deeper level, you have to be prepared for the long term. True retention is an act that comes from your heart, not an act that is asking questions here. Figure it out for yourself.

    Do something that you like to do the most in your relationship, or the event that memorizes you the most. The key is to be attentive.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everything has to be balanced.

    When you first met, you didn't know each other, just from the outside, he liked you, and you didn't like him. So he chases you desperately and gives hard. Actually, he loves you more.

    Maybe later, he found out that you had some shortcomings, such as a big temper, which affected your image in his mind, and he was disappointed. And I feel that I was so active and active before, it was too shameful and worthless? So it cooled down slowly.

    In the middle of this, he is working hard, he takes the initiative, makes you feel good about him, and makes you slowly like him, and he seems to have done it. But didn't you do anything during this time? Neither showed your strengths, nor did you make any efforts, you always feel that you are very good, it should be him who chases you, it should be him who cares about and loves you, all this, he should be, do you think so?

    When he's been working so hard for a while, and you can't find a way to attract him, of course he's tired.

    Everything changes, no matter how good things are, they will slowly deteriorate, don't cling to the previous things, don't think too much. Keep this in mind, and you won't feel sad about anything in the future.

    Unwilling? Do you like him or do you want to continue developing with him? What's going on in your mind?

    Tell him what you want in your heart, say what is in your heart, and don't feel ashamed to take the initiative. As long as you talk to him well, say what is in your heart, and then see how he reacts? Is there still hope, if not, forget it, then why are you still thinking about him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The above three friends are very good, you should think back to the process of your relationship, and see if there is anything you overdone and broken his heart. Love is about mutual affection and mutual appreciation, not pity and charity. First review each other's mentality, feel his personality and personality with your heart, feel whether he really loves you, whether you really love him, and are willing to spend your life with him.

    If the answer is yes, it is to find him, talk openly and honestly, and don't leave regrets; If the answer is no, it is just an experience that you must go through in life, learn to accept and forget, do not resent, and do not let it affect your future life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since he is desperate to break up with you, then you desperately think about his disadvantages and forget about him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. All hehe, if you are not suitable, you have to let go, you have to learn to give up, you are willing to give up, and only by giving can you gain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After a long time, why don't you find a better one, and then fall in love again?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He broke up with you, which means that he doesn't really love you in his heart, like you, a man who really loves you and likes you will not break up easily, he will do his best to save your feelings, such a man is not worthy of your nostalgia.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm still reluctant, do you think it's interesting to go on?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe it's a person with a little low self-esteem in his heart, and he has an inferiority complex because of his height defect, and you get angry with him, making him subconsciously feel that he is not worthy of you (maybe that's not appropriate, but I can't think of the right words for a while). Whether you have attachment or not is not up to you, some people are very ruthless and ruthless on the surface, but they will cry alone behind their backs, and you can't see it at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You are not good enough for him, he is not at ease and will be tired.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I understand your mood very well.

    Such a boy is not suitable for you, he treats feelings differently than you treat feelings, and there are major differences between you on many issues, which are formed because of different families, different values, and different growth environments.

    Maybe he's just a passerby on your life's path, and you're in the back.

    Breaking up may be a good choice for both of us, because his feelings have changed, and what is the point of a person whose heart is not in you, and you need his body??? And if he sees you like this now, I believe that he will always see you this way in his heart, so he will always leave you one day, and it is better to leave early.

    Look at the problem optimistically and be happy every day!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How to get back after the boyfriend mentions the breakup.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1, I think you should break up, a man has talked about this, and there is no need to be together again.

    2. If you love him very much and don't want to break up with him, then you should review yourself, try to ask how many boyfriends can accept their girlfriends calling each other husbands and wives on the Internet, if it is you, how do you feel when you find that your boyfriend calls each other husbands and wives with other women on the Internet, if it is me, I can't accept it, maybe I'm too traditional.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you don't want to leave him, then you have to adjust yourself well and let him not be upset about you, such as not having an affair with others on the Internet, etc., so that he feels insecure. Then try to talk openly and honestly with each other and talk your thoughts to him. After all, the relationship is still a matter of two people, and no matter how much others say, it is better to fight for it yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you like him, why do you still call someone else's husband online?

    If you like him, why are you still playing ambiguous with others online?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Break up, since he doesn't love him anymore, why should you be obsessed.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then you say, "Let's get married." If he refuses, then divide it.

    Don't delay yourself

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Make a change in yourself! This man loves you but cares too much about you! Like he wants to find a wife but is insecure with you! The answer is actually in your heart.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Divide it, sisters, why are you with him in a low voice, what about being single? Love is just a small part of life, a proud life, without the same rotation of the earth, maybe he is not used to it without you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then let him know that you love him and can't live without him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Divide it....You'll be the one who gets hurt in the end.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Divide it, he doesn't love you anymore.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What is the nostalgia for such a man.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First of all, you have to know the reason why he doesn't love you so much, it may be that you think too much, boys are not as caring as girls, and what they do is not necessarily what you want, so it's not too late to have a face-to-face discussion and make a decision, don't let yourself regret that you gave up someone who loves you. If you break up, finding a place to travel or go shopping with your girlfriends, talking, and crying are all good options, even if there is no love, friendship is also a harbor you rely on.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    People will eventually die A hundred years of life Time flies Do what you want to do Don't force yourself People can die without regrets in this life is perfect.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then break up quickly, don't go, go to many places, you are in pain.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then go your own way.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    That is, I don't like you, the novelty is gone, there is no need to force it, once I don't like a person, it's useless to say anything, and in the end, I will make myself even more unkind in his mind, and he will feel that it is even more right to break up; Since it's better to be good and disperse, divide it, and whoever is missing the earth will still turn, making yourself better is the most important thing, I did the same thing as your boyfriend before, and now I think about it, I blame me for not cherishing it, my girlfriend didn't say anything when I broke up, and then I knew that she forgot about me after a period of pain, and then I suddenly missed her, and I met her again by chance, she was more beautiful, I asked her if we could still be together, and she said that she hated me a little before she saw me, Now I feel like seeing an old friend, there is no feeling of a lover, from her eyes I can see that she is talking from the heart, we can't go back to the past, blame me ......

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    What can half a month mean? You may not even remember what they look like.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Maybe he really doesn't think the two of you are a good fit, yes, it's obvious.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He is running away from you ... I really don't like you anymore.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Break up, break up, you don't know without him.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This should be a cooperation between the two sides. It's up to who's wrong. If it's the man's fault, then there must be something wrong with him.

    If it's the woman's fault, then you have to go to the soft first. It shows that he won't coax girls, this kind of person should actually be an honest person, but it's a pity that women don't like this, and they like to coax people. Look at your dynamics and show that you still care about you, but you don't necessarily have to be soft with the man, there will be more quarrels in life in the future, you must be humble to each other, one party will not let the other party give way, otherwise it will be the same for a few people.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Can the Cold War be a few months? I really admire that you can tolerate it. Love is not spoken, but done.

    Keep saying that they love you, but what about the truth? In fact, you know better than anyone else that it is not easy to make a final decision. I believe that after the wind and rain, there will always be sunny days.

    You say you love him very much, maybe that's what he relies on, and he knows that you will eventually turn back. Sometimes you just have to be decisive, otherwise you will definitely be the one who will be hurt! Don't you know that love, it's mostly girls who are hurt?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If a guy doesn't have a text message for more than a day, it means that he doesn't care about you at all. Why wait stupidly, **block, or change the **number yourself. Such a person is not worthy of your love.

    When you let it go, you might be able to find a better one and feel like you were too stupid in the first place

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Selfish men must stay away.

    You can have a big quarrel in a certain quarrel, and then deliberately pretend to have a new love to make him die.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You tell him all your grievances about him, and you tell him all these things that you have added to your current question. Girls need to be coaxed, you won't find a man who you want to coax him to live, such a man is immature and doesn't know how to be considerate.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Talk to him and let him look at your current state and be firm and tell him how serious it is if the problem is not resolved. I'm sure he'll listen.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Actually, I'm pregnant, not yours.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Tell him that we don't have a good relationship and are not suitable to be together.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    To put it simply, you don't have to do anything.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's divided, it's divided, find a standby, then your damage will be a little less,

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    In the first place, you were going to separate, and you were separated.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    1.Turn back and chase him.

    2.Find another one.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    2 options: 1: Close. (provided that he still loves you and you love him).

    2: After the dilution of time, forget him!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Since you have chosen to say goodbye, don't look back, and understand a truth that is not a truth: good horses don't eat grass.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Break up, break up, don't be like that much, if you don't want to break up, why break up.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If you really love him, then don't give up on taking further action again. If your boyfriend is not a scorer and no longer reason with you. For the sake of you, he is not willing to make even this small sacrifice, do you think he is sincere to you?

    You are also tired and he is tired, you love him and you can bear it, but he can't do it. The final decision is up to you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    How to get back after the boyfriend mentions the breakup.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Tell him how much you love him. Then promise to score. Look at him irretrievably. If you are not willing to agree to points, then ask your parents to take a step back and convince your parents. If you can't help it... Then you know yourself, think about it, what's the point of sticking to it?

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Love me, and you won't get tired.

    My number is 9547

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    If you really love him, don't give up. True love is rare. Don't be defeated by real problems, everything will be fine.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Ha, don't be defeated by reality? The reality is right, it is yourself who will suffer when you get married in the future.

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