The person I like, what reason is there not to be with me?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-31
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    True love is selfless.

    Love is willing to do everything for each other, whether it can last forever, whether it can be long-term or not, whether it can be for a long time, I sincerely hope that the other party can be happy and happy! True love takes a lifetime to comprehend--- in real life, the one you love the most often does not choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to live happily and happily, and hope that he will be with the true love, and it will never stop him; If you prevent him from attaining true happiness, you don't love him anymore, and if you don't, who are you to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession! You love the moon and can't take it down and put it in your basin, but the moon's rays can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, making the lover an eternal memory in your life.

    The real victor is not you, me, him, it's time! He is the culprit of love, it makes you crazy for love, and at the same time it devours your love without a trace.

    He never changes his pace for your emotions, even if you plead with it and refuse to stay for a while, and you can't even see its face of ignoring everything, so the spring night is always short, and the pain is long, so the parting is always fast, and the wait is long, so love is fleeting, and life is a little bleak.

    We can't grasp the response of our love, we can only pass on the message of our love, we can't grasp it, we can only grasp our own pay, we can't guarantee that it will last forever, we can only manage it with our hearts!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course there is a reason, it's just that you don't believe she likes you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I believe that most people have this feeling experience, and after being with the person they like, they don't feel so like. In fact, this is normal, after you are with the person you like, you have more contact with each other, get along with each other for a long time, know each other better, you will see the shortcomings of the person you like, and you may find that she is not as good as you imagined. Gradually, it is natural that you feel less like it after being with the person you like.

    The two are not together, and you find that you like her. When a person likes another person, from the bottom of his heart, he will think that everything about her is good and excellent. But in fact, after being with the person you like, you see each other more times, talk more together, and do more, like having a meal and watching a movie, and go shopping with her.

    You will get to know her better from what you usually talk and do, and after a deeper understanding, you will find that he also has shortcomings, as the saying goes, no one is perfect. When her shortcomings are exposed to you, you will feel less like her, and sometimes even disgusted with a certain point of her. But that doesn't affect your separation, because if you like her, it means that she has her sparkle in her, which is exactly what you love.

    After seeing his shortcomings, your overall liking for her may decrease. There is another way, that is, you have been with the person you like for a long time, and there is no freshness at the beginning, because you know her too well, from the inside out, and even the next second, you can think of what she will say to you. It's one thing to feel like you're in love with someone, it's another thing when you're with someone you like, and you're in a relationship.

    Of course, your feelings have changed somewhat, and it's normal and natural that you don't like it so much after being with someone you like.

    So, after being with someone you like, you don't feel that much like it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should show more of your strengths, so that he slowly likes you, in fact, when two people are together, there are few people who like it from the beginning, and they are also everywhere, and the relationship slowly deepens.

    But then again, in a relationship, in fact, the ideal state is of course to love each other, but if you can't be so perfect, you generally choose a person who loves you, rather than the person you love, which will be happier, in fact, it's a pity from your point of view, but from the perspective of this boy, he is still very lucky, and there is a girl who likes him.

    I remember that there was a cousin like this, he was with another girl, and that girl should like him, but in my opinion, he just thought that this girl was more suitable to be with him, and then the two of them got married together, and I felt that their relationship was also slowly cultivated, not the kind of love at first sight, so I think you can try to have more contact with the boy, socialize more, maybe one day in the future, he will slowly like you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're already brave. I've tried my best! No regrets!

    It can only show that you really have no fate, and you can't ask for it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You said that you are the person you like, and you are with you, why do you still think he doesn't like you, maybe you think too much, since you are already together, be together, pay sincerely, I believe he will feel it, and it will be good to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you can work hard to improve your personal ability and charisma, and when you become very good yourself, then he may change his attitude towards you.

    Two people can get along with each other through a long period of time, and then fall in love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    At this time, it's best not to guess, go with the flow, if you feel that you are tired or uncomfortable in this relationship, communicate with the other party, if it still doesn't work, then it is recommended to break up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then separate, if you like it, you will be together, if you don't like it, you will be separated, it is a very simple thing, don't complicate it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your question is a bit contradictory, the person you like is with you, and then he doesn't like you, he chooses to be with you, and he doesn't like you, so why is he with you? Is there a logic problem?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the other party doesn't like you now, you should still cultivate this relationship with the other party, and there will definitely be hope.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, feelings need to be recognized by both parties, for example, the chopsticks we use are the same length to use, but one long and one short can not be used. So I suggest you think about your future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you do something to move him, so that he will slowly fall in love with you and fall in love with you for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If two people are reluctant to be together without feelings. It's not going to be happy. So if you like him, you should respect his choice. Instead of forcing him to get him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The person you like is with you, and then she doesn't like you again, just think about whether you want to separate.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He doesn't like why you're with you, he thinks about sex, it's better not to have such a boyfriend, and girls don't want to love too humble.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After a long time, he will find out your goodness, change his attitude towards you, and will have a good impression of you and like you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The twisted melon is not sweet, there is no need to be so humble, or give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He's perfect because you like him, and others don't necessarily think so. He doesn't want to associate with you if he has someone he likes, or that.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1.At two o'clock in the morning, I was woken up by Ah Shan's **, and I picked it up while feeling inexplicable, and before I could say something like "wake me up and sleep", Ah Shan's crying voice came from the ** paragraph, "Wenzi, I broke up with him." At that time, I was sleepy, and then I comforted Ah Shan and asked why.

    Six hours ago, I.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The person you like is with you, since you choose this, then you should also have feelings for you, so you can get along for a while.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    But what if you like it? He doesn't like me, or doesn't like me that much, what to do, just want him to like me and cry. It's not that you like him, it's unwilling, then let it go, I've been alone for a long time, and I thought I wouldn't meet someone I liked.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After the person you like is with you, but you don't like yourself anymore, then you have to look for this question, is it because of each other's personalities or because he likes something else, is the novelty passed, or you are really not suitable, if the reason is not so good, or be mentally prepared.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your favorite person may no longer be with you, or she may have left you for someone else. From the perspective of human nature, the easier it is to get, the less it is cherished, so there is what Zhang Ailing said, the white moonlight has become the rice on the cheongsam, and the red rose has become the mosquito blood on the mosquito net. You can like her very much, but you have to show it to a degree:

    Afford it, put it down. If you show that I love you and I would die without you, then you are more dangerous, because once people have no worries, they will behave very presumptuously.

    Let's talk about my experience, my first boyfriend was my high school classmate, of course I didn't be with him in high school, just having a crush on him, it took me three whole years, and I didn't dare to confess to him until college, and then he also found out that I had a crush on him for three years. I'm a face-loving person, and I don't want him to talk about this often, but he often shows off this to others, and makes fun of me, which makes me very unhappy. And he has a very bad temper with me, and often loses his temper with me at every turn.

    Later, after another fierce quarrel, he had a relationship with another girl with a vengeance, and he was recruited, and he was promoted to father, and after he got married, he sometimes called me **, and his tone was very gentle, but I didn't pay much attention to him, and occasionally only said some irrelevant topics. The main reason why he started to lose his temper with me unscrupulously was that he felt that I loved him and couldn't live without him. I got married and spoke softly because I had lost me, and I regretted it.

    Now I am with my husband, he is a very humorous, funny person, he is very good to me, he does all the housework, I go to ** is also to give me a good job in the morning, drive me, or buy a good ticket, I will buy whatever I want to eat, and take it with me. But he never said anything like what I would do if you left me, he said I love you, and I will be sad if you leave me, but I won't beg you. One time we had a fight and I ran out, and I got on the train and immediately remembered how good he was and came back.

    Generally speaking, the favorite person is not suitable for being a couple, and the most suitable person is right. People also know how to cherish after experiencing loss, and I wish the subject happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you make a gesture of favor to the other person, and he does not respond to you, or does not take the initiative, it means that the other person has rejected you, even if you ask a thousand more questions, the result will be the same.

    Bacon has this saying, "Because there is a basic law in this world, that is, love will always be rewarded, either by the love of the beloved, or by a kind of contempt hidden deep in the heart."

    If the other party is interested in you, he will not react a little, he also longs for your love, and the love in his heart will not be able to hide it, he will not wait to respond to you, and even show more affection and love than you.

    If the other party has never taken the initiative, even when you show love, he is indifferent, it means that he has a choice. No matter how active you are, no matter how gentle and considerate you are, it will not help, because he has no intention of you at all.

    In Jin Yong's **, many plots show daring to love and hate, when you see these, you will feel that these people are very chic, and you also think that love and non-love should be said, so that love will not be full of scum stool speculation. Such as travel.

    However, this is not exactly the case with love in real life, some people will express it directly, while others are unwilling to say it directly for some reason to hurt each other, but choose to refuse quietly.

    When your loved one behaves like this, there is no response to you, and there is no initiative to show love to you, what you have to do is not to continue to ask, but to turn to leave directly, although he did not clearly point out that he does not love you, but you have to understand the rejection behind it.

    True love can't be hidden, that joy and happiness will hang on your face at any time, and even your eyes reveal love. "If you come a little longer, I will rejoice a little longer" says it all.

    Hope it helps you and good luck.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You're with someone you like. This is already a fact, and there is no need to talk to people who have always liked you. He seems to understand everything in his eyes.

    Even if you tell him, you can't solve his troubles. It's just going to make everyone unhappy. Therefore, it is a good thing to treat the people you like well and be happy together.

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