What would the next cultured person look like?

Let's ...... homeroom teacherAlthough we didn't get along for a long time, she gave me a very comfortable feeling, which was the same as that given to me by a very cultivated and self-disciplined homeroom teacher in junior high school.

She always said to us

Don't talk about people's faults, sit quietly and think about your own mistakes".

Not arrogant, not impatient, not discouraged, broad-minded, etc. Calmness and positivity in study and work are all manifestations of good upbringing. A person who has the above conditions is well-educated and cultivates as a high model.

A well-educated person will take the initiative to care about others, not to embarrass others, to say hello when he sees his elders, not to speak foully, to have a big belly, not to care, and to have good etiquette.

Don't talk about big truths. Just talk about small things, parking, educated people will consider the impact of parking alone, do not affect others walking, driving, whether it is illegal, occupy the road, both for their own sake and for the sake of others. In short, educated, in place is character, this kind of person, speak decently, do things clearly, fair and just, is the flash of inner cultivation, but it is not connected with cultural level and status.

Be courteous when interacting with others, always think about others, and take into account the feelings of others. When others interact with them, they always feel like a spring breeze, relaxed and happy.

Be gentle and elegant to people, and not be impatient about things. It always gives people a feeling of intimacy, civilization and elegance. Being in contact with such people makes people feel comfortable, relaxed, and free from psychological pressure.

Don't worry about others, be calm and natural in the face of others' criticism, and sometimes even if you are slandered, you don't argue with reason, believing that time can prove everything.

A cultured person always gives the impression of being elegant, not making loud noises in public, always reaching out when others need help, and always naturally spreading friendship and kindness throughout the world.

A cultured person is a kind, confident, and loving person. He can grieve alone, but he will never transmit his grief to others. In other words, after he recognizes the truth of life, he can still treat everything in the world with a good heart.

A well-educated person is a good, progressive, and capitalized person with social responsibility, family and country feelings, team spirit, and enterprising consciousness!

Be polite to people, be generous, be kind to others, be honest with each other, be convenient with people, do not care about everything, do not care about small profits, and see everything wide and far. There is cultural heritage, cultural connotation, steady and mature, no nonsense, no nonsense, standard of speech, civilized behavior, and inner beauty.

A cultured person must possess both of these qualities.

1. We will not deny ourselves because of the accusations of others. No matter how good a person is, it is impossible for everyone to love you, there will always be people who will not like you, especially after leaving your life circle, there are some daredevils who will not comprehensively evaluate a person's identity, or simply a guy who likes to talk against people with his neck, and make some uncomfortable words and deeds, educated people face this situation, and will not have self-doubt because of their bad attitude, thinking that they must be bad for the other party to treat themselves like this, or there is paranoia of victimization, I feel that this person is just trying to get along with myself, and the more I think about it, the more angry I become, which may change the nature of a small thing and produce worse consequences.

2. Do not lose yourself because of your love for others.

There are many motivations behind caring for others, some of which are to be recognized by others, to conform to mainstream values, and to be more easily accepted by the collective. There are some Fathers and Virgins who need this kind of spiritual satisfaction, which they find a spiritual pleasure. Some of them are digging wells before they are thirsty, saving replaceable resources for the difficulties they may face in the future, or dispelling some fears that are unknown in this life and the next life for good deeds.

Some are simply unbearable, willing to provide some help, usually a lot of caring behavior among educated people is this simple original intention, but also will make the person receiving help the most relaxed one, because you can feel that their love is because of the happiness of their own life, natural overflow, not reluctant not stiff weight, but also because their heart, the original intention is very simple, so they will not lose themselves in order to care for a person, because there is no attempt, so keep the boundary.

Deep insight, warm expression.

No swearing.

In fact, as long as you pay attention to observation, the educated people around you will not swear, if a person swears all day long, what is the difference between it and the aunt of the vegetable market, if you want to stand out and be different, then strive to improve your temperament, your upbringing, only if the upbringing is improved, the whole person will present a completely different feeling, so if you want to become a cultured person, the first thing to do is to get rid of your love of swearing.

02 Always say thank you.

A cultured person must be someone who often says thank you, it is always good to say thank you when you are out and about, say thank you when someone else helps you hand something to you, say thank you when someone else helps you press the elevator, say thank you when someone else brings you water, be a grateful person, and everyone needs to be treated gently.

03 Effort.

A cultured person must be a helpful person, and some things that are easy to do should be helped, such as when a faltering person enters the elevator and helps her hold the elevator; When passing the bus card on the bus, help others pass it; When someone else doesn't have an umbrella on a rainy day, you have an umbrella together, although these little things are not big, they are indeed visible everywhere, if you can be like them, lend a hand, then your upbringing has been improved one step further.

04 Joke moderately.

A humorous and interesting person must like to play with him, and at the same time, a cultured person will also know how to joke in moderation, although some jokes have no effect on you, but for others, they hurt the heart, when you say jokes when others feel embarrassed, you must know how to stop, don't build your joy on other people's sadness.

Of course, whether a person has education or not depends on many aspects, and from these aspects alone, it is still one-sided. I hope we can all be kind people and bring warmth to those around us with our small actions.

Honor parents, respect the old and love the young, treat others warmly, have love, do not quarrel with others, speak civilized and polite, etc.