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The reason why many people have a great prejudice against single women is because there are many of them. is more patriarchal and feudal, and thinks that girls should get married, not single.
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Because I think this is a kind of feudal thinking is more one-sided, I think only the older generation will be prejudiced against single women, and it is very big, because they think that women should get married and have children, and then raise husbands and children at home, I think these are some rotten concepts.
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Because that's what people are. Many times it is unfair, girls themselves are a discriminated group, some people see that girls are always single, as if they are not good people, there may be many kinds in the world, but it is caused by the narrow thinking of some people.
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Because there is sexism in this world, people don't think there is anything wrong with single men, but they think that single women are problematic. If a man doesn't get married, people won't talk about anything, but if a woman doesn't get married, they will talk about her and point fingers at her.
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In my opinion, the reason why many people are very prejudiced against single women may be that single women do not experience the sweetness of love, they do not understand the beauty of love, they do not understand some things about feelings, and others feel that they cannot communicate.
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The reason why many people are very prejudiced against single women is that they think that those women are very bad, because good people have been married, so they will be prejudiced.
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I think it should be that the current society thinks that single women are not good enough, so they don't find a partner, so they always directly feel that they will definitely have some shortcomings, so they can't find a partner.
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Many people are very prejudiced against single women because there are still a lot of topics for older women and young women in this society, in fact, I think this is a very bad phenomenon, and I am quite helpless.
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Nowadays, most people discriminate against single people, in fact, because many people are still single when they reach the age, and others will think that you are out of place in this environment. A normal person's life will always go through the following stages, from birth to growth, then marriage and childbirth, and finally aging. Unless you're in it for some noble ideals, you should get married and have children when you grow up, so it's not normal to look single.
Being single does not conform to the laws of social development, and we can't seem to do anything why we want to get married, but everyone has to do it. We won't discuss why we get married, people in real life, do face the choice of getting married and having children. Most of them get married and have children when they are of the right age, and a few are still single when they are older, and they don't look the same, and the differences are often not understood.
When the phenomenon of unmarried at the right age is considered abnormal, people are curious about the cause of this abnormality.
No matter how both sides explain it, everyone will come according to their own life experiences and thoughts, so this reason will be interpreted as a negative problem, and some people will think that it is a physical problem, a moral problem, a mental problem, and a family problem, and there are all kinds of things, and all parties become problematic people, so they are discriminated against. In China, this kind of person who is still single at the age of marriage has a lot of pressure from the family and even society. Women are especially stressed compared to men.
There is a lot of talk in society, and such rhetoric puts older young women on the brink of stress.
They are afraid to see their shortcomings and often deceive themselves and others. Just like some people know that hard work is useful, but they don't persevere, they hope that others don't persevere, or deceive themselves. It's not easy for young people who are still single and still holding on to their ideas.
Stress can easily make people compromise with reality, especially when the people close to them don't support themselves. You have to protect what you hold onto, which means you have to pay the cost, it could be the cost of other people's accusations and cynicism, but it could also be a contradiction with your parents.
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Because these people think that single people must be those who have no money, no ability, no car, no house and physical problems.
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Because many single men and women have certain problems with their thoughts, and secondly, because of such men and women, they can't find them because of their personal character.
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Because there are many people who think that having an object is a very beautiful thing, so this situation will occur.
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There are a variety of factors that lead to more and more women choosing to be single, including social factors, personal factors, and family factors.
In terms of social factors, the status of women in society has improved. In ancient times, the status of women was very low, and they needed to depend on men to live, but now, with equal job opportunities, more and more women are engaged in all walks of life, there is no shortage of executives, high-level positions, and every adult woman creates her own value at work, which is enough to support herself and make her life more satisfying, so that she can achieve the life she wants without relying on men. Secondly, there are frequent social news, and there are too many examples of unhappy marriages, which makes many women afraid of marriage.
The various ** caused by the discord between the husband and wife due to interests and feelings are chilling, and the women who have suffered the most are not compensated as they should be, or have no opportunity to start a new life, which makes people full of doubts about marriage.
In terms of personal factors, being single makes you happy, so you are single. Some people are used to being single, and they will not be lonely when they do their own things, they will enjoy themselves, they have family, friends, pets, and many beautiful things in their lives, and their other half will not get used to it, and they will feel that it hinders them from doing what they like. Some people have been hurt in the process of dating, and they will worry that the next relationship will also be hurt, or they feel that their life after dating is not as happy as being single, so they tend to be single.
As far as family factors are concerned, the relationship between parents may affect children. If a person has been in a family environment where his parents quarrel since he was a child, he can't feel the love between his parents, and he doesn't understand why two people want to get married, and marriage seems to bring boundless disappointment and sadness. In adulthood, there may be a little less trust in your partner, and this relationship is often short-lived, and you don't want to find it, so if it's painful, then don't.
In short, being single is a trend and a personal choice, and we don't need to maliciously speculate on others, respect others' decisions, and encourage and help each other as female companions.
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I, who am also a girl, think that women are more reluctant to find a partner for some reason, and they are "actively single". So what makes some women prefer to be single rather than get married?
Nowadays, they are capable of working and can live a good life on their own. They are independent, have friends, and have hobbies, but when they have the other half, many things will be constrained, they will be unhappy because of the friction between the other party and themselves, and they will quarrel because of disagreements with the other party. This kind of life is not what they want anymore.
Women enjoy being single and enjoying the free configuration of time, and they are no longer willing to enter the cage of marriage and love
In real life, women give up their jobs and self for the sake of marriage, they work hard and complain, but in the end they get a lot of complaints from their husbands, who are arrogant and useless in the eyes of their husbands. yes,Women give up their dreams and careers for the sake of their families, but they are still disliked by the people they love the most;Therefore, many girls unanimously say after marriage, even if they love each other very much, after marriageThe quality of life is still generally declining
The reason why many people choose to be single may not be as complicated as we think, and their reasons are often very simple, either they are demanding, or they really don't want to be in love. Marriage is a major event in the life of each of us, and we can't be sloppy, let alone not. It is said that it is not you who believe in love when you meet love, it is youBelieve in love, you will meet love
Whatever your reasons for choosing to be single, we should understand.
In fact,Love is beautiful and happy, but the disappointment after love to the extreme is another scenery, and at that time you may only feel pain and helplessness. I don't know if you've ever heard such a sentence".It's not that being single chooses me, it's that I choose being single”。With the development of the times and the improvement of cultural and educational levels, everyone's work pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and there is less and less leisure time, and it is difficult to have time to manage a good relationship, and women's hearts still enjoy being single more.
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<>As a contemporary woman, I think from a personal point of view, because girls don't actually have a great need for love now, maybe in other words, love is not a necessity for her, "It's good to have nature, and it doesn't matter if you don't have it."
There are also one or two examples around each of us, women who are in good condition in all aspectsor unwilling to give in, or helpless, or voluntarily chose to live alone。As the term leftover women suggests, in China today, this is more or less seen as a social problem, but looking at it from another angleThat's a good thing at all
It's not that every woman has to be single, but at least being single can be an option in their lives, giving them full freedom, and they don't have to be married as before, regardless of their personal wishes and ideals, and whether they are suitable for marriage. Now, as the book says,This situation has been broken, and modern women have more freedom of choice, and they have a myriad of paths to choose from, which meander and intersect, with love, sex, partnership, parenthood, career, and friendship, each stretching forward at different speeds
Actually, it's not so much that it isSingle womenThe question is not so badThe emancipation of the individualIn other words, the phenomenon of single women is, in the final analysis, the logical result of the development of individualism, but women, as individuals, have to break free from various social constraints and gain freedom of choice, more than menDifficultNothing more.
Although there are many single women nowadays who have been dreaming of meeting the prince charming who belongs to them one day, there are more and more women who prefer to believe:"Being single is happier and freer".
Of course, no matter whether you are actively single or passively single, as long as you choose the life state you like and live a person's life to the fullest, this is the winner in life. In the future,"It's good to have you, it's okay to live without you."
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In talking to others, you will find that there are many girls who have different views on beautiful love, some hope to get love, and some think that it is better to be free, in fact, most women are single nowadays, seeking reasons, nothing more than fear of being hurt or being alone.
One, the fear of being hurt by others.
For some girls, love is painful, when she finds someone who loves her, she does not hesitate to put her gentleness, thoughtfulness, patience, and thoughts on each other, but then she did not keep him. This is really a very big blow to a girl, so that in his later life, he slowly closed his heart, even if he met the boy he liked, Yan would rather miss it than be hurt again, from then on she was afraid to fall in love, believing that it was the best choice for her to go alone.
Second, it's good to think you're alone.
Nowadays, women are getting better and better, they can drive their own cars to earn their own money, support themselves, feel that they don't need the company of men in their lives, think that men are superfluous, and when you need him to accompany you, he will work again; When he was done, everything passed, and this kind of hot and cold also made more and more women think that they didn't need the opposite sex in their lives. In our traditional concept, women have to have babies after marriage, and now many women think that marriage seriously restricts their freedom, why do women have to spend a lot of time to watch their children after giving birth, can't they make money, and at home they have to look at the face of their parents-in-law, live a good depressing, which is why many women choose to be single.
As society becomes more and more tolerant of women. Many women choose to be single, and many men are forced to be single, but is it the fault of women, I don't think so, everyone has the right to pursue freedom and happiness, and I hope that those women who have been hurt can really find someone to accompany them for a lifetime; I hope that every woman who is working hard will remain gentle; I hope that every woman can find a significant other half that she can rely on.
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In fact, now many of us will say that older leftover women, so this word is actually not a compliment, most of them discriminate against older women who are single, so they say so, but I think there is no need for us to discriminate against this part of the people.
In fact, in the common impression that older women are leftover. But in fact, some older women, they don't fall in love because they don't want to fall in love, because sometimes, they don't feel the effect of 1+1>2 in love, so they fall in love and don't get any benefits, so they won't start a relationship. And in the eyes of some people, they feel that older women have no advantages, so they will discriminate.
After everyone has a psychology of discrimination, in fact, many boys, he will prefer to be young and beautiful. Although this matter is not inevitable, I think many people should know in their hearts that there are indeed many boys, they all like youth, and they will choose younger girls to fall in love. They won't choose some older women to start their own love.
And when we reach a certain age and do not get married, we will be said to be an older mother, at this time there must be a certain awareness of our physical problems, at this time, if we go to get married and have children, there will be a certain risk, which is why many older women will be discriminated against when they are single.
But I think we shouldn't, there is discrimination against these older single women, love is originally, we have to choose a better person to fall in love, no one wants to be with one who is not self-motivated.
Or is someone who doesn't have any ability, to get married, fall in love, and have children, otherwise only they will work hard. So everyone wants to choose a better one, so in the process of selection, they are just more demanding, and they think that they are not to the point where they want to get married, so they will choose to be single, so why should we discriminate against such people? Because it's their own ideas, and it doesn't hurt us at all.
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