The future is dark, what should I do! 30

Maybe your sentence is very right, I think no matter how poor a person is, he can't be unambitious, and he can't be self-motivated, we don't necessarily have to find a very rich man, but at least he should have the ability to let us live a happy life, if he can't give his beloved woman happiness, then he doesn't promise anything, but it can be seen that he is not a person who is nothing in your eyes, you have also been sweet, maybe he needs your encouragement, needs your persuasion, As you said, you are the bridge between him and his family, so you might as well try to work hard, because after all, feelings are not child's play, although it doesn't seem very happy now, but if after your efforts, see if he will change, if he reconciles with his family, I believe that things may take a turn, you should give yourself and him a chance, if both parties work hard or do not change their words, consider your plans, but we definitely don't want you to do this, Because after all, you've been together before, and separating isn't necessarily the best option. I hope you can think it through for yourself!

There are 2 ways to do this.

1 .Such a man must not be compared with other people's men. The result of this is extreme, and it can be extremely self-motivated.

It can also be extremely lazy. He should be enlightened, let him realize the falsehood of the Internet, let him realize the importance of life, don't tell me anything about divorceLeave yourself in pain.

Besides, the child is innocent. Since he is tired, you don't care about him. And don't tell his parents

I also want to introduce him to work

2.And that's what I don't want to see, which is divorce. Although I said earlier that divorce is not good, but sometimes, divorce is happier than marriageThe premise is that your husband is really hopeless.

Good luck and hope your husband gets lost soon.

It is said that a woman marries a chicken and a dog and a dog A woman marries her husband and gambles on all the happiness in the second half of her life Sometimes when I think of this, I really feel that I am really helpless as a woman I can find a time to talk to him well and make it clear the stakes between work and future life That is, a showdown You can't be soft-hearted For yourself and for the future of your children See if he still cares about this family Does he care about this child If he still has a little humanity, he won't ignore your mother and son A man is the pillar of a family I think whether it's you or your in-laws It's too forgiving to him.

According to your description, your husband should be a person who lacks self-motivation and has no sense of responsibility, and should not be indulged in this type of man, either bitterly or step by step, so that he has a sense of crisis.

Or you have reached the point where you can't bear it, then I advise you to divorce, don't force it, otherwise you can only regret it in the end.

Such a man is free to kick early.

Divorce, such a man really doesn't want it.

Every road is a way out, it depends on how you go, those with ambitions have long aspirations, and those without ambitions often have aspirations. Find your place, know what you can do, discover your strengths, give yourself a goal, and work tirelessly to achieve your goals. No matter what you do, as long as you do your best, you will have a clear conscience, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will be appreciated, and success always comes inadvertently.

Good times are unpleasant, adversity is not depressed, and desperate situations are not desperate. As long as there are ideals as a guide, learn to be grateful and tolerant, always smile at life, and always stick to their commitments, I am not the best, but I am the hardest, I will be able to succeed.

Think about what you want to do first, or use reverse thinking to describe your future life, and then deduce step by step how you want to achieve it, how you should plan well, so many things need to be done, you won't feel lost, and you can learn a technology and constantly enrich yourself in learning.

1.It's a cloud that catches the sun.

Everyone has their own life and ideals, as long as they live healthily, there is no level from the words they say to you, what qualifications does he have to say about you, why should you care!

Do you believe what others say? Believe in yourself!

Others say that if you get married, you will get divorced, will you still get married?

I think if you don't know each other's industry and what they do, don't just say that they have a future. It is ideal to help him analyze, but as a bystander, unless you know the industry background or professional background very well, you generally do not make a decisive statement. If the future is really bleak, don't continue to waste time, hurry up and change careers while you are young.

If it's because you're not doing well, you have to analyze the reason, whether it's suitable for you or lazy. Laziness is not cured......If it doesn't suit, change it quickly. If you are not in harmony with the company, change it quickly, if you are always at odds, it means that you have a problem with your personality, and you must consciously adjust yourself.

Let's shake a claw before answering your question, my experience is too similar to yours. I also majored in computer science, but I didn't learn anything at all in college, and I didn't find a job for 3 months after graduation. Fortunately, after I graduated, my sister asked me to participate in software testing training, and now I am very satisfied with my job, and the salary is high and easy.

Don't know you're a ** person? If you are from Jiangsu, I recommend you to go to Suzhou Fengyun Education to participate in software testing training, the tuition fee is not high, I only studied 7500, and I am guaranteed employment after graduation. Hope it helps, hehe.

There is a famous saying: There is no product in the world that cannot be sold, only people who cannot sell the product. You yourself must understand your own ability, no matter what unit you work in, you must be conscientious, start from the grassroots level, continue to learn new knowledge in the work, master some necessary skills or techniques, enrich your work experience, the boss will like you, and your salary will continue to zzzzzzzzzzz

Do you have any goals in mind before you look for a job? For example, how much do you want to be paid, what do you want to learn at work, and how long you want to work for a new company. If you're just looking for a lucrative job, then I advise you to go straight to sales.

If you want to continue your profession, then you should plan how you want to develop yourself, and ask yourself what kind of work you will do, which will be more helpful to you in the future.

Finding a job is very hard, and you have to keep making appointments and interviews, and you will be nervous, but you must believe that you can and be fully prepared before going to the interview.

In fact, the main thing is to persevere, to have confidence, as long as you work hard, you will definitely be able to find a job that you are satisfied with.

Not sure if it will help you.

Finding a job is a difficult problem now, but there are so many recruitment departments, you can find it patiently.

I'm in a terrible situation right now, and I don't know what's going on with my life, alas! Anyway, don't be discouraged!

A lot of jobs are not suitable for you, and you don't prove that your ability is enough.

Continue to snort until there is no money to eat, no money to buy water ,......You'll find out!

Keep up the good work and believe in yourself. Be brave to face the future and the future, and good luck.

It's not that you can't find a job, it's that the salary is low, you don't want to do it, and you don't want to do dirty work.

Keep trying, believe in yourself, and don't give up.

In perseverance, we move forward together.

Why can't I find it, don't ask too much, do it first and then talk about it.

First of all, you need to know what kind of work you want to do.

Lower the bar for finding a job.

Believe in the saying, "Meet the rainbow after the storm". Actually, I'm also very confused now. But I know that everything now will only be temporary, and I have to hold on!

In fact, if you are not interested in the major, you can do a skill transfer according to your own strengths; But if you don't have any special skills, then you should make good use of your professional advantages, after all, interests can also be cultivated.

Finally, I suggested that parents also have their own enlightenment, and it is also good to listen to their opinions.

How can it be dark? Everyone has their own strengths, and there is always a job that suits them and a way of living that suits them. Don't be discouraged, friend, spring has arrived, and there is hope everywhere.