Is it good to beat the child all the time, is it good to beat the child often?

Of course it's not good, the child is not sensible, but he can remember, and beating him may not make him change, but it will definitely make him remember your badness. It's best to be patient in everything, teach the baby more, and don't fight at every turn.

It's not good, it will cause rebellion, it's better to coax it, good children are coaxed.

It is definitely not good, one is that it will not achieve the purpose of education, and the other is that it will cause psychological shadows to children.

Of course it's not good, the baby should be educated slowly, and the baby should be reasoned, and it is not good to beat the child.

Of course it's not good, children are prone to childhood shadows, or ideological communication and education will achieve the goal more ideally.

It's useless to beat, you need to educate more, and if you don't listen, you can beat it gently.

Of course, if it's not good, it will leave a shadow on the child.

Of course, it's not good, it will leave a shadow on the child, and it will also cause a bad habit of hitting the baby.

Of course, it is not good, it will affect the normal psychological development of children.

It's definitely not good, it's not a good way to educate children.

It's definitely not good, and it has an impact on the baby's psychology.

Of course, it's not good, and now it's all about persuasion education.

It's definitely not good, this will have a bad impact on the child's heart.

It's definitely not good, communicate more and be reasonable.

Of course, it's not good, children can't rely on beating, they have to educate, and it's best to be friends with children.

Of course, you can't beat it, it will affect the baby's growth and development.

Personally, I think it is not easy to educate children, and it would be wrong to only rely on hitting children to achieve the effect of education. Hitting a child can only scare the child and fail to educate him, and it will also cause great harm to him. Let's talk about the harm of domestic violence to children.

1.Affects physical development.

Domestic violence and occasionally hitting a child are completely two different concepts. If the child is too naughty and the parent gives it a gentle beating, it is not domestic violence. Real domestic violence is a life-threatening behavior that has caused direct harm to the child's body.

2.Lack of self-confidence.

Many children who are often subjected to domestic violence have low self-esteem. Other people's children are the pearls of their parents' palms, and they are very confident when they are extremely cared for by their parents, but they are not cared for by their families, and they are often beaten, and they will lack self-confidence in their hearts.

3.Imitation of violence.

The child is often subjected to domestic violence, and he has a sense that violence can solve all problems. Whatever is done, it can be resolved with violence. When he encounters a problem, he may not be able to think, and he may not be able to control his emotions, so he will talk to others, and he will use violence to solve all problems.

4.Insecurity.

Children who are often beaten are insecure, they don't know when they will be beaten again, and they are always vigilant and look at their parents' faces to do things. Such a child will also be very timid and afraid of things when he goes to society, because he does not have a sense of security as Hono.

5.Harm from verbal violence.

Many parents think that hitting their children is domestic violence, and scolding their children is not domestic violence, this view is wrong, and scolding children is also domestic violence. Every child makes mistakes, and it is good to correct them, and there is no need to scold them.

Summary: Parents must develop the habit of speaking well, after all, children imitate you every day, if one day you find that your child is full of swearing, then don't blame the child, review yourself.

Personally, I think that the education method of our parents at that time was mainly to fight education, because for parents, children who are disobedient can only be made obedient by beating, but the harm to children is also relatively large.

Clause. 1. There will be rebellion.

When a child makes a mistake, parents do not use persuasion and education to talk to him patiently, but use violence to solve it, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and he will have a rebellious psychology in his heart after a long time.

will reject the education of parents and be unwilling to communicate with parents, anyway, in exchange for a beating. Therefore, they will hide their hearts, and over time, they may appear to hurt themselves when facing problems.

Some children will beat their heads hard when they can't solve a problem, but this is actually related to the way their parents usually educate them. What's more, children will inflict this violent tendency on others.

When problems arise again, they will not be solved peacefully, but by force, and even hurt others.

Clause. 2. Willing to please others.

Children who grow up under the scare of their parents are prone to be willing to look at other people's faces to please others, and they will follow what others say they are not sure of their inner thoughts, speak carefully, and they will lower their posture.

Because of the fear that others will not like her, the fear of not playing with him, and the desire to please others everywhere, such children do not have their own independent character when they grow up, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and instinctively retreat back when they encounter difficulties, so it is difficult for them to succeed.

Thirdly, the child will become very timid.

Children who have lived in the scare of their parents for a long time will become very cowardly and timid, because when facing the parents of **, they dare not show their hearts, and will only hide behind their backs and secretly observe the faces of their parents to please their parents.

When such a child grows up, he will also become unbrave to take responsibility and imitate responsibility, evade and shirk responsibility, thinking that everything has nothing to do with him, because he has the impression that as long as he bears such a mistake, then he will accept a violent beating.

Clause. Fourth, children will lose trust in their parents.

If parents often carry out threats and intimidation education in the family, when the children are still young, they do not know that what the parents say is false and are all to scare them.

But when the children are older, they begin to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are cheating on themselves, then they will become more and more distrustful of their parents, and when they are really in trouble and danger, they will not want to say it to their parents.

Children have been in a domestic violence environment for a long time, which can easily lead to various personality defects, which is very bad, and usually domestic violence has an impact on children.

1. Parents often beat their children, and after a long time, children feel scared when they see their parents, dare not talk to their parents, and even dare not approach their parents, becoming submissive. Therefore, no matter what his parents want him to do, and no matter whether his parents' words are right or wrong, he will only obediently obey. Children who grow up in such an environment of bad absolute obedience tend to be obedient, mentally depressed, and passive in learning.

This planted a seed of "cowardice" for him to go to society in the future, and this cowardice will make the child not do anything well, when the child can't do anything well, and is complained by others, it will only be more cowardly, which is the bad impact of domestic violence. 2. In the family of fighting, the most innocent is the child, they don't even understand what the parents are quarreling for, the high-decibel quarrel leads the child at a loss, in order to attract or divert the attention of the parents, they want to make the parents wake up through self-harm, or stop the quarrel, especially the children in the youth hall, they are extremely "hot-blooded", and feel that after the parents quarrel, they subvert their lives, so they want to end the domestic violence in the way of self-harm.

3. Children who have suffered domestic violence since childhood have low self-esteem, no sense of security, difficulty getting along with their parents, and will not know how to live in harmony with their partners in the future.

Hitting a child has a lot of harm to the body

1.If the force is too large, it may collapse and cause local redness, swelling and bruising, and in severe cases, it will cause spine and head injuries.

2.If the child is often beaten and ridiculed and bullied by classmates and peers, he does not dare to resist, and he will have the psychology of self-abandonment.

3.If the child is often beaten, he will feel scared when he sees his parents, and when he sees his parents lose his temper, he will dodge and dodge, and he will form a timid and cowardly character.

4.The character becomes stubborn and stubborn, if the parents always hit the child, it will make the child rebel and the personality becomes stubborn and stubborn.

5.Treat others roughly, if adults often hit children, children will learn the attitude of parents to deal with things, and when there is an argument with classmates, they will solve the problem in a rough way.

Hello, friend. It is not appropriate, for a minor child, what is needed is Liang Lao's education rather than too much punishment, which is also appropriate and reasonable, and cannot punish the child excessively. How to effectively punish a child?

First, do not use harsh punishments such as corporal punishment.

Many parents equate punishment with corporal punishment of children, and the physical punishment of children is only one way to punish children, and parents should try to avoid using corporal punishment in the process of educating children, and cannot hit children. Maybe when the mood is calm, parents will feel that they will definitely not hit their children, but whenever parents are provoked by their children, they are often unable to rationally restrain their behavior, in such an atmosphere and environment, parents are easy to lose control to beat and scold their children.

Although some parents do not hit their children, they sometimes shake their children, which is actually a means of corporal punishment, which will cause harm to the child's body. Of course, slapping a child is never okay, and many news reports have mentioned that the child is permanently deaf because he was slapped by his parents.

Therefore, even if you want to punish your children, even if you want to educate them harshly, you can't beat and scold them, if parents feel that their children have no way to restrain them except for beating and scolding, then parents should first reflect on themselves and not on their children.

Second, pay attention to the timing of punishment.

Many children always start to do bad things when their parents are busiest, because they know that their parents don't have time to punish them at this time, so they are more at ease and bold, and this is indeed the case.

When mom and dad don't have time, they just say "wait to come back and clean you up", and then leave, but in fact, when the parents come back, they completely forget what the child did wrongly, and sometimes even if they remember, they just lightly lecture the child, which has no effect of punishment at all. Therefore, in order for punishment to be effective for children, it is necessary to punish the behavior at the time of occurrence or immediately after it happens, so that the child can remember it more deeply and effectively prevent the same thing from happening again.

Third, pay attention to the consistency of punishment.

For example, if the child did not eat today and ate a snack, the parents reprimanded them, but on the second day, the child did it again, and the parents felt that it was okay for the child to eat a little, so they let him eat a snack. Obviously, the child was criticized by his mother for fighting with a child the day before, but today he was let go because his mother was in a good mood. Such inconsistent punishment will make the child feel that the seriousness of the matter will also make the child feel that the parent is a person who does not count.

Parents often beat their children badly, and if they carry them well, they will become unconfident, and they will also have a psychological impact on the defense of the lead, become introverted, and have no mood to do things, etc., so parents should be education-oriented, and do not beat and scold their children.