How can I change myself, make a career, change my life 10

I think it's because you don't know yourself enough.

Everyone has strengths, you blindly deny yourself in the description, but you don't see your strengths, maybe you don't find it, but I think, many people's ordinary, because they didn't find where they can play, this is the most pity.

From your text, I really can't know where your advantages are, I just think your writing may be good, and other things need to be discovered by yourself.

You don't have specific problems, but you want to improve your current state, in fact, no one can actually help you, because you have to rely on your own independence to improve your life, relying on the help of others is never long-lasting, to give you a few suggestions:

Looking for hobbies, that is, looking for what you are particularly good at, don't tell me no, there is no one in the world who is useless, but what you are good at, this needs to be judged by yourself.

Take a long-term view, you said that your salary after graduating from college is not as good as that of front-line employees, in fact, I think your requirements are a little higher, after all, you have only graduated from college for a year, and you can only be regarded as a novice rookie in the workplace, it is normal to get a low salary when you enter the company, do you expect to get a high salary as soon as you enter the company? Why? Just with your college diploma?

It's not enough, if you want to get a high salary, you must have some experience in this position, and few people can get a high salary as soon as you enter the unit, unless you are a graduate doctoral student, and you may just be an ordinary undergraduate, right? There are so many undergraduates these days that you can't ask someone to give you special treatment for that.

Increase self-confidence, in fact, your life has just begun, you have only graduated from college for more than a year, your future road is still very long, don't feel like you are worthless all day long, I said before, you may be just a novice in the unit now, then work hard to get rid of these two words, the key to remove is not time, but your efforts, as long as you are willing to really put your heart and soul into it, instead of looking forward to getting off work every day, looking forward to the weekend every week, so for a long time, you will definitely achieve something in this area, You say you're not smart, then, stupid birds fly first, I don't believe you'll be stupid to this extent, as long as you have more experience, you will naturally be skilled and beautiful in doing things, and then you can ask for a raise.

What city are you in now? Can I help you?

Work diligently wherever you are.

Do you really want to change? Let's start with the small things around you, help your parents do some housework; Talk to your friends to find out which friends need help and help your friends; Go out and smile at the neighbors in the community; You can also go to the neighborhood committee to sign up for volunteering, and while helping others, you can examine yourself and find your own goals in life. If you want to change, there is nothing you can't change, but I'm afraid that you don't want to act, and you don't really want to change.

Abide by the law and discipline and self-restraint. If we are always in a demanding environment to study and live, it is difficult to progress, so we should learn to restrain ourselves, demand ourselves, change from passive to active, consciously abide by the daily behavior norms of middle school students, and use it to restrain our words and deeds.

I never thought about changing my life, maybe you will think that my life is perfect, then you are wrong, I am walking on the bumpy and rugged road of life, and I have to cross that thorn now!! Faced with challenges again and again, I can only gladly accept, I never thought of changing, this is my life, only belongs to me, maybe a success, in the eyes of others my life has changed, but in my opinion this is still my life, just a few more people to share!! Don't try to change your life, try to accept everything you have, be your true self, and you will always be happy!!

Hope you are happy!!

If you go to society, you have to be hardworking and not afraid of hardship, and if you are still in school, then study hard.

The 11 books in The Parchment are written by successful people in various industries in the United States over the past 200 years, who have informed the world about the secrets of success and the meaning of a happy life that it brings.

Go for it and choose the right goal. Choose the right industry, choose the right leader!

To completely change yourself during the summer vacation, you must do these five things.

It's all up to you!

Being good to them is because you want to get their care back, and when you don't get it, you will have hatred.

So, don't worry too much.

Don't be bad, don't be kind, just go with what you feel.

It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist.

To change your life, you must first change your life's goals. As long as you change your values, you can even change your destiny. But it's hard, once you've formed your own values, it's hard to change...

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People have two eyes, so life has two eyes, goals and objectives, and when you can identify these two eyes, you can change your life.

Changing one's life is not only about changing the external environment, but also about changing one's own thinking. It is necessary to inject self-confidence, optimism, and not giving up easily into the mind. With good ideas combined with practice, it is easier to succeed.

The great man is great because he is determined to achieve his goals when he is in adversity with others, others lose their confidence.

Instead of looking at other people's lives and being full of expectations, it is better to understand your own life first, try to change yourself, and change your life state, so as to maintain continuous upward momentum. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke expressed that change starts from oneself.

That's a real problem, and it's tricky; To change the status quo, first change yourself; Don't be sad, it's better to rely on people than on yourself, things are man-made, everything needs to be sober; Then it's time to make a plan with less loss; As for the start, we have to consider the current situation!

Uh, I'm not going to get married, men should have a career first and then get married,

Only good and evil can break through fate, good and evil when doing everything, good increases, evil decreases, good even if it suffers temporarily, the blessing of the whole fate increases, and it increases a lot, and evil is just the opposite. If you can control everything and be good, you are not a mortal, you can cry ghosts and gods in the world, of course, this needs to be practiced slowly. The so-called cultivation of the mind and changing one's life is to cultivate this, the better the person's luck, and the fate of the extremely good person cannot be bound.

Does fate exist, of course, and it can be changed through our efforts. "The Four Disciplines of Lifan", a kind of virtue and life, self-cultivation and governance books. The author is Yuan Lifan of the Ming Dynasty, written at the age of sixty-nine, and the author tells the process of changing his fate with his own personal experience.

Hit the fate of the long life without merit but get the fame and longevity, hit the childless, but get two sons, the book movie version and the TV series version are available, and they can be searched on the Internet.

You yourself said that I don't want to go on like this, I don't want to be a poor person, then continue to work hard, just say but don't do it, it's hard to become a big thing, if it's a man, you have to have confidence in yourself, don't always say some discouraged words, pay practice, don't always think about using ** to buy lottery tickets to make money, because God won't be so kind, let you make money on this, it's better to be practical!!

Ask yourself, sometimes you know what you want best. Know what you're doing. Just conquer yourself, and I believe that everything is not a problem. Come on.

Cheer up and everything will be fine、、、

In fact, you can enrich your spare time, such as participating in more social welfare activities, doing some odd jobs on weekends, etc. The first thing you need to do is to open your mind and make yourself cheerful. You can try to smile at others, not be nervous, be bold about your strengths and strengths, and learn to listen well and look directly at others.

Remember, if you want to adapt to the world, you first have to change yourself.

Here, I wish you success in your application!

You don't have too much self-esteem, introversion is not necessarily bad. The key is to improve your professional skills. Now the communication is not too much, but fine, when it is said, it is not said that it is not appropriate, and it is not said.

For people in the new environment think that you are silent, in fact, after getting acquainted, people like you are quite popular, not to say it, not to say it, to get to the point, practice this skill, you are still liked, especially in a certain situation can get the trust of the boss.

Don't blindly envy others, just be your own distinctive self. Extroverts and introverts have their own advantages and disadvantages, and they need to constantly improve themselves.

You don't need to change yourself, you will change yourself. Just don't always compare yourself to others. Your problem is to compare yourself to others. Ignore yourself. I was born to be useful. Why force yourself to eat something that is not suitable for you?

Workout, workout, workout. Expertise is the result of long and hard practice. That's the experience!