Nowadays, there are more and more Dink families in society, will love without children be happy?

Nowadays, there are more and more Dink families in society, and love without children will be happy,But such happiness is not easy to come by, and there is no one to provide for the elderly. But you Dink family members also need to understand that children are an important bridge to maintain the family. A family may be happy if it has no children, but this happiness does not come easily.

Because children are very important to the family, they do not and do not necessarily affect happiness, and there are still many happy Dink families today.

Dink is not a new concept. There are a lot of young people who don't like children or are worried that they won't be able to take care of them. But few young people are able to persevere, no matter what they think.

After all, in China, no child is considered an incomplete family, and few people can hold on under pressure. But there are also special groups of people who think that Dink's family is happier, so these people can accept such a family, and they will naturally be very happy.

The relationship between the two exhausted the luck of this life when they met. If love can be swayed by a child, I don't think the family can be happy, so don't say that a woman doesn't want to have children because she doesn't love that man. They have a good relationshipBut marriage is not about tying up two people, and if a stable relationship can't make two people comfortable, then what does it matter if Dink is in this relationship.

To sum up, I don't think the Dink family can affect the happiness of a family, let alone be involved in the happiness of a family, so I think love without children will be very happyChildren may also be the fuse of the conflict between the two, if there are fewer children, the two people can also have fewer contradictions, but they must strive for the consent of both parents, so that the love of Dink will be happier.

This still depends on the individual, those who like children think that they will be happier if they have children, and those who like the world of two people don't like the participation of children, and it is normal if there are more Ding Ke.

A marriage without children is a marriage of regret and happiness decreases over time.

I think there's still some happiness, but to be honest, the chances of that happening are very small.

A marriage without children is a marriage of regrets, and men think so, and women think so.

For most people, marrying someone of the opposite sex and having one or two children after reaching a certain age is a conventional life trajectory.

But there are also families where couples choose not to have children for a variety of reasons, and this kind of family is called a "Dink family".

1.In fact, giving birth to a child is quite a painstaking thing, from pregnancy to the child's marriage and childbirth, parents need to be conscientious and full of care. Choosing to be a Dink, couples do not have to face the pressure of having children, they can focus on work and life, not only will reduce stress, but also have more time to be alone with each other, be able to immerse themselves in sweetness, and improve their sense of well-being.

2.There may be no one to provide for in old age.

Since he did not have children, it is likely that there is no one around him to provide for him in his old age. When people get old, they will be unable to move, and their health will become worse and worse than before, and the probability of getting sick will increase significantly. If you are sick, most of the time you can only take care of each other with two people, and you may envy the elderly who have children.

3.Grandma Wang and Grandpa Wang were the first Dink family, and now they are in their seventies. Through understanding, the husband and wife live a very good life, eat and drink every day, often go out for walks and sports, and occasionally go out to travel.

The two accompany each other, still playing like when they were young, and they have deep feelings. Grandma Wang did not feel lonely, thinking that the pressure and troubles of not having children for decades were very relaxed, she and her wife happened to live happily and happily, and they did not regret choosing Dink at all.

4.is also Dink's Grandma Liu, her feelings are diametrically opposed to Grandma Wang. Grandma Liu's wife, who is in her seventies, died of illness a few years ago, and she spent a lot of money on illness.

Grandma Liu's brothers and sisters have also passed away one after another, and gradually, it is difficult for her to find someone to talk to in her ordinary life, and her life is even more difficult. She lives a lonely and helpless life, and often regrets and sighs when faced with an empty home: it would be nice to have a child at that time.

Choosing Dink became the thing she regretted the most.

If you don't have children at home, you don't have a sense of happinessI feel that when I get married, I must have children, so that I am the happiest family, the happiest couple, if I don't have children when I am young, then it is a Dink family, and when I am old, I can only live in a nursing home!

Don't have children when you're young, and live in a nursing home after Lao Huai's nucleus, what are the unspoken rules of the nursing home? I have interviewed countless caregivers, and the answer is surprisingly consistent:

First, being neglected by the staff of the nursing home.

Elderly people who have no children are usually neglected by the staff when they are admitted to nursing homes in their old age. In fact, we can figure out for ourselves why, how can a lonely old man, who has no children, and is not the biological parents of a staff member, take care of them to the best of their ability? And even if he bullies the elderly, the old man is helpless, because there is no child behind him.

If you give birth to children when you are young, even if the children are not so good, even if the children are not so filial, the children are still the strongest backing for the elderly at this time.

Second, if you are not in good health in your later years, most of them will be rejected.

In fact, most of the elderly people that ordinary nursing homes can accept are also physically strong and able to take care of themselves. Because if the elderly are not in good health, they can't take care of themselves and need to be taken care of by others, and no one is willing to do this kind of hard work, even if they spend money. And the body is weak, what happened to Wan Danziyi in the nursing home, the nursing home is also responsible.

Therefore, in order not to have much to do, most of them will refuse to accept the elderly who are not in good health in their later years.

Third, being bullied by other elderly people in nursing homes.

It is a very common thing for the old man to be bullied by the old man in the nursing home, people have a comparison mentality, and the old man's life in the nursing home is a relatively aggrieved thing, so it is inevitable that there will be a little comfort when he sees an old man who is worse than himself. But at the same time, they will also feel that they are superior, so they hold themselves high and show superiority in front of those Dink old men who are in difficult conditions. even relied on the fact that he had children, and there were people behind him, and he bullied him with confidence.

I think you must have children when you get married, and it's better not to get married if you don't have children.

At present, the Dink nationality is prevalent in China, which means that after the husband and wife get married, they choose not to have children, and the husband and wife go to the chain bridge to grow old.

There are many reasons for not having children: first, the cost of raising children is high, and I am afraid that I will not be able to give my children a good quality of life;

After giving birth to a child in the second, the quality of life of both husband and wife will be reduced, and they do not want to lower their life because of the child.

Thirdly, due to family reasons, I have lived in a discordant family since I was a child, and I am afraid that my children will be like myself, and my life will be depressed.

Of course, there are many reasons not to have children after marriage, but the above three are common.

But a family without children is a perfect family, children are the crystallization of the love shed and marriage of the husband and wife, with the elimination of children, there will be more joy in the family, family life will have more color, more conducive to the healthy growth of the family.

In addition, the child is the life guarantee after he is old, and when he has a child, he will have someone to take care of and support him when he has a headache and brain fever, so that he will not live alone after the other half is gone. Therefore, if you don't have children, you choose a couple of Dinks, and your later life is not necessarily happy, in fact, children are investments, and this kind of investment is the warmest in the world and the most likely to return to the capital.

Families that do not have children after marriage belong to the "Dink family". There are too many examples of men regretting remarriage and having children in life, because women's childbearing period is fleeting, even if individual Dink couples can grow old, but the average life expectancy of women is slightly longer than that of men.

To be a dink, you must be very cautious, thoughtful, and think twice before you act, and you need a high degree of agreement between husband and wife. After old age, whether it is the current 30+ age, whether it is physical or psychological, drastic changes will occur.

Those couples who do Dink, some wake up in time and don't do Dink; Some have woken up late, but have lost their fertility and regret it; Some parties regret it, and the other party divorces and then finds someone to marry and have children.

Getting married and not having children does not mean that you are unhappy, on the contrary, maybe the life of two people is very happy and comfortable, and they don't want to share their time, energy and money with others. I have more and more young female friends around me who think this way, and I have also seen husbands and wives who are four, five or six years old, and are still traveling the world every day, cultivating their hobbies and enjoying life.

There are also daily quarrels when they get married and have children, and there are divorces because of children, these are not absolute, it mainly depends on the thoughts of the husband and wife.

In recent years, with the acceleration of the pace of life and the improvement of living standards, the concept of childbearing of Chinese people is also changing. Although there is an ancient adage of "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great", there are still some people who choose Dink, as long as they live happily in this life, they don't think about the next life.

There are two types of people who choose Dink families, one is that they cannot have children due to physical reasons and are unwilling to adopt other people's children, so they have to choose Dink.

The other is because of busy work, when you are young, you are busy working hard, you don't have time to think about having children, and when your career is successful, you lose the best opportunity to have children, or you subjectively and consciously don't want to have children, and you don't want to dedicate your youth to having children.

Coincidentally, these two kinds of people are among my relatives, and both of them are loving and happy. Without the fetters of children, they don't have to think about children's birth and upbringing, education, employment, and starting a family, and their lives are relatively simple.

It is simply to live the life of two people, each other is the only one of each other, as time goes by, these two relatives have also entered middle age, both of them have a fixed salary income, no worries about the elderly, and plan to be old in the future, life can not take care of themselves, go to the nursing home to spend the rest of their lives.

Of course, there are many Dink families, and the reasons for choosing Dink are also different, but no matter what the reason is, I believe that before choosing Dink, the decision was finally made after some careful consideration.

What exists is reasonable, some people like to have more children and grandchildren, some people like to have only one good, and naturally some people choose not to have offspring, as long as the husband and wife reach a consensus and make a good choice, they can live happily ever after. If people drink water and know that they are warm and cold, they are not fish, but how can they know the joy of fish?

I think that as a majority of people with a sense of passing on the tradition, we should express our understanding and wish those Dink families a happy life.

No, as long as the relationship between the husband and wife is very good and voluntary, then they will definitely live a very happy life.

Of course this is not the case, after all, everyone's happiness is different, so it cannot be generalized.

No, some Dink families are also very happy, although they have no children, but the two people are very affectionate, and finally go through the rest of their lives.

In recent years, there have been many divorces with children, and children are not the link between happiness and happiness There are also happy children without children.