How to tell if a girl is pretending to be reserved

I like to be able to see it in my eyes", liuxk326 said it well, I agree. Let me share my opinion. Most lovers start as friends, which means that two people will get along normally before becoming lovers, and they will fall in love with each other over time, and they will chat like friends when they have not yet understood the relationship between lovers.

So I'll say a simple way to let a person know if the other person has a crush on him. Suppose one day you are chatting and "unconsciously" you talk about men and women between friends or classmates, and you can ask each other half-jokingly and half-seriously, "Do you like me?"

If a boy asks a girl, because of the girl's reserve and shyness, most of them will not "be honest with each other", and the extroverted girl may appear "Cut, who likes you" and "You didn't take the wrong medicine" and something like this seems to be a "joke"; Introverted girls will generally lower their heads and dare not look at you, and may pause for a while and then say, "Why do you suddenly ask like this"; This means that she doesn't "hate" you, you know? Otherwise, it means that she has no intention of being boyfriend and girlfriend with you. If a girl asks a boy, because boys express their feelings more openly than girls, they may stare at you seriously or pretend to be casual while saying "why did you suddenly ask like this", trying to see from your expression that you "what kind of medicine is sold in the gourd"; This shows that he has a crush on you; If he immediately jokes when you ask him, "I like it, I've always had a crush on you" or something like that, it means that he only treats you as a friend.

As for why the other party has such a reaction, comparing the heart to the heart, it is very simple to reason, it is because if the other party likes you, he (she) also wants to know whether you like him (her) or not. The above methods are suitable for young men and women between the ages of 15 and 25; The question must be asked in a "two-person world", that is, there are only two people and no outsiders. I don't know if I made it clear, hehe.

In front of you, I will never have too much contact with Tan Di with you, and I will be very shy when I see you, and I will never take the initiative to ask you to go out, in fact, such a girl likes to let Lu you in her heart.

Although she didn't promise Cong Hui to be your girlfriend, she still chatted with you every day, treated you very well, and gave you a gift of regret, which shows that she is pretending to be reserved and she likes you in her heart.

Boys must understand the purpose of pretending to be reserved, and the general behavior is to make you and the other party just show up, so boys must understand this behavior, so that two people can get along better.

There is a saying that you don't guess a girl's mind, you can't guess it. It's hard to guess what a girl thinks, and when a guy is pursuing a girl, the girl's attitude is always very hazy, so that the boy doesn't know what to do.

Because it is not clear whether girls are reserved or don't like themselves, in fact, at this time, what boys have to learn is to accurately figure out the girl's mind, and accurately judge whether the girl is reserved or has no feelings for you?

First of all, when a guy asks a girl, if a girl is reserved, she may refuse the first time you ask for a date. The second time, she will be very shy to agree with you to come out and go on a date with you.

If a girl has no feelings for you, the first rejection, the second rejection, including the third rejection. At this time, the boy should pay attention, she is not reserved, she has no feelings for you.

If a girl is reserved, for example, chatting with you, there happens to be something to do, and then the girl will talk to you for a while, and after a while, the girl will say to you: Ah, finally busy. This is reserved, if you say that you are rejected, the girl is directly telling you that she is busy, and then she will not be busy all the time, and she will not take care of you, this is called rejection, and she doesn't feel anything about you.

There is also a slightly bold attempt, which is to judge whether the girl has feelings for you from the action. If you say that when you go out on a date with a girl, you can take the way of touching your head, if a girl is not too disgusted with you, you touch the girl's head in a caressing way, and the girl will not have too strong disgust.

If a girl doesn't feel for you, or doesn't like you, if you try to touch the girl's head, she will avoid it directly, and even have an expression of disgust, in this case, it is not reserved, but disgusted. In fact, in addition to touching the head, there are some, for example, when crossing the street, gently wrap the girl's waist with your hand, at this time, if the girl dodges directly, she will not feel you.

If you accept your hand around her waist, because crossing the street itself is a dangerous thing, as long as the girl is not disgusted with you, she will agree to you holding her waist with your hand.

There is also a situation when two people meet by chance, for example, in a place. If that girl blushes and lowers her head and looks at you shyly, then congratulations and has a little feeling for you. If you pretend not to know each other and avoid it if you can, you just don't want to say hello to you.

At this time, you have a good idea of what you should do.

Therefore, it is very important for boys to accurately judge the minds of girls, and if girls can continue to attack if they are reserved, they must have a chance. If the girl refuses, then simply give up and don't bother thinking about it anymore, the girl is not chasing, but attracting.

1. True rejection will have a firm tone, and false reserve will be a desire to refuse and welcome.

If a woman really rejects you, then she will behave very firmly, for fear that you will not understand. And she is fake reserved, then she will say that it's okay, don't, this kind of seemingly very tactful and polite words, in fact, is not firm at all, then this is to refuse and welcome. It's like a confession similar to a definite relationship, if a woman really refuses, then she will say to you, we are not suitable, and then the contact with you will be reduced.

Because a woman doesn't want to make herself look too casual, she will also refuse a little. That's when she'll say, it's not good, or I'm thinking about it. Then you have to know that this kind of rhetoric is a woman's desire to refuse and welcome, and the surface refuses but is not firm, that is, I hope you work harder, then she will agree to you.

2. True rejection will show a sense of distance, and fake reserve will be shy.

When you meet and go on a date, as a man, you naturally have to take the initiative to send the woman home, at this time you make this request, if the woman is very dissatisfied with the date, then she will show a sense of distance, and will quickly say to you: "No need, no need, it's convenient for me to go back alone." She will deliberately emphasize and give a specific reason, that is, she wants to reduce the chance of getting along with you, which is a real refusal.

On the other hand, if she says, it will be too much trouble for you, so don't worry about it. This is fake reserve, this sentence is more of a shy component, because her rhetoric is for you, and she actually has a certain impression of you.

3. True rejection is no longer heeding, and false reserve is duplicity.

If a woman really rejects you, then her performance towards you will be very obvious, that is, to reduce her association with you. Whether you are chatting with her or looking for her to go out, it is simply not necessary to go and have no time. This is the real rejection of you, and on the contrary, the false reserve will also reject, but it is duplicity.

For example, if you say that you invite her to dinner, she will say forget it, and you will be embarrassed to spend money and not go. At this time, you can invite again, because she is obviously thinking about you and is not firm in her position.

In short, a woman is a subtle animal, if you want to understand her heart, don't look at her words, but look at her demeanor, this is the most important trick I have summed up to see a woman's mood.

For example, if the other party really rejects you, it will show a sense of distance and even a little impatient. But if the other party is reserved, they will behave very shyly, and their stance will not be firm, and even the eyes looking at you will be full of ambiguity. At this time, the woman is not really rejecting you, but wants you to be more proactive!

You directly start to flirt with the next young lady and see what she does, if she is in a hurry, she is fake and reserved.

If a girl really refuses, she will say it directly, because if she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it, so why pretend to be reserved.

This is yes, true rejection is to say it directly, or tell you in another way, that is, to say something that we are not suitable or something like that, this is true rejection, and she doesn't say so or refuse, this is reserved.

That's too general! It depends on your age, your environment, and how you look (no personal attacks). If it was junior high school or high school, it might be reserved. If you work in society, there are not many reserved people in this year, depending on looks and money.

Try to talk to her every day and ignore you, if she doesn't like you, she won't chat with you.

It depends on whether she really did that after saying this, for example, some girls say that they don't want to drink drinks, but they actually buy them.

If she hesitates to refuse, it is reserved, and if she refuses decisively, it is a real refusal.

You can ask her out and try holding her hand during the game to see if she says no or accepts.

You can tempt and take her hand, and if you don't resist, you are reserved.

Find her directly and make it clear to her face to face that if you reject you, it is a real rejection.

I don't know when "initiative" became a derogatory term.

Boys don't dare to take the initiative too much, for fear that they will be too good to a girl and be evaluated as a spare tire by others, of course, there is a more ugly title.

Girls don't dare to take the initiative too much, for fear that they will take the initiative to chase someone, and it seems that no one wants them, and it is too cheap, so they need to post it upside down.

So, those once those warm frankness, lovely sincerity, brave dedication.

1. Suddenly it has become rare to see, and many people are on the road of emotion and want to protect themselves.

As everyone knows, a lot of regrets and a lot of misses also start from this moment.

A girl's initiative is to pursue the love she wants and achieve her own life, which is a rare courage, not a wrong operation.

So don't have too many opinions about active secondariness, not to mention, girls take the initiative cheaply, which is fake in itself.

Girls who are brave enough to chase love are actually more likely to be cherished!!

Girls should be more proactive, if you are just a man who comes to you, then most of the people you are waiting for are scumbags. Because the active girl is not only the active party, but also the controller of feelings. What is controlled is what kind of person you want to pursue, whether you want to give up the pursuit, and the development of your feelings.

Because the active girl is not only the active party, but also the controller of feelings.

What is controlled is what kind of person you want to pursue, whether you want to give up the pursuit, and the development of your feelings.