Someone who is friends with you for money? Why be friends with rich people

That's a good question.

"Friend" refers to the relationship between two people, or each other's status and position, which is a superficial phenomenon, and giving sincerity is "friendship", human emotion, and connotation. The two are not equated.

We can make friends for money, or we can make friends for the sake of sincerity, and these two situations are sometimes the same and indistinguishable in terms of external performance. Being friends for money and being friends for the sake of sincerity can be friends. Money and emotions are both legitimate things that people should pursue.

A gentleman loves money and takes it in a good way, and it is not against morality to get close to others and become friends for the sake of money, as long as he does not betray or hurt his friends. Isn't it great that everyone earns money together and cooperates for a win-win situation. "Peng" is a pictograph, two shells, the original meaning is money, hehe.

If you think that you are not a friend without friendship, then the understanding of friendship is very limited. Moreover, the friendship between people is usually not "love at first sight", but gradually developed from scratch, and people's concepts and ideas will also be influenced by friends and change, not something immutable. Bad people can become good people, and good people can become bad people.

For the very real world, we should take the initiative to understand and discover what is deep in it, rather than simply judging right and wrong.

Gaining friends because of money, pursuing friends because of money, is a double loss is not a win-win situation, having money does not mean that there is no wisdom, you are close to him because of money, he is also using you, friends are heart-to-heart, not to maintain interests.

That's pathetic.

Uncle Mao's life entrepreneurship lesson 5 is about wealth, first of all, Uncle Mao told us that we must mix more with rich people.

In the past two years, I have been deeply aware that rich people are different from what we think, and the more we have contact, we will find that the difference between us is not just money.

Take Disney's VIP tickets that I heard from the senior sisters before, an ordinary person will think that Disney, it's good to buy an ordinary ticket, why spend an extra 1,000 yuan.

But after listening to the experience of the senior sister, I realized the difference: Disney general tickets need to queue, even if a few items can go through the fast lane, most of the projects also need to queue for a short time, at the end of the day, it is difficult to be able to experience all Disney projects completely, and even tired to death.

Although the VIP ticket is more expensive than 1000, all the projects do not need to queue, and all the projects can be experienced very happily at the end of the day.

I secretly calculated an account myself, if the ordinary ticket wants to experience all the items, it will take about two days, if you come from other places to play, at least 3 nights, counting the ticket price and accommodation fees, as well as the play experience, obviously the actual cost of VIP is lower, and the experience is better.

This is the benefit of communicating with friends who are better than yourself, and you can get a lot of inspiration and new understanding.

The more people in contact, the easier it is to find the difference between people and people, many times, we encounter a self-made mind or thorny problem, we like to find their friends for help, but in fact, in the treatment of things, and our friends at the same or similar level, the advice provided is not necessarily correct.

The reason why rich people can become rich people must be because they are more powerful than us in some places, and if they get along with people who are better than themselves for a long time, they will also be imperceptibly influenced and make progress invisibly.

Do you have a grudge against money? No hatred! Definitely not!

And now, why is most of our unhappiness related to money? There are also many people who become physically and mentally exhausted because of money, is our life really because of money? Definitely not!

Why be happy? That's because we have an incorrect view of money.

1. Money is dirty. To put it bluntly, each of us loves money, but we are careful not to show this state, feeling that we will be laughed at. It is precisely because of money that we no longer satisfy the desire to eat and clothe, but to make ourselves nutritious and tasteful.

Qiqi said that when you don't love money, you still want money to come to you, how is this possible?

2. Talking about money hurts feelings. Sometimes I am ashamed to talk about money with my relatives and friends, and I feel that talking about money hurts my feelings. In my free time, I have jewelry sales, and I often have relatives, friends and colleagues who see me hair ** and are attracted and want to buy.

In fact, I am the kind of person who is not very good at business, and I feel that I will be gossiped about when I receive their money, and I can't be at ease, "Look at her, why do you love money so much, why are you so stingy!" Dozens of dollars are charged! "For a long time, I was very confused, and even felt that receiving their red envelopes would be restless, I reported to my superiors that I may not be suitable for business, she said, this jewelry is not our own production, you also spend money to buy, talking about money is also a real thing, we talk about money for better communication with each other, this is also legitimate!

3. Money is saved. A friend who was close to me was reprimanded by his father-in-law for often buying things for himself. "I don't know how to save money, I just buy and buy all day except for eating.

Loser! "There are always such elders, with the idea of three years of new and three years of old, and another three years of sewing and mending, to teach us a lesson. The United States said that this is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation.

Yes, we should be frugal, not wasteful, and we believe that only those who can spend money will make money. In addition to having a stable job income, my friend also does **, earning more than 10,000 yuan a month, working hard to make money, and it is understandable to buy things for himself.

4. Money is the only way to be happy. Many of us are limited by money, we can't go to the Maldives without money, we can't live in five-star hotels without money, we can't take first class without money, and when people with no money raise their hands to Cartier, you raise their hands with rubber bands. No money.

Can't we just have fun? When I was a child, I never flew a plane, but in the spring of that time, my younger siblings and I flew kites in the wheat seedling field was the best memory of childhood. Without money, we are still happy!

Learn to be friends with money, establish a correct view of money, learn to manage money and make money, we can also make money better serve us, improve our living standards, improve our value, from money slaves to freedom, and become a real happy little rich.

It's true, they want to take advantage.

When you don't have money, you will find out how realistic this society is and how terrible people's hearts are. When you have money and scenery, your friends know you, and everyone wants to come to you; When you have no money and are down, you know who your friends are, and everyone stays away from you.

As the saying goes, money can make ghosts grind, and money can see people's hearts. There are very few people who are really willing to associate with you, and there are very few people who are not greedy for your money and who are not close to you for some kind of benefit. Most people, who approach you when you have money, have a purpose.

Therefore, you must see clearly who is sincere and who is false, and those who are hypocritical should stay away from him as soon as possible.

When you don't have money, the good friends who once swore that they would share weal and sorrow with you, only to find out in the end that they have long disappeared without a trace, and they are just friends of wine and meat, and they fly separately when disaster comes. If you have money, there will always be people who will approach you and please you; When you run out of money, everyone stays away from you and won't help you. The people who came close to you when you had money were all for their own benefit, to see if they could find good in you.

Therefore, we must be a little opener, don't look away for the sake of unworthy people, people's hearts are like this, always look at money, so we must become stronger and stay away from hypocritical people.

We may not be born rich, then there is nothing to complain about, we can rely on our own hands to work hard, there is no need to care about those who look down on themselves, no money is not a big deal, because you have no money and stay away from your people, there is no need to feel sorry, such people, not worth keeping them.

When you don't have money, when you are in trouble, people who are far away from you, don't be rare, don't feel sad, such people are just for money to make friends, not with heart. You have to cherish the people who are still by your side to support you and help you when you have no money, because they are the ones who treat you with their hearts, not for money, not for profit, such people are the people who are worthy of your cherishment.

You have to always remember that money can't buy sincerity, and no money doesn't mean you won't succeed. Remember the people who have helped you, those who have a different attitude towards me because of money, you should not contact in your life.

When you have money, there are many people who want to make friends with you, which is true, but such friends are not real friends at this time, these people want to be cheap with you. Or rather, the icing on the cake. These people won't help you when you're in trouble.

Only those who will not leave you when you are in trouble. God of Wealth, your true friend, your nobleman.

It's all for money, if you are rich, your relatives and friends will look up to you and associate with you, but if you are poor, your relatives and friends will stay away from you.

As the saying goes, no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. If you have money, others will look up to you. Seeing that you have money, most of the friends you make are friends with wine and meat. A true friend doesn't care if you have money or not.

There is a sentence that many people must know, that is: no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Maybe we don't have a personal experience in this regard, but this sentence vividly portrays the hot and cold state of the world.

In today's economic and social development, the human touch is getting weaker and weaker, but the smell of patina is getting stronger and stronger, so it is not uncommon for people who tend to be inflammatory, and those who are rich and powerful will flock to them. This phenomenon is not uncommon.

Yes, it is!

The poor in the downtown no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

If you don't believe it, look at the wine in the feast, and persuade the rich first.

There are many brothers with wine and meat, and there is no one in trouble.

These few words speak to the reality, when you are poor, even if you live on the side of the road, no one cares; When you are rich, even if you live in the mountains, there will be relatives who will come to visit you.

It's true, because I fancy your money, so I want to get your money and be your friend. Usually these people are not your true friends.

When you have money, those who like money will like to make friends with you, but not necessarily sincerely, mostly because of money, it is your money, not your people, let you see clearly whether it is true or false when you encounter difficulties.

It's true, because it's profitable, rich people can let ordinary people live for a few months by deducting a little scum, and rich people are not stupid, just playing monkeys to make fun, and it's normal for one to be willing to fight and the other to suffer.

It's basically true. But these people don't really want to be friends with you, they just value your money. Therefore, there are many such false friendships in the real society. I hope the landlord has a comprehension and doesn't make friends easily.

I have to admit that in today's society, due to the difference in the division of labor, the gap in ability, and even the good or bad luck, there is a gap between the rich and the poor in this society. Some people are born with a golden key, while others are born with the hope of the whole family on their shoulders, so there is a hierarchy in terms of wealth. A while ago, a popular word "local tyrant" was popular, and from this word a popular Internet phrase was derived, "Tuhao, let's be friends."

This seemingly sadistic sentence is actually a truth. From cooperation between countries to a 4x100 relay at school. All hope to find a "thigh" that is stronger than themselves.

In this way, mutual help and mutual benefit, "he is good and I am good". After all, "lying to win" is also a situation that counts as winning.

The above is the discussion of why rich people want to be friends with you, in fact, this discussion has a hard flaw is limited to the level of wealth, in fact, for making friends, I still believe in Confucius's sentence "The Tao is different, do not conspire with each other." "Whether you have money or not is secondary, and the most important thing is that the three views should be consistent. Making friends is more important than being tolerant and open-minded, and treating each other sincerely.

Money is nothing in a sincere friendship! What do you think?

First of all, rich people are not profitable, and they are much more sensitive and accurate than ordinary people in judging interests, so if they are friends with you, they must be the first word "profit". But "profit" is not necessarily money fame, it may also be other interests, for example, you are well-informed, rich people like to increase their knowledge, and they are naturally willing to be friends with you. Or maybe you have a skill that may be helpful to the rich person's career, life and communication, and such a person is happy to be made friends by the rich person.

There is also a kind of people who have many ways, rich people have to do more things than ordinary people, people with many ways are naturally popular, and then there is that you are very rich, and you may need to invest if you are rich, rich people always think about the problem of money making money, like investment and also like promising cooperation, you have the possibility of cooperation if you have money, which is a must befriend.

Of course, there is also a premise, that is, a person's image, morality, social skills and other factors, because rich people not only like to seek profits, but also know how to avoid harm. People with a bad image, rich people with you, will have the feeling of losing their worth. People with bad moral character are easy to bring trouble to rich people, or they have no credit, and rich people will definitely be vigilant and not easily make friends.

Sociability is also important, even if you're not very tactful, at least decent.

Understand the "benefits" and "harms" in the eyes of the above rich people, so as to package yourself, then the rich people are naturally willing to be friends with you.