How can I change myself to be a good person?

The resting place of the soul is not necessarily so spacious, a small flower is enough. The resting place of the soul is not necessarily magnificent, a wisp of fragrance is enough. The resting place of the soul is not necessarily so lively, one meter of sunlight is enough.

I really envy the butterfly that fell asleep, no frustration, no frustration, no irritability, no sadness. For the resting place of the soul is heaven on earth.

People are on the road, the world is in its glory, and we have to face frustration, frustration, irritability, and sadness. Why don't we find our own little flowers, like butterflies, settle down, smell the faint scent of chrysanthemums, and fall asleep safely. Tired, with a book; tired, looking for the fragrance of the petals; Boredom, calm; Find rest for the soul.

A drop of clear dew is enough to wash and rinse a dusty heart. One meter of sunlight is enough to fill a heart full of suffering; A cloud is enough to fill the heart with fatigue, swim around, turn. Actually, to give the soul a resting place, it doesn't need to be so spacious, a small flower, an autumn leaf, a grain of sand, a clear spring ......With the resting point of the soul, it is possible to see that the world is expanding and the mood becomes invisible.

The wings of heaven fly between heaven and earth!

Looking for a resting place for the soul, you don't have to go far, just be by your side: a drop of clear dew, a fragrant aroma, a silhouette, a meter of sunshine, let our souls dream in peace, think It's okay, don't think about it!

It's really not easy to be a good person, everyone has their own opinions and ideas, as well as their own biases and preferences, sometimes being a good person is not to let your thoughts and preferences affect others, but to put other people's thoughts and preferences in your own heart, to be considerate and understand others, to tolerate and tolerate others.

Once, I met an old man on the bus who was walking very slowly and delayed everyone on the bus. Everyone else was pushing him, and some even pushed him away, but he didn't speed up, he just walked slowly. When I saw this scene, I had a very heavy feeling in my heart, because I understood the situation of the old man, he was old and his health was not very good, but it must be very uncomfortable to be urged by others and pushed away by others.

So, I walked over, took the old man's hand, and slowly led him to his seat. The old man saw me, smiled, said thank you, and then began to put his luggage away again, as if he hadn't been on the bus for a long time. When I saw this scene, I had a new feeling in my heart that it was really hard to be a good person.

A young man sitting next to him said, "Hey, it's really unfortunate today, I have been delayed by this old man for a long time. I looked at the young man and said:

In fact, you don't have to worry, the elderly also have their own difficulties, everyone should be more considerate. The young man listened, did not speak, just lowered his head, looked at his mobile phone, and seemed to be thinking.

Seeing this scene, I have a warm feeling in my heart, I feel that I have done a good job, and I am also a little proud, because I can be considerate of others, and I can also put down my own prejudices, understand the situation of others, and tolerate and tolerate them.

However, I also know that it is really hard to be a good person, because sometimes, what you think is right, but others may feel wrong, and sometimes what you think is right, but others may feel wrong. Therefore, to be a good person is to put down your own ideas, to be considerate and understand others, to be tolerant and tolerant of others, which is the most important point of being a good person.

In short, it is really difficult to be a good person, because you need to put down your own thoughts, to be considerate and understand others, to be tolerant and tolerant of others, which is a very difficult process. But when you see others become happy because of your help, you feel that being a good person is really worth it.

1. I think it's really not difficult to be a good person in today's society, and there are many good people. The problem is that there are conflicts of interest between different groups of people in society, which creates contradictions. Some interest groups are powerful and occupy an advantageous position in social competition, so other interest groups that conflict with them will feel oppressed.

Some people can't stand this kind of oppression and try their best to join the dominant group, so they become the "enemy" of the group they belonged to before, and become the "bad guys". Some people suffer from this oppression and feel that they are the pitiful party and the "good people".

2. As the saying goes, "Good people have good rewards, bad people have bad rewards, it's not that they don't report it, and the time is not ruined".

However, many wicked people are still living in style, but there are many good people, but good people have been punished.

I myself am very entangled in whether people are inherently evil or inherently good.

My parents taught me from a young age to be kind to others, and to suffer from others. However, my good ones will always be bullied and deceived. Being bullied by a good friend and cheated on by a man you like.

I want to be a bad guy. However, the mind that has been taught since childhood has been snuggled and imprisoned into a specific pattern and way of thinking, and it eats soft rather than hard.

It's really tiring to be a good person and be a good person who can think about others.

3. In recent years, things like porcelain touching and moral kidnapping have emerged in an endless stream. In fact, it reflects a common problem, a large part of the elderly group has become impetuous after a long time in society because of the lack of education they received in the past, and they have begun to use their status as elderly people to seek improper benefits for themselves. It's just a generational phenomenon.

With the popularization of nine-year compulsory education and the increasingly prosperous scientific, educational, and cultural undertakings after the reform, there will be more and more high-quality people in the future, and these pathological phenomena will become less and less.

One day, after eating from a restaurant with my friends, I saw a stroller falling to the ground at the door, and my friend and I turned a blind eye and didn't dare to help it! In case the owner of the car sees it and says that we knocked it down, we are afraid that we will not have the money to pay.

4. I have a scooter, and I usually drive it less, and my friends often use it to drive, and I don't care. But one incident made me realize that I can't borrow a car at will. I remember that at noon that day, she called me ** and said in frustration that there was a car accident, and she was fully responsible, and she knocked an old lady into a crippled person, and I was stunned.

My colleague's family was not in a good financial situation, so I ended up adding a lot of money to buy another car. Helping others is fun to polish your eyes, sometimes it's asking for trouble, I saw a ** female college student Xiao Yuan riding a bicycle and encountering an old man falling to the ground, Xiao Yuan immediately helped the old man up, and the old man then pointed out that Xiao Yuan hit himself. In the end, it was brought to court.

5. In fact, everyone is making decisions, and there is a very important dimension behind decision-making, which is the ethical dimension, that is, ethical decision-making. The reason why ethical decision-making is difficult is because there is an ethical dilemma behind ethical decision-making, which is a dilemma. What's more, no ethical approach is absolute, and no decision is unique.

True goodness is true goodness when it is manifested in human qualities.

In terms of time, the real act of kindness is not a momentary whim, but a long-term adherence to good deeds, and lifelong inadmissibility. For example, Cong Fei, an artist in Shenzhen, has donated millions to the Hope Project for several years, donated all his savings, and did not stop donating even when he learned that he was terminally ill. "It is not difficult for a person to do something good, but it is difficult to do good deeds for a lifetime."

From the perspective of space, the real act of kindness is not only a little bit of good deeds, but a good heart, kindness, and good deeds for all things. A true act of kindness is a good deed that is incognito, not publicized, not showy, and not intended to be reciprocated.

There are thousands of good deeds and good deeds of kindness, and I want to talk about not only these specific things, but also the essence of kindness.

It is right that human beings are inherently good. With the development of society, the fruits of labor have a surplus in addition to satisfying one's own life, resulting in wealth and poverty, and there is strength and weakness; How to deal with the rich and the poor, the strong and the weak, there is good and evil, and good and evil are relative and accompanied. In Buddhism, the purification of sentient beings means to persuade people to be good.

The kindness of the ancient people is reflected in many aspects, hunters do not hunt young and pregnant animals, fishermen do not use dense nets to net small fish, and loggers do not cut seedlings. It can be seen that the sociality of kindness and the significance of acting on society. Kindness is the virtue of the Chinese nation, and everyone has kindness, goodwill, and good deeds; Kindness interacts in society, which is a harmonious society!

I have heard a lot of words such as "two good people may not be able to be together", and I am always curious: why is this? I have seen a lot of stories and analyses of the differences in outlook on life, world view, and values, which led to the marriage change, and I seem to understand.

However, after thinking about it and thinking about it, I, Shan Hong, want to deny such a statement. My reason is: two people who are kind enough can grow old together.

This reason may be ridiculed by those who hear it at first glance:"What does it mean to be kind enough? Hey. I think I can understand this question, and I will: be kind enough, but not want the people around me to be sad.

A person, as long as he is kind enough to hope that all people are happy, no matter what kind of person he marries, he will not let the other party live badly. Suppose the other party is also such a soft-hearted person, no matter what differences they have in their outlook on life, they will do their best to make the days and beautiful. If you can't talk about China's direction, you can talk about firewood, rice, oil and salt; If you can't talk about family training and tutoring, they will take the initiative to give up some of their rights;

Let's take a closer look, there are really many such families.