With such a man, would you be with him?

I'm a boy, and I have the following to say about the person you're talking about:

1.The main thing: do you think you like him? This is the main thing, so you have to ask yourself many times.

2. From your statement, I don't think he is a good boy, not because he is sloppy or unmotivated. Because boys are sloppy when they don't have a girlfriend, and they will change a little bit after they have a girlfriend, which is a natural phenomenon. And you pointed out that if you don't work hard to find a job, you can't insist that he is not motivated, have you communicated with him?

Maybe he's not suitable to go to work in the company, maybe he's not suitable for others to manage, maybe he'll start his own company in the future, too much, maybe, so this also depends on your guidance.

3. You can't tell what he likes about him, and the birth date you give doesn't prove anything.

4. I think the most important thing about the relationship between his family and you is to see your communication, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are always a sought-after topic, I think the main thing is to see whether the daughter-in-law will behave and communicate.

You ask a lot of questions and it's hard to make a judgment because your character is not known. But with so many questions you ask, I can be sure of one thing: you doubt him.

So I think it's important not that he's suitable for you, but that you should think about whether you love him or not, if you love each other, even if the other party is a mediocre talent, you will cultivate a genius, and women should have confidence in themselves, just like an old saying: do you want to marry a millionaire or raise a millionaire. I want you to choose to cultivate, of course, life is a lifetime of gambling, so all the decisions are in your hands.

After a long time, you can give me the distribution haha.

I would be in love with him, but I wouldn't marry him.

Falling in love and getting married are two different things.

I'm a very realistic person.

If my significant other doesn't give me a materially stable life, I won't choose him.

If he really loves you, let him make a change for you.

If he is unwilling to change for you, then abandon him After all, after marriage, there is still the problem of dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law His mother doesn't like you very much, right, why let yourself be wronged.

I can't take it anyway!

If you don't work hard, what will you do in the future.

It is impossible to ask his mother to raise a child after marriage is born.

Otherwise, you will raise him.

Such an example is typical, the mother spoils the child too much, she wants to protect her child for the rest of her life, so your intervention, to be honest, I think it's difficult, at least the situation is not very good. At the same time, this man seems to me too childish, will there be a future with him? It's hard to say!!

Even if two people have no problem with their relationship, the attitude of the family will affect that they will not be together.

I want to ask if he really loves you? Since you love you, you should have thought about your future, right? If he is like this, what will he do in the future?

Did he think about it? Is being nice to you really loving you? If I really love you well, I already have a goal to move forward, right?

Even if it's for your future! Even if it's for the sake of your happiness in the future, right? Can a house be built without a foundation?

What can be gained by blindly moving forward in a future without goals? What can change? Do you love him?

Have you thought about getting him to change? Have you tried to communicate with him to get him to change? Can you ask so many questions one by one?

I didn't want to score points, I just want to tell you that since you chose him, it proves that you also loved him, there is no need to ask others if they want to continue to develop with him, in fact, you know very well in your heart, love him, just support each other to go on!

Then ask yourself first, are you dependent on the way he loves you? If you lose him, will you choose to accept someone who is more autonomous, but who is not so good to you? If you give up on him, I promise, in your future relationship, when you encounter something unsatisfactory, you will definitely think of him, and you will definitely have a little regret, such a man, after all, is less now, but the society is realistic, no money, nothing, so the current family, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, if you believe in his strength, believe that he has a self-reliant day, you don't give up, of course, his self-reliance, need your inducement, such as you help him find a job, tactfully told him to be self-reliant or something.

To be honest, unmotivated men are the most useless, men can be poor or ugly, but they just can't be unmotivated.

No, he's good to you, but he doesn't have fighting spirit, or rather, he doesn't have ideals.

It shouldn't be, so you can't be happy in the future.

In our love life, each of us will have moments of confusion to a greater or lesser extent. Especially when someone is kind to us, they believe in their hearts, but they are afraid of getting hurt. So how do we know if this man loves you and really wants to be with you?

Generally speaking, a man who genuinely cares about you will behave in the following ways:

First of all, your needs will be met, remembering your preferences. Most men are careless in life and don't always pay attention to what you like. If suddenly one day, he begins to remember your preferences, everything is based on you, put you first, he knows your things, and he will do his best to complete the things promised you, if there is any of the above performance, it means that this man has been attracted to you.

Secondly, will take the initiative to consider your feelings and take care of your emotions. When you encounter setbacks in your life and are in a bad mood, he can come to comfort you as soon as possible and take the initiative to help you solve the problem. Ask for your opinion before doing something, consider your feelings.

When you have conflicts and differences, he bows his head first, and these actions show that this man cares about you very much and doesn't want you to be unhappy.

In addition, you will be introduced to his friends and family. If a man starts to be serious about a relationship, he will want you to integrate into his circle of life and get to know his friends. He will want to bring you home and introduce you to his parents, so that his parents know and accept you, so that you can get in touch with his life as soon as possible.

Plus, he'll be willing to make changes for you. For example, restrain those bad tempers or bad habits that you don't like; Will try to accompany you to do those things that you like, but that he himself fears. Because I like him, I will tolerate and accommodate everywhere, and I will never care about you and make changes for you.

In addition to that, I will want to give you the best. Even if he can't satisfy you at the moment, he will work hard and do his best to get what you want. No matter how busy he is, he will try to find time to spend with you.

Because in his heart you are always first, and I want to give you the best he can give.

This is very simple, first of all, the first point, he calls you every day, he hits ** in the morning, ** at noon, and ** at night, so he pesters you every day, isn't it such a thing? In the past, when we were in school, I was at the same table, so when I pursued his girlfriend, I pestered him every day, anyway, if I watched it, I felt very intimate, and that was the feeling. But most of the time, then he is like this at the beginning, and after that, there are few words that go further, that is, to hit **.

The second way, then it is often to buy you things, buy gifts, buy gifts during the New Year's holidays, and buy gifts for you on your birthday, which is such a thing, which is more in real life, when I used to go to work, then my colleague often buys gifts for girlfriends is a small gift, not a big gift, and then buy a gold necklace, and buy a bracelet or something, anyway, there are more. That's basically it.

The third point is actually more common, for example, he often has all kinds of intimate actions with you, etc., etc., and then tells you about his future and your plans, etc., etc., etc., etc., this is the kind of man, the behavior is, more normal, yes, I think it's very normal anyway, if I used to go to college, that classmate was also like this, although he broke up with his girlfriend in the end, but I think his approach should be correct, I highly agree, Anyway, I think the pursuit of boys, the process of girls is not smooth sailing, a lot depends on fate, sometimes, then it depends on whether the relationship can continue, but most of the cases were okay before.

If a man appears, speaks to you very gently, looks at you very sincerely, is willing to spend money for you, helps you in life, and will contact you frequently, indicating that he wants to be with you.

Frequently take the initiative to chat with you, show affection for you, consider your feelings when speaking and doing things, show concern for you, etc. He will increase the amount of time you spend alone than you do, and he will gradually integrate into your life.

He cares about you very much, treats you very well, trusts you very much, tolerates you, gives you gifts and spends money, and if there are these actions, it shows that he wants to be with you.

Talking to you every day, I care about you very much, I care about you very much, I care about your ideas in particular, and I have to follow your opinions in everything.

Preface: In my life with a man I don't know, I don't choose to be with each other, because I don't know anything about each other's affairs. If you are with each other, two people may have conflicts because of emotional problems, and when girls choose a boyfriend, most people will start from their friends.

Mainly because the relationship between friends is familiar with each other, but if you meet a man you don't know in the relationship, you will also consider it to see if the other party has feelings for you. <>

When girls are looking for a love partner, they generally start with the people around them, mainly considering that the people around them are familiar with each other. If you find a man you don't understand, you may also be opposed by your parents, because your parents think that your child doesn't understand each other, so they fall in love with each other. If you cause harm to a girl, you may not be able to find a boy later.

Therefore, when looking for a love partner, you will generally start from the people around you, or through the introduction of people in the family, and slowly get to know each other. <>

If you meet a man in a relationship who can know how to feel sorry for a girl, everything is based on the girl's thoughts, and the girl can also consider being in contact with the boy for a period of time. Because when any two people are together, they may not know each other very well, and it takes time to get to know each other. Girls should also open their hearts to each other and give each other time, and give themselves time, which may allow two people to harvest perfect love.

Girls must not wrap themselves like a hedgehog in their relationship, and they dare not take the initiative to approach the opposite sex when they meet the opposite sex. Mainly because women are easily hurt in their relationships, they have to consider arming themselves fully and not allowing anyone to get close to them. Women should give themselves a chance, and at the same time give each other a chance.

If two people can get along, they can consider being a couple, and if they don't want to get to know each other, they don't give themselves a chance to get to know each other.

No, I think this kind of behavior is very irrational, because two people don't know each other at all, and if they are together, the result is likely to fail.

They won't choose to be together, and if they don't know each other well enough, they won't last long.

Understanding is a gradual process, if you have a good feeling, I think you can contact first, and then slowly understand, and then decide not to be together.

Summary. Kiss, a man wants to be with you, which means that he has a crush on you.

What does a man want to say with you?

Kiss, a man wants to be with you, which means that he has a crush on you.

Kissing, if you look at the individual to be together, the premise is that you must understand the man, especially the man's character is very important. If you know each other and it feels really good, then you can consider two people together. Otherwise, it's better to refuse.

Kissing, a man wants to be with you also shows that you are a good woman. Excellent women are definitely chased by men.

What is love? There are many manifestations of love, and some people think that caring is love, and uncontrollable longing is love. In fact, love is the most genuine feelings and emotions that come from the heart, and it often becomes extreme.

To truly fall in love with someone is to have the shadow of the other person at any time, which is true fascination and love. So, if a man truly loves you, there will be these five manifestations.

1. There is only you in your eyes.

True love is probably only you in your eyes and you can't see others. All his eyes will stay on you, he will think of you all the time, he will think about what you are doing every day, and he will pay attention to any of your actions. Probably this kind of feeling, only true love, will occupy your entire heart.

Therefore, you will be mentioned at those moments, and the man whose eyes are inseparable from you is really in his heart.

2. I will be very happy to see you.

Probably everyone will be very satisfied in their hearts when they see the person they love, and they will show a happy smile. Because in this world, there is no happier thing to be with the person you love. He'll sink into the miniature world, he'll be eager to see you, and he'll be happy even if there's little communication.

Therefore, those men who give you sunshine and smiles, he really loves you, and will bring you happiness and smiles and make you feel warm.

3. I can't help but want to give you the best.

If you really love someone, you will think of each other in your eyes, no matter what delicious and fun you see, the first thing you think of will be the other person. You'll want to bring delicious food to each other, and you can't wait to take her to interesting places you find. And a man who really loves you will be like this, he will give you the best of himself within his ability, satisfy you as much as possible, and make you happy.

4. I want to see you all the time.

If you love someone, you will always be unable to control your inner thoughts, you will always want to see each other, and you will miss tossing and turning, this is the taste of missing. Love is like this, as long as it is true love, even if you cover your mouth, it will run out of your heart. Therefore, a man who really loves you will often want to see you, want to stay with you, never want to be separated for a moment, and will be afraid of losing.

5. There will always be endless topics.

For the person you love, you won't feel annoyed by anything, even if you hollow out your heart, you will feel that you haven't said enough, and you want to let the other party know and understand everything about yourself. Because everyone who truly loves is eager for the other party to truly recognize themselves, and will try their best to prove their hearts in front of the other party. Therefore, when a man has endless words in front of you, it is not because he is a talker, but because he wants you to feel his sincerity and heart.

Summary: There are many manifestations of love, the person who really loves you, he will always have a hundred ways to express his heart, but these are also the most real and direct love. Therefore, when a man is with you, he has these five manifestations, then he truly loves you.

Then a woman, you must grasp a person who treats you sincerely, love each other, cherish it, and don't hurt if you don't love.