Why am I not happy to live?

Because you feel directly unhappy. I want to open a point.

Alive, what are we living for?

Do you always look at the naughty children, hoping to go back to your old life?

Do you always envy your classmates who study well, colleagues with high salaries, and talented leaders?

Do you always feel sorry that you don't do things well enough, and that you are worse than others in those places?

All of this can make you depressed: Why am I not as happy as them?

But you don't know that your life, your happiness, and your happiness will not come to you if you have these.

Perhaps, when you envy them, they envy you too. Think of your eloquence, your smart and flexible head, your bright eyes, and your hard-nosed body. These are all things that others dream of.

So, why are you unhappy, unhappy?

Everyone has a reason for living, for money, for power, for children, for parents, for dreams...

What about you, have you found a reason to live?

In fact, it is not easy for us to come to the world once and be a human being. For a lifetime, it's just a blink of an eye, why don't you experience the joy of being a human being, and ask for your own troubles?

I live, and I live to be alive. Cheeky enough, right? I have a dream, a family, and a career, and I will work hard for it, but when I lose something, I will never lose the happiness that I control.

Because, alive, I am very happy.

Do you think that only you are alive and unhappy? I'm not happy or unhappy, who do I complain to?

Because God doesn't take better care of everyone.

It's up to you to decide whether you're happy or not, and living a simpler life will make you a lot happier!

That's because you didn't find the people who matter most to you.

Don't think that fragility is a state of petty bourgeoisie, you have to make your existence happy to others, to help others, to have a sense of responsibility for yourself and others, then you will definitely be happy.

Now that life is better, the main thing is that the big family has been greatly improved and satisfied in terms of material life, and the material life is satisfied, and of course the spiritual life must be developed, which is also the main contradiction in our society now. Material needs are easily satisfied, and if they are obtained too easily, people will not care about them, and they will not experience the pleasure of happiness. In the past, when people's living standards were low, it was not easy to eat well, dress well, and have a job, and they would be very happy.

And now people want to eat what they want, what they want to wear, what they want to work, as long as they are not picky, they will definitely find a job, these things are at their fingertips, of course, they will not cherish it, they will not be happy. So no matter what life becomes, people's minds are changing, and complaining continues.

Material needs are satisfied, but spiritual needs are infinitely magnified. From horse-drawn carriages to bicycles, motorcycles, sedans, sports cars, RVs, and private jets; From the former thatched hut to the current wooden house, brick house, building, villa, courtyard, smart space. We have gone through the changes of the times, the more we love the living environment, the better, the greater and greater our spiritual needs, and we use material needs to fill our spiritual needs.

This is a realistic society, a material world. The material world is constantly improving, and the spiritual world can never be satisfied. Those who drive a sedan want to drive a famous sports car, and those who drive a sports car want to have their own private jet; Those who live in a building want to imagine living in a villa, those who live in a villa want to have their own courtyard, and those who live in a courtyard want to enjoy the convenience of intelligent high-tech.

There is no best in life, only infinitely good, a few happy and a few sad, what you want is often what you can't get, and what you have is often what you don't want now.

Those who earn 5,000 want to earn 10,000, and those who earn 10,000 want to earn 20,000, people are so wireless to reverie, and no one dislikes that they earn more.

A well-off family wants to become a millionaire, a millionaire wants to become a multi-millionaire, no one will say that they are very rich and they don't need it anymore, they will only dislike what they have less.

Wake up to the power of the world, drunk and lying on the knees of beautiful women. Respond to every call, don't dare to disobey what the blade points to, this kind of life is what everyone wants.

Intelligent technology brings us a convenient and comfortable life, and creates us unlimited imagination space. Never compare with the weak, only compare with people who are better than yourself, compare and compare, and eventually make yourself unhappy.

Summary. Dear, life is colorful and full of ups and downs, so it will definitely not be only sweet. Although you are unhappy now, it does not mean that you were or will not be happy in the future.

What's the point of being alive if you're not happy.

Dear, life is colorful and full of ups and downs, so it will definitely not be only sweet. Although you are unhappy now, it does not mean that you were or will not be happy in the future.

No matter when and where, we all think about happy things, happiness is given to ourselves, only when our hearts are open, can we be happy. The only one who lives himself is himself.

Tell you about me! I used to only like spring, because I thought that spring was full of flowers, warblers singing and dancing, really beautiful, and I didn't dare to do it in other seasons, summer was hot, winter was cold, and autumn was a depression. But then I found out that I could wear a skirt and eat ice cream in the summer, and I was happy.

In autumn, I can see the colorful leaves of Xiangshan, the cool breeze blowing, and the sweet and sour rock sugar gourd, all of which are refreshing. In winter, the snow covers the earth, and it is as if I have stepped into a fairy tale. Eventually, I discovered that the four seasons have their own beauty.

Therefore, all periods of our life have their beauty. Even if you're unhappy now, isn't it a kind of beauty? I really went into my heart and felt my loneliness.

Loneliness is also beautiful.

She believes that most of the time life is dull, but ordinary is not happiness, happiness is more, and it can be called happiness if it is a little more ordinary than ordinary.

Plain is not happiness, and it is impossible to get happiness with big ups and downs, because no one will always get big ups, and it is possible to keep big downs, and there must be big ups and downs, and people will not be happy when they fall big.

I think that most of life is dull, there are few peak moments, and whether you are happy or not is mainly to see how a person looks at these dull moments. People who think that plainness is happiness will be happy.

We all feel that it is very difficult to live happily or positively, and if a person lives a positive life, he may not understand the essence of life, and he is just ignorant and fearless.

Reading Seligman's autobiography last year, the father of positive psychology also suffered from depression, and was a little relieved that happiness is a difficult thing to do, and there is no need to force it.

Even if you have a weekend or a vacation, you can't really be happy, because the holiday is just a temporary escape, and life will go on after the holiday is over. The word "small happiness" is derived from this, it is difficult to achieve complete happiness, so there is only a small happiness in life. "Little luck" is to lie in the quagmire of life and grasp a little light.

It's not that I'm so pessimistic at this age, I thought about it in my early 20s. I have long given up the pursuit of happiness, because happiness is unattainable, and it is normal to live unhappily.

But try not to be crushed, because after the crush, you may not be able to stand up, and this life must be passed, don't lie down.

My friend said that if you don't know what to do, you just do the right thing, such as exercising and reading. I said, that's not the answer, but it's better than nothing.

I'm not afraid of pain, pain is also life force, and I think every pain has meaning. What I'm really afraid of is meaninglessness.

I certainly don't want to live unhappily. I am willing to live happily and live happily every day.

It must be that everyone wants to live happily, and only in this way will their lives be more meaningful, so many people want to live happily.

Are you willing to live unhappy all the time?

No one wants to live unhappily all the time.

Who wouldn't? Happy life is the goal of each of us!

Do you want to live happily?

When I was in school, I felt that it was painful to take exams in class, and I didn't want to go to work every day after I went to work.

Our generation of young people seems to have become extra anxious.

We also don't want to look lifeless every day, we also want to have a beautiful mood every day.

I go out in the morning, take the subway, the crowds, and seeing such a scene will affect my mood for the day.

As soon as I arrived at the company, I was told by the boss, which will also affect all the work in the future.

In such a state, when you go to work and live, you gradually become depressed.

Life is short, happiness is a day, and unhappiness is also a day.

It's easy to say, but it's hard to do.

Things in life are not things we can predict.

A young couple, from the campus to the society, accompany each other.

Living in a small rental house, going to work normally every day, and supporting each other when they encounter problems, we all thought that they would make it to the end.

One day, the girl received **, her mother was seriously ill and hospitalized, and she urgently needed a large amount of expenses.

The two of them took out all their savings, but it was still not enough.

The girl didn't want to burden the boy, so she proposed to break up, but the boy wanted to keep it, but the girl left by herself.

Life has given us too many difficulties, and we must learn to adjust our mood.

Life is short, even if you can't live beautifully, you must live with attitude.

I hope everyone can live happily and fearlessly.