Thirty Only Some people say that Gu Jia is too strong, and Xu Huanshan has no sense of achievement

This is, of course, machismo. Machismo men always want to be better than their other half, and they expect to be able to get a sense of adoration from their other half; Xu Huanshan himself is not motivated and immature, but he blames Gu Jia for being too strong, which is really speechless, his sense of accomplishment should be obtained from work, not from Gu Jia.

Machismo men expect to be able to get a sense of worship from their other halfMachismo men always expect themselves to be stronger than their other half, and hope that their other half will obey them, so he will feel a sense of authority and achievement, so generally macho men will prefer those girls who are not strong. This is also why Gu Jia's business is getting bigger and bigger, and when he is busy with the tea factory, Xu Huanshan and Lin Youyou are together, because he can feel the need from Lin Youyou, and feel Lin Youyou's worship of him, and he likes this feeling of worship very much.

Xu Huanshan's lack of sense of accomplishment has nothing to do with whether Gu Jia is strong or not, it is because he is not motivated and immature After Xu Huanshan betrayed Gu Jia, there were also viewers who spoke for Xu Huanshan, thinking that Gu Jia was too strong and caused Xu Huanshan to have no sense of achievement, so Xu Huanshan fell into Lin Youyou's trap and did not hesitate to abandon his happy family. Such a statement is very wrong, Xu Huanshan's lack of sense of accomplishment has nothing to do with whether Gu Jia is strong or not, it is because he is not motivated and immature, so he will be jealous of Gu Jia's career is getting better and better.

He couldn't see that Gu Jia could succeed in everything he did, so he poured cold water on Gu Jia, hoping that Gu Jia could give up the tea factory, because Gu Jia's excellence made him see that he was not excellent, and he couldn't accept that Gu Jia was better than him. Xu Huanshan himself is an unmotivated and immature person, he originally just wanted to be a fireworks designer, but later he was pushed by Gu Jia to open a fireworks company, even if he became the boss, he was still immature and fought with customers. Even if Gu Jia is not strong, he will get together with Lin Youyou, because he doesn't know how to reject girls, and he enjoys the girls' admiration for him.

This is not machismo, but a marriage state in which women are strong and men are weak, so this marriage did not come to an end.

I think so, because a macho person doesn't like his other half to be stronger than himself, he wants his other half to be dependent on him.

Thirty only" Xu Huanshan is indeed a bit machismo. But the strength of the estimate is precisely caused by Xu Huanshan's own ability.

This should be regarded as machismo, but it is obviously Xu Huanshan, and he himself is not capable.

The final outcome of the two of them was divorce, and Xu Huanshan went to prison because of his own fireworks factory.

The endings of Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia were very bad, Gu Jia lived alone, and Xu Huanshan was in prison.

The two chose to divorce, and Xu Huanshan was imprisoned because of fireworks, and this ending was also more tragic.

Xu Huanshan fell in love with other people because he failed to understand Gu Jia's good intentions, and he felt the happiness of "freedom" around others.

Because wildflowers are more fragrant than house flowers. Eating too much dragon meat at home, getting tired of eating, and wanting to eat the roadside stalls outside, this is like eating too much lobster, and occasionally eating instant noodles is also very fragrant.

Maybe it has something to do with Gu Jia's perfection. Gu Jia is very capable, she takes care of her career and family very thoughtfully, for her husband's career, she can even retreat behind the scenes to become the woman behind her husband's background, "add tiles and bricks" to her husband's career, and save her husband's career many times.

There is nothing wrong with Gu Jia being very good, but whether it is in his career or family, Gu Jia has to be the absolute controller, many things are not what Xu Huanshan wants to do, but Gu Jia forced him to do it, because Gu Jia is too strong and can't get any sense of identity, so Xu Huanshan is destined to lack recognition in his heart.

Gu Jia is tired in this relationship, Zhong Xiaoqin can still cry and cry to her best friend to say bad things about her husband, what about her, how much humiliation he suffered, he basically went home with a calm and breezy face. Xu Huanshan saw that there was no problem at the beginning, but the more he looked at the problem, the bigger it became, and Gu Jia, who was desperate to maintain perfection, raised a very naïve other half.

Xu Huanshan didn't grow up. His growth is reflected in many places, the most important thing is the mental "young". He can call himself an "artist" and indulge in the sophistication of fireworks design, but when he is already at the helm of a company, he must take the initiative to give up his freedom of mind and think about everything.

What is the same as Party A who gives money - or the most critical Party A, a head-on conflict, ask any young man who writes a public account, he knows that he can't do it, and he wilfully destroyed customer resources, only to wake up to "the original company will be so affected by the loss of customers". This is especially not like the thinking of a normal CEO.

Episode reviews

From the perspective of three 30-year-old urban women, "Thirty Only" discusses the plight of women in the workplace and life at this age node. The three women, with different identity backgrounds and different living environments, represent three different classes, and also represent the three states of women who are unmarried and childless, married and childless, and married and childbearing.

Although the play also has cliché episodes, there is a lot less dog blood sprayed in daily life, and there is no drunkenness and exaggeration, but it shows their way of looking at life and treating life at the age of 30 - in the face of a life full of crises, they are not compromised, they are not discouraged, and they live their own lives.

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Lin Youyou's admiration for Xu Huanshan satisfies the vanity of men very well, on the other hand, looking at his wife Gu Jia's selfless dedication in real life, it seems to be a matter of course.

Because Gu Jia is excellent in all aspects, Xu Huanshan is a little ashamed of himself when facing Gu Jia, feeling that he can't show his manhood, he wants to find a woman who worships him.

Because Gu Jia put too much pressure on him, Gu Jia wanted to make this family better and better, but his choice only represented his own ideas, and he didn't pay enough attention to some of Xu Huanshan's ideas.

Xu Huanshan doesn't know how to cherish it, and he has no sense of accomplishment or worship in his wife.

Xu Huanshan is not Gu Jia, he can't bear so much.

Thirty only. The ending of Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan was that the two divorced.

In the ending of "Thirty Only", Gu Jia visited Xu Huanshan in prison, Xu Huanshan looked much haggard, and even his beard grew long. Xu Huanshan said that he didn't care about it inside, and everything affected Gu Jia alone.

Gu Jia told him that the company was closed, the rest of the things were taken care of, the house was sold, and the tea factory was on the right track to keep her and Xu Ziyan's lives, and she reassured Xu Huanshan. Xu Huanshan lowered his head and pondered for a long time, and suddenly raised his head and filed for divorce from Gu Jia, saying that he would ask the lawyer to redraft an agreement. Gu Jia was stunned, and then she nodded in agreement.

It can be seen from the online plot that Gu Jia's tea sales encountered problems again, and several times the publicity was not ideal, and in the end, finding a large number of publicity had no effect, which was equivalent to spending money in vain again. WhenXu Huanshan heard that his wife had failed to toss again, and then lost patience and was full of disgust, and even broke free from his wife's embrace and had a showdown with her.

Xu Huanshan directly clarified his position, refused to continue to invest in Gu Jia, and even complained in his tone, sarcastically consuming too much money from the fireworks company before and after.

Faced with her husband's attitude, Gu Jia was also very shocked and disappointed, she suddenly turned red and asked Xu Huanshan, can the fireworks company have today's results, and she has no credit and hard work?

Seeing her husband's true face clearly, Gu Jia's stubbornness immediately struck, but she was always unwilling to give up the tea factory, and finally told her husband word by word that no matter whether the tea factory succeeds or fails in the future, she will not spend a penny on the fireworks company.

Their previous relationship seemed to have no problem on the surface, but its essence has changed, for example, Gu Jia didn't let him eat dinner all the year round for Xu Huanshan's body, even if she accompanied him to drink juice, but her compulsion would still make Xu Huanshan feel dissatisfied, she always asked him in a commanding way, just like her own son, there was no room for negotiation, which would invisibly give Xu Huanshan a kind of pressure and complaints, and Lin Youyou dragged him to eat all kinds of food, At this time, Xu Huanshan no longer thought about his body, and his spirit was relaxed and happy. For example, there is a lack of cores, Xu Huanshan came home, saw that Gu Jia was installing the table, he offered to help, Gu Jia refused, he could only go in and take a bath, he felt that this home didn't seem to need him, but in Lin Youyou's place, he helped install the table, Lin Youyou looked at him with admiration, which made him regain his sense of confidence, he knew that he was needed, which made him feel a sense of accomplishment. For another example, Gu Jia is a very independent woman, probably related to her life experience since she was a child, she is always very strong, used to any decision she makes, and she is used to what she can do and never bother others, even her husband.

Because Gu Jia's ability is stronger than Xu Huanshan, this has caused huge pressure on Xu Huanshan, as if he has become useless, Lin Youyou's appearance gave him a different feeling, she is obsessed with Xu Huanshan, and is obsessed with him like a brainless fan. In Xu Huanshan's eyes, there is such a little girl who gave up everything she originally had and ran to him wholeheartedly, he is the only one in the whole world, and he who has refused once or twice, how can he bear to break his heart again.

Life is such a seepage gauge that is burning high.

It's not that she will avoid this because she is excellent, but a man's Duan Qing has a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and has self-restraint.

First, this man is too irresponsible!

Looking at the play, you will find that Xu Huanshan enjoys his wife's dedication to the family very much.

Not only enjoying, but also depending. When he encounters a problem, his wife can solve it, and if his wife can't solve it, he will complain that his wife is not doing well.

If you look at it from a psychological point of view, this husband not only treats his wife as a wife, but sometimes also as a mother.

Article **1 Second, this man is too idle!

Gu Jia is a perfect woman, like many female friends, she dedicates all her time to her career and family, and does not let her husband worry about it.

But I want to remind my female friends that your husband doesn't do anything in such a big package, which will cause two major consequences: he is very idle, and he has no sense of participation at home.

Female friends must not give too much, life needs a sense of participation, and if men don't get a sense of participation at home, it is easy to run out to find a sense of participation, just like Xu Huanshan.

Article **2 Thirdly, this lover has the means!

From the perspective of the third party Lin Youyou: Xu Huanshan has a successful career, handsome, and her marriage just has problems, and judging comprehensively, she feels that she has a great possibility of being on top.

This woman looks at people and things steadily, accurately and ruthlessly, and is a high-ranking third party.

Because there's no novelty between them. In the process of working forward, Gu Jia has gradually thrown away his naïve side, but Xu Huanshan is still immersed in his ideal world. The two people's understanding of love and life requirements are also different, Gu Jia is a big sister mentality, she is thinking and planning for Xu Huanshan, her son, and this family all the time, but Xu Huanshan is still in the stage of falling in love, he wants to be relied on and trusted, but he doesn't see that his innocence makes Gu Jia insecure.

Meeting Lin Youyou completely stimulated his desire to protect, and his self-confidence that was repeatedly hit in his relationship, in fact, the ending of Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan was doomed, without Lin Youyou, there would be Li Youyou and Wang Youyou, because the doctoral students and primary school students in love are destined to not go to the end.

I hope that the girls can love themselves well, strive to make themselves better and stronger, don't be bound by a failed relationship, the right to choose is in your hands, like Gu Jia, face yourself bravely, follow your heart, you will always meet the next companion in the long road of life.

Perfect people naturally put pressure on others.

Not all people are comfortable with personality pressure.

Escape is the choice of most people.