Can people be scheming? Do you have to be scheming?

First of all, you must know that the word scheming is a derogatory term. You ask, should people be scheming? Like you ask, should people be immoral? Should people be stupid? You have the answer to this kind of question, right? All the same, it shouldn't.

Then, the second point. I would say, to change the word for scheming. It's called strategic, or smart, or it's called a city, and maybe there's a better word, but it's not necessarily called scheming.

In fact, everyone has the little ninety-nine in my heart, but this thing is not necessarily bad, depending on what purpose you are for, if it is to protect yourself and not infringe on the rights and interests of others, I don't think this is any scheming. If you do something, you want to harm the interests of others and make yourself profitable, this is called scheming. At this time, you have to think about whether you can pass this hurdle in your heart morally and in conscience, and here I advise you to be good, because the old man often says that you should accumulate virtue, which is what it means.

There is nothing that can not be done, although some people do not seem to have it, but they are very clear in their hearts. Scheming doesn't mean it's bad-hearted.

Yes, that's great! You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. It's best to know what you know. If it helps, thank you!

Everyone will be scheming, but some people are scheming and have conspiracies everywhere.

Scheming is not something you want to have, some people are born to be scheming, some people are born to be kind, and they will not make their hearts, even if they learn something in life, they will not be as thoughtful as others, and in a cash society, you still have to have more snacks in real life.

Yes, you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people.

To be a scheming person, a person without scheming is like a puppet carrying an elm head, lacking autonomy in life, and at the mercy of others' arrangements and arrangements.

People should have a little bit of scheming. If you can protect yourself, it may be easier to do things.

Can people be scheming? People must have a little heart, and the heart of others must be indispensable, and now people's hearts are sinister. Society is complex.

Of course, you have to be scheming, so that you will not be deceived by others when you live in society.

Being a man without scheming, it is difficult to prevent people from being injured by hidden arrows, being a man who does not understand scheming, many failures are played by others, being a man who does not understand scheming, and it is difficult to succeed sooner or later and he will suffer.

To be a man to have a scheming, not to teach you to learn badly, but to tell you that you must know how to defend against people, use people, and perfect yourself, life is often a battlefield, if you fail, it is difficult to get good results, and success will not favor you.

1. You can't be too simple, you must know how to disguise yourself moderately.

People who don't know how to be scheming not only have no connotation, but also have no desire to succeed, they can only suffer losses in the open, suffer in secret, suffer in secret, are full of holes, and can't turn over in their lives, if they want to protect themselves and develop themselves, they must know how to be scheming.

2. There is room for everything, and there is a way out for life.

It is difficult to be a man, it is difficult to be a man, many times, not only to leave room for others, but also to pave a step for yourself, if you do not have a little scheming, you will fall into an alley, there is no way out, there is no way out, you can only block the dead road, sigh the desperate road.

3. Words can't be said.

Many times it is reflected in the language, some people say absolutely, swear, and do not hide their mouths, promise everywhere, but the result can do very little, a lot of soup, and finally tired themselves half to death, and are hated by others, it is really thankless, bothering and sad.

4. Give yourself grace, mature and not sophisticated, mature people, calm and steady.

Everyone wants to associate with it, such people in the society are also left and right, like a fish in water, and sophisticated people, thought to take advantage, the use of various calculations in the society is self-righteous, as a result, over time to see the hearts of the people, because of the shrewdness in the world, everyone respects you and stays away, will only end up alone, hanging from each other.

5. Have a good attitude as a person, and don't get tired of thinking about it.

Don't be shocked by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, go and stay unintentionally, and look at the clouds in the sky.

Mentality determines everything, and if you have a good attitude, you will live a chic and not tired life. If you can achieve the realm of pampering and not being shocked, no matter what major events you encounter in life, you are not afraid of problems, even if the sky falls, you can also cope with it freely.

6. Understand the way of Fangyuan, don't cause trouble if you have nothing to do, and don't be afraid of things.

To be a scheming person, you must understand the way of square and round, and be able to "square and round", so what is "square" and what is "round"? Generally speaking, the naturally formed ones are round, and the artificially modified ones are all square, therefore, the square is moving, the circle is static, the square is the principle, the circle is the machine change, the square is the same as the change, the circle is the same as the change, and the appearance should be round, (the wisdom is foolish).

Generally speaking, the naturally formed ones are round, and the artificially modified ones are square. Therefore, the square is moving, the circle is static, the square is the principle, the circle is unchanged from all changes, the appearance should be round (great wisdom and foolishness), and the heart should be square (Qingjing Mingzhi). For those who have been square (strict with the law), to people to be round (wide to treat people), there is a circle without a square is not standing, there is a square without a circle is sluggish, so when you can be a person, you can also be square and round, there is a circle in the square, and the content of the circle is square, so you can cope with it freely in communication, nothing to do, and not afraid of things.

7. There are two "rites" that are indispensable for being a man: etiquette and gift-giving.

Everyone wants to have a successful life, and everyone wants to be in people.

A person living in the world, no matter how prominent his family background is and how outstanding his talent is, if he does not know the art of being a man, especially if he does not have a little "scheming", he will not be able to achieve success. To handle all social relationships with colleagues, friends, family members, etc., to make your every move, every word and deed, every smile and smile endearing, bring happiness to others, and make your ability recognized requires a certain amount of "scheming". In today's increasingly complex society, in order to survive and develop better, we must learn how to behave.

Ordinary people always think of "scheming" as a kind of trickery, a kind of sophistication, but in fact, it is not. What we call "scheming" is a kind of wisdom and strategy of being a person, and it is a guide to help us on the road to success. If you want to avoid these troubles and frustrations that shouldn't have been me, you have to learn how to be a human being....

The more scheming people are, the stronger their self-protection and the more insecure they are!

How is your boyfriend like this? Alas! You will never be happy if you are always like this, how can you be happy when you live in his shadow?

I advise you to break up! You've also thought about it, although you can't bear it, but the long pain is better than the short pain! Think about it!

Isn't this kind of love too tiring?

Not thinking so may not have been debunked.

Originally, I went up by patting on the back.

There is nothing real and personal ability.

If it's not red, the leader will give up on him for a while.

If you've been deceived, you'll know, especially if you're a good friend or something, there's no need to deliberately make yourself scheming, this thing will be cultivated after a long time.

That's right. Life

It is impossible for a person to be a "natural person" all the time, and reading and receiving education is a process of transformation from a "natural person" to a "social person".

It's impossible for a person to live a life alone. Of course, there are a lot of things to pay attention to when dealing with people.

In the same way, others will feel this way. Many people will have it, and I used to be

If you want to play, there are rules for dealing with ......

The rule that we have to pay attention to is an art, an art of getting along with people. With the right guidance, you won't be ......

I don't know, this kind of person is the most numerous, there are fewer innocent and kind people, I'm this kind of person, hahaha, the kind of person you said is more jealous.

The reaction of higher-order animals is that the brain is very developed, can think a lot of things, jealousy is scheming, it is just a noun, and it is precisely because of these two reactions that people have it.

We are not saints, we are ordinary people, it is natural to have a lot of negative emotions, and it is normal to do a lot of wrong things.

Let's just let it go, it's just an after-dinner conversation, and it's best not to spread it on the Internet.

In response to unconfirmed news that is named by name, be cautious and do not infringe on personal privacy, which is easy to violate the law and lead to crimes.

Scheming, refers to ingenuity. It also refers to the mind, the scheme, the deceit.

What you can't get within your normal ability, and you want to get it through other methods, such as cheating, etc., is scheming. So in most cases, it is derogatory to say that a person is "scheming".