What is the significance of participating in class reunions after the age of 40?

After the age of forty, men and women in the workplace generally have a certain career foundation, and this time is the best time to share resources with each other. You can negotiate a lot of business, get a lot of contacts, and find a lot of business opportunities in the communication of classmates. It is also a good opportunity to regain young memories and good feelings in addition to the tired marriage and family.

Bring classmates closer. Students who haven't seen each other for a long time can meet at a party to enhance the relationship between classmates and help each other.

In the blink of an eye, it has been 40 years since we graduated. Forty years of vicissitudes of life and changes, forty years of people on the journey of ups and downs, forty years of peach blossoms in a hurry to bloom and fall ......In the past 40 years, the most unforgettable and inseparable thing is still the friendship of classmates, this friendship is like a jar of old wine, the longer it is, the more fragrant and strong, long and endless. Come on!

Let's put aside the busy affairs for a while, break free from the troubles around us, get away from the hustle and bustle of the world, and get together to drink the fine wine that has been collected in this jar for 40 years! We sincerely invite all students to come to the 40th anniversary party! According to the arrangement and requirements of the preparatory committee, the time of this gathering is 20xx/x/xx.

Registration location: Jixiang Hall on the fifth floor of Beishan Hotel. The association implements the AA system, pays 300 yuan per capita, adheres to the principle of financial sharing, financial disclosure, and simplicity, and designs and produces a commemorative book for the party according to the use of funds.

At the same time, successful students are welcome to provide sponsorship and indicate their acknowledgment in the commemorative book.

Old class reunion, to put it bluntly, is the most naïve feeling among classmates if they want to find friends when they were young. The emotions between every friend in college are pure and flawless, and there is nothing to cover up, and now once people reach middle age, they really can't find the original feeling when they hold an old class reunion, and even continue to erase that little bit of classmates affection.

1.Once a person reaches middle age, life is unsatisfactory, everyone has some work pressure, and this kind of work pressure will invisibly exacerbate the psychological pressure of everyone, so that everyone is not so simple, and it is difficult to find the figure of youth, followed by the work pressure and heavy pressure of daily life, and participate in the reunion of old classmates, see these before not as good as themselves and now live very well, there is inevitably some pain in the heart.

2.Looking at today's old class reunions, the most common things that everyone talks about when they meet are hot issues such as housing, vehicles, money, work and children's education, and rarely talk about the relationship between friends, and a student who has nothing can not find a topic to discuss and communicate with his classmates.

3.The old classmates reunion has become a blind comparison exchange meeting, the blind comparison of the heart is countless, the students want to gather the rich to raise money, the house with many houses, the luxury car to get the car, the child to learn well, has been mixed with the classmates do not even discuss the topic, only listen silently.

4.At the reunion of old classmates, if any of the classmates does a big deal, lives in a mansion or villa, and drives a luxury car, there will be a large group of classmates next to them, and the classmates will follow behind and brag. If any of the students becomes a leading cadre, there will also be students who do things behind them to serve cigarettes and wine.

Students who have no power and no power, and the economic development standards are not very good, come to participate in the old classmates reunion, and they only sit down in the corner silently, and very few people will notice the classmates.

5.There are many students, they professionally find out which classmates are doing well, doing big business, becoming leading cadres, and they are waiting for the opportunity to have an old classmate reunion to get in touch with this kind of good classmates. If you don't mix well and do things easily, there is really no need to participate in the reunion of old classmates, because most of the students are busy climbing and no one pays attention to you.

6.There are also some male and female classmates, they have some handovers while studying, and they light the fire in the name of the old classmates' reunion, and these students who don't know are still talked about not caring, and they have invisibly helped them to protect and do things that damage their families.

Because when you reach this age, you don't want to do some ineffective socializing, and there is no relationship other than the relationship between classmates, so you will be very resistant to class reunions.

That's because after people reach forty, the class reunion they participate in is very meaningless, basically everyone gets together to compare with each other, brag to each other, without a word of sincerity, and such a group of people will not be of much help to themselves and career development, so if they can not meet, they will meet as little as possible.

This is because after people reach middle age, class reunions will deteriorate and look more realistic. It always gives people the feeling that they are comparing themselves to each other, so many people are very resistant to participating in the class reunion.

After the age of 50, people have a new understanding of life, this time the class reunion is more real, more calm than when I was in my 20s, more desired, and more sincere, I have not yet reached the age of 50, but I can understand how the person's view of life will change after the baptism of the years.

When people are in their 20s, their mood is often more irritable and exaggerated, most of them are not talking about feelings at the class reunion, but talking about achievements, the whole life is in a state of upward development, and there is also a kind of comparison psychology between classmates, compared to anything, than work, than career, than family, than house, than car, than girlfriend, and even what watch is worn on the hand to compare, compared with the process of the relationship between classmates covered with a layer of dust, It is impossible to see the original appearance, once upon a time, the relationship between people was not so worldly in that era before leaving the campus, but after entering the melting pot of society, everyone has changed, becoming colorful, and I forgot what the original color was a few years ago.

With this exaggerated mentality, we have gone all the way, after years of accumulation, the impetuous heart has gradually precipitated, and we can see the essence of life, so at the class reunion after the age of 50, we can see many people crying, maybe there are regrets, maybe there are sighs, or there is reluctance, my father is 60 years old this year, and they have to hold a class reunion every few years, but the sad thing is that the class reunion is held at such an age, and every year there will be a few classmates who can't come to participate, Not because they are too busy, but because they don't have the opportunity to be busy anymore, at this age they are not far from the gate of heaven, they cherish the time they live, and they feel sincere about the friendship of classmates in the past.

To sum up, the class reunion after the age of 50 is the real classmate, and with the accumulation of years, people are more urgent for the return of true love.

Class reunions after the 50s are actually very meaningful.

In daily life, many people who are 50 years old will attend class reunions, and some people will also participate in comrades-in-arms reunions. So, what's the point of class reunions in their 50s?

First of all, class reunions allow us to reminisce about our past youth and friendships together. We know that when I was a student, because I didn't go into society, and I didn't have the burden and pressure of life, everyone felt very relaxed, and my classmates can also be said to be the purest good friends they have made in their lives, and they also maintain the purest friendships. After the end of college, everyone left the school, embarked on a different life track, and finally got married, for the family, career and running, especially in the first ten years of work, classmates rarely get together, some students working in the same city can not meet a few times in a few years, let alone with classmates in other places.

As I get older, especially in my fifties, basically the family has stabilized, and there is no pressure in life, so I can relax. At this time, many people will participate in the class reunion, and everyone reminisces about the past and nostalgia for their student days, which is actually a very beautiful thing.

Then, after the age of 50, the classmates can let go of loneliness. We know that many elderly people are now unaccompanied, after all, the life of children is not easy, they are old and young, running for life and family, and they are unable to accompany their families. In such a situation, many elderly people feel very lonely, they want someone to talk to, at this time, if there is a class reunion, they can also talk with their friends at the party, relieve the loneliness, make themselves happier.

From this point of view, the reunion of classmates after the age of 50 is still very meaningful. After all, people will feel lonely, there is no one to talk to, and it will be dangerous to talk to a stranger, so it is better to chat with former classmates.

Secondly, time flies, and it is completely possible to participate in the invitation meeting for students who have shared the same weal and hardship. 50 years old is not very old, while I can still walk, and I have a class reunion with similar views and sympathy, which is also a nostalgic thing. When you get together, you can talk about a lot of things, such as talking about the past, classmates, and children.

Because you don't have a stake, you can open your mind, and you can imagine freely. When I am 50 years old, basically everyone is very mature, I have handled family affairs and work, and I have leisure time to talk with like-minded people, which is also a kind of enjoyment in life. It is said that "life is short", and while you are still tough, it is not impossible to enjoy it.

In my opinion, I think that the meaning of class reunions after my 50s is to still be with the people I was with at that time and to miss the events of that time.

In fact, let's sigh about life together, at that time, everyone's morale was not so high, after all, they were facing death.

The purpose of the party may be to see which students are still alive and able to spend the rest of their days with them, and that's it.

I miss the past, I miss the time we spent together, I miss my youth, and I compete with my life.

Some students are nostalgic for their former friendships, and some students have a comparison mentality, wanting to see who is doing well and who is not.

First of all, consider the level of your meeting, and set a level for yourself. If it is a very high-end upper-class person, then needless to say, a three-piece set of brand-name costume jewelry leather bags.

When matching your outfit, you can ask a few partners who are closer, so that you can avoid hitting the shirt to a certain extent.

If it's just the kind once a year, after all, it's summer, and usually old student gatherings are mainly to get acquainted and get acquainted with each other, so my advice is to be more casual, and there's no need to scare others formally.

If your party is moving in a certain unit, such as hiking or sightseeing, you can choose a light-colored undershirt with a pair of cropped pants, and of course a pair of running shoes or sneakers that match in color. If you can't bare your legs, you can choose slacks instead. If your party is just to eat and drink tea, you can wear loose clothes or bring a shawl, the lower body can be mainly skirts, and long and short skirts can be worn in a secondary style.

Don't choose to wear tight clothes just because you are confident in your figure. Choose to wear high heels or sandals when the weather is right. In fact, the popular flip-flops are also a good choice.

But no matter how you style it, remember not to compare the brand with others, and don't talk too much about what you wear.

A style that suits you Neither lose your style nor lose face.

Does that depend on your profession?

Also depends on the venue of the class reunion?

Summary. Good evening, dear students! Today, we are gathered together with excitement to hold a grand reunion for the 40th anniversary of graduation, here, on behalf of all the members of the preparatory group, I would like to express my cordial greetings to everyone!

I would like to express my warm welcome and sincere gratitude to all the students who came to the party despite their busy schedules! And send cordial greetings and best wishes to the post-graduate students who were unable to attend the party!

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Good evening, dear students! Today, we are gathered together with excitement to hold a grand reunion for the 40th anniversary of graduation. I would like to express my warm welcome and sincere gratitude to all the students who came to the party despite their busy schedules!

And send cordial hail greetings and best wishes to the chaotic students who failed to attend the party!

Today, the students take this opportunity to reminisce about the green years of our youth, let us share this beautiful happy time with the blind reeds, cherish this unforgettable class reunion, recount the friendship of the past, pour out the bitterness and joy of life, say goodbye to each other, and enjoy the joy and joy of reunion! Finally, I wish you good health and a happy family! Wishing our friendship a long and lasting one!

I wish you a successful gathering! Thank you!