How cruel is reality in the face of love, and how fragile is love?

This problem is a problem that many women in today's society are troubled by, and if a woman can still have enviable love after entering the palace of marriage, this is undoubtedly the success of this woman. However, in the marriages I have learned, there are many people who marry for the sake of marriage, not for love, and this kind of person is often defeated by life, or by reality. <>

Let's not talk about the high-level aspect of marriage, now it's just about falling in love, and many girls will also take into account many practical problems. However, adolescent boys and girls are certainly not affected by this trouble. The love in college can be said to be very pure, and both men and women choose to be together because they like this person, and they don't think about his family's financial situation.

The relationship at that time was very simple, love is love, and not love is not love. <>

Before we really entered society, we were not polished by worldly accidents, we are still angular young people who dare to love and hate. But when we graduate from school, our friends and classmates have their own life plans, and maybe some of them are separated, and we will never see each other again in this life. There are also many sweet couples who choose to break up during graduation season, and they may not be in love, but they can't love.

After graduation, some people choose to go to graduate school, some people choose to work, and both men and women may not develop in the same city, so how many couples can survive a long-distance relationship? So in reality, love is very fragile in front of it. <>

After graduation, it is a one-man life, and when you are tired of working alone in a city, you will also have the idea of falling in love, but at this time, you have to consider many factors when you fall in love. Often the older a woman is, the more she thinks about it when she falls in love, for example, many people ask the man to have a house and a car, which is indeed a very realistic thing. When a woman is no longer young, she does not have the years to accompany you to develop from poverty.

Everyone's attitude towards love is different, and some people can put love above all else, so they will not give in in to the cruel reality. But under the huge oppression of reality, this is only a minority, and many more people will choose to succumb to reality and bow to reality.

Anyone should know how difficult the adult world really is. Life, work, material, family, money, interpersonal relationships, etc., everything needs to be faced, solved, and conquered. And if you are not careful, you will not be able to deal with it well, and if there is only one place that goes wrong, then the peaceful life may be broken immediately.

It is said that the collapse of adults is only in a moment, and this is very real. And so that we have no pressure to survive, and falling in love is simply because of love. And when we become adults, we face not only love, but also huge pressure from reality, which is the so-called facing reality.

Under the pressure of great reality, two people may quarrel over all kinds of little things in life. As an example, have you ever seen someone who has been in a relationship for almost 10 years and finally broke up because of reality? 10 years, what is the concept must be known to everyone, this is almost 1 8 in our lives.

After such a long period of love, it will eventually lose to reality, so reality is very cruel in the face of love.

So how fragile is love in the face of reality?

Life is nothing more than firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, all things come together, and then two people snuggle up to each other and survive together. Although it seems simple, in fact, there will still be many difficulties, whether it is in terms of housing and transportation, or in terms of food. And as people get older, they think more and more, so the oppression of reality will become more and more.

But even so, we can't lose faith in love. Although the reality is cruel, we must also manage love with our hearts and strive to have our own happiness.

Adults often have multiple choice questions about love and bread to choose, if it is a hungry love, then how can they have the energy to maintain it, therefore, they must have food and clothing to have the foundation of love.

Love can't be measured by money, love is very fragile, love is very unworthy of testing in the face of reality, so love is very fragile.

Love is very cruel in the face of reality, firewood, rice, oil and salt are all obstacles on the road to love, and love is very fragile in front of money.

Love is inseparable from the foundation of reality, and it will also ruthlessly hit feelings, and under the effect of interests, money and status, love is easy to betray.

It's just because reality is too cruel and love is too fragile.

1. How hard do you have to work to forget those unforgettable memories.

2. I just don't want you to worry, but I lost your heart.

3. A person's world, a person's life, what is deduced.

4. How much place I have in my heart, only I can explain it best.

5. There is a kind of longing called fake, and there is a kind of love called writing.

6. You are my dependence, and you can always make the blank me full of expectations.

7. Missing, there is no cautious banquet temperature, but it can make people rely on each other.

8. Memories invaded me unscrupulously, and tears turned into never-ending sorrow.

9. A lifelong promise, but now I have forgotten it completely.

10. I'm not a gray wolf, and I won't come back if I'm gone.

11, the slimness of being at ease with your wishes, and the emptiness of Chilu is as always.

12. I smile hard to cover up my sadness, isn't that enough?

13. Those bad memories are left to the hourglass.

14. When there is nothing to say to each other, the relationship will end.

15. I want to be with you forever, but I just think about it.

16. I don't want to look back, there is too much sadness buried in me.

17. The most perfect wound hidden, but the most fatal pain.

18. No matter what, in the end it's still a stranger, that's all.

19. Love you, leave you, a heart has been broken.

20. Only a tragic fairy tale will not be forgotten.

21. I only care about you when time passes in a hurry, and I am willing to infect your breath.

22. If you don't love each other one day, what will be left of each other.

23. Promises, oaths, always seem so pale and powerless in the face of reality.

24. My love, to you, will always be irrelevant.

25. I stayed in the depths of my memory, looking for residual happiness.

26. I have already given up, but I have never been willing to leave.

27. Feelings are like a game, and sometimes you have to hang up.

28. There are some pains, and it has become a habit to endure the pain for a long time.

29. Sometimes, some people leave without saying goodbye.

30. I tried my best to save everything, but I couldn't find a reason to get back together.

31. Use the time when a flower blooms to tell my thoughts about you.

32. The ending is too sad because the process is too sad.

33. The past has gradually disappeared, and the past is remembered.

34. Just because reality is too cruel and love is too fragile.

35. In the past, you were a trace of injury, but now it is just a memory.

36. Memories are like fallen leaves blowing beside me, and I can't catch the patterns that disappear in an instant.

37. A lonely landing, only loneliness is left in the wide silver crowd.

People are always vulnerable in the face of love, which is a psychological feeling that everyone will inevitably experience in the process of falling in love. Psychologists divide the psychology of love into two typical periods, namely the sweet period and the run-in period. Only a lover or couple who can survive the run-in period can live a relatively stable life and have a stable psychological experience and communication mode.

However, for lovers who have just entered the run-in period, this time is painful and wandering, with a lot of contradictions and dissatisfactions, which often come from the self-feeling of frustration or frustration of the expectations and requirements of the other party. In the process of love, one party often expects the other party to care more about themselves and understand themselves, and their psychology will become particularly sensitive to this. These manifestations are normal from a psychological point of view, and they are the root cause of nothing to do during the run-in period.

You have to learn to face it correctly and pay attention to following a few principles. First, don't build barriers between yourself and the other party and block the way of communication. Secondly, don't think too much about the relationship between each other, thinking that if you ignore me, I won't ignore you.

The third is to communicate in a timely and smooth manner and express your feelings clearly. When you are upset, be sure to tell him directly to your face that she is feeling and express your concerns. If you care about the other person, the principle of your conversation must be to maintain a good relationship with each other.

There is always a time when the run-in period passes, but there are also many people who don't! This is a time to test one's emotional intelligence, don't take care of each other's concerns according to your own emotions! Know how to communicate, break down barriers!

If you face the fragility of your heart but can still face it calmly, then there is a way out for your feelings.

I think so too. Because people now have the phenomenon of fast food feelings, they are not particularly serious and rigorous in treating feelings, and many feelings cannot stand the test, and they can't withstand the slow noise and grinding of reality, so they are very fragile.

I also think so, modern love can't stand the test, and after being together for a long time, they will choose to separate in the end.

I think so too, because there are a lot of people who can't accept a breakup.

Summary. Hello Kiss There are the following reasons why such love will be crushed by reality: 1. The fantasy of the other party is too perfect.

There is a beautiful yearning for love, which is of course supported by the society, if there is no hope and yearning for these positive energy, then how can it be possible to pursue a better life with practical actions. Then our society will also stagnate and will not be able to progress. 2. Love on campus is beautiful without a good job, because there are no other burdens to consider, as long as two people take care of themselves, they can spend money without worry.

At this time, the little couples feel very happy, and this person seems to be their destined partner.

What kind of love will be crushed by reality?

Hello Kiss There are the following reasons why such love will be crushed by reality: 1. The fantasy of the other party is too perfect. There is a beautiful yearning for love, which is of course supported by the society, if there is no hope and yearning for these positive energy, then how can it be possible to pursue a better life with practical actions.

Then our society will also stagnate and will not be able to progress. 2. Love on campus is beautiful without a good job, because there are no other burdens to consider, as long as two people take care of themselves, they can spend money without worry. At this time, the little couples feel very happy, and this person seems to be their destined partner.

3. The values of two people are very different, and when they fall in love on campus, they are the most carefree, because they don't have to think about anything. Although the values of the two people may be very different, it does not affect the relationship between you, because you will not talk about some topics that are closely related to values at all. 4. Long-distance relationships are now very common, some people can accept it, and some people firmly disagree.

Everyone has their own opinions, and these are understandable. If you are in a long-distance relationship when you are in love, you may be able to stick to it slowly, after all, there is no such thing as buying a house and the economy. But if you are still in a different place when you work, and you are still facing a different place when you talk about marriage, then you have to think about it, many times such a marriage will not be accepted by both parents, they will have a lot of worries, and the young couple should also be prepared to endure hardships.

Therefore, the love that is defeated by reality has this common reason, and couples should avoid it as soon as possible.