Do people who dare to be friends with their ex really see through love?

Updated on society 2024-02-29
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think it's like this, if you don't really see through love, you can't be friends with your ex, and most couples won't be friends after breaking up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is true that they have seen through love, and they feel that the love between two people is gone, but friendship can last forever.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think so. Because people who can be friends with their ex must see love very thoroughly, and can handle this relationship well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is true that they have seen through love, if they can't see through love, they will not be friends with their ex, and they will not continue to get along with their ex.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, because I don't care about the right and wrong of feelings, I won't force the other party, I know how to respect each other's freedom, and my heart is very broad and open.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes. Because this kind of person sees through love, his attitude towards love is also more realistic, and he is more willing to be friends with his ex.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Many people are very curious, will a man be friends with his ex after breaking up, after all, two people have been good for so long, and they can't say that they are separated, if they can say it clearly, it is not impossible to be friends.

    As a man, although they are very sad after a breakup, they live more freely, they are not as emotional as women, they will be depressed for a long time after the breakup, and they will not get along with their ex. As long as you go through the period of falling out of love, it is very simple for two people to be friends, and it is better to be friends than to treat each other as strangers, so that you will not be embarrassed when you see each other again.

    And in the hearts of men, being friends with their ex is also to reduce the harm to each other, and there are too many examples of two people tearing their faces after breaking up, which is chilling. If the boy is dumped and he still chooses to be friends with his ex, then it is to give himself a comfort and opportunity, maybe the two of them will have a chance to get back together while being friends.

    Most men behave lightly when they break up, in fact, they will still be sad in their hearts after a period of time, and they will miss each other very much and hope to be able to see each other forever, so being friends is the only opportunity for two people to see each other again without embarrassment. Wanton.

    However, at this time, the ex's opinion is very important, if your ex doesn't want to pay attention to you at all, and moved to another city after the breakup, then the chance of you being friends may be zero, because she has no nostalgia for you at all, and just wants to get away from you as soon as possible, and men at this time are often very failures, because they have broken the ex's heart.

    There is another type of person who is a scumbag, after breaking up, they will definitely do everything possible to get close to their ex, tease them, become friends with them, and then let their ex-girlfriend be their spare tire in the name of friends.

    When they've had enough of being outside, they'll go back and get back together with their ex. Although this is not much, some stupid women will still be deceived.

    Generally speaking, men who can be friends with their exes are completely relieved, they have no feelings in their hearts for a long time, they just want to be friends with their ex, and they feel that there are multiple friends and multiple paths, after all, two people have been good for so long, and it is not good to become strangers rashly, so being friends is the only choice.

    If the woman can also let go, then the two people will become very good close friends, if the relationship between the two people can achieve this relationship, then the emotional intelligence must be very high, otherwise the two people will not be able to intersect at all.

    For men, this may be a trivial matter, but women often have to do psychological construction for a long time, because it is really difficult to be friends after falling in love with each other at the beginning.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think there are such people.

    First of all, the relationship between lovers and friends is a problem that must be faced in the process of interpersonal communication. Many people don't understand why after a breakup between couples, some people can become the so-called most familiar friends as if nothing happened, but from a psychological point of view, this relationship is based on the previous intimate relationship and develops a phenomenon similar to the relationship between relatives. That is, they may not exist as a friend, they are in this relationship between friends and loved ones.

    But there is no ambiguity in this relationship, because in the process of their intimacy with each other, they have become familiar with each other's living habits or patterns of thought and behavior, and in such a state of understanding and understanding, their relationship may be deeper than that of friends, but they have not reached the state of relatives.

    In fact, what people are most afraid of is to think too much, and many things are because they think too much and then think about all the situations that may happen in advance, and finally choose the most unfavorable situation for themselves as the ideal basis for the facts, and finally many situations that should not exist and happen at all. Therefore, we should learn to believe and tolerate others, with an open and positive heart to understand some of the behaviors of others, maybe you can't agree with some of the behaviors of others, such as the saying that we can still be friends with each other after a breakup, but we should respect and admit the existence of this situation, instead of turning everything in this world into a look, and thinking of all people in this world as a kind of person. You know, everyone's psychological aspects and behavior are unique, so it is impossible to have similar dimensions in this world, but there is absolutely no one who is exactly the same.

    Hope mine can help you!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This must be there, even if you break up, you still plan to be friends with your ex, and it is possible to become friends with a better relationship, but the vast majority of couples will not choose to be friends if they break up, they are all treated as strangers, and a few individuals will choose to be friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Perhaps. I think it's better not to be friends. There are many reasons for breaking up, it may be because of the opposition of parents, it may be because it is too tiring to be in a long distance, and it may be because of empathy and so on.

    If the reason for the breakup has nothing to do with legal morality, in most cases it is possible to be friends, of course, the specific situation needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whether two people end a relationship or a marriage, everyone has their own personality and choice, and they should choose the way that suits them, rather than forcing themselves to be friends with each other, or giving up on a person.

    It is not easy for two people to meet, and it is even more difficult to fall in love, if you don't love, please let go early, if you love, you must cherish it. No matter what the outcome of yourself and that person is, you should have good and blessed hearts.

    One part, two wide, each life is happy", is a relatively happy ending of the story, after a breakup or divorce, everyone has a new beginning, not resentful of the ex, and at the same time will not let go and have a grudge.

    It is still necessary to let yourself mature towards love and marriage, especially after divorce, even if you are divorced, you still have responsibility for your children, and you should take responsibility for taking care of your children.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, there really is. But I personally don't think this is a good thing, I think it's better to break up completely, otherwise it is easy to have conflicts later.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If a pair of lovers break up, they must have a relationship with each other to become friends, because some people may understand that they and the other party are not suitable to be lovers in the process of the relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think there is, but it depends on the reason for breaking up, it is impossible to be friends after breaking up like becoming enemies after breaking up, only those who break up rationally, and break up because two people are really not suitable to become a couple, it is possible to become friends.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the breakup, someone should be friends with the ex, but I won't be friends with the ex, because I know that if I become friends with him, then I will be friends with the next one in my relationship. The object is particularly unfair. If you don't want your next partner to be uncomfortable, don't be friends with your ex.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After breaking up, there are really people who are friends with their ex, but ordinary people can't do it, and it's impossible to be friends with their ex. Because after two people break up, it is impossible to treat each other like friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, there are really people who are still friends with their ex, after all, everyone is familiar with each other. In fact, there is still affection between them, but now it is not as heavy as before. On the contrary, now they are friends and have a happier life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, there will be such people, because they feel that they can still be good friends after breaking up, so that they will also have some help in life in the future. If you don't want to accept the idea that you can't be a couple or a friend, then you should treat yourself as a stranger, so that you will live a more down-to-earth and happier life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, but it's better not to. If you can date at the beginning, it means that he and you have a similar personality. So you can communicate, but if you break up, it proves that there is a gap in your relationship, and if you still want to continue to be friends, it will be more dangerous.

    So I'm not in favor of you continuing to associate with your ex.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After the breakup, there are indeed people who want to be friends with their ex, because he knows that it is impossible to redeem him, but he can't forget him, so he chooses to be friends and can often face him, and he is content.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In real life, there are many people who can still be friends with their exes after breaking up, they are very sensible, they did not make a big noise when they broke up, but separated peacefully, they are very familiar with each other, so they can indeed be friends after the breakup.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, and now more and more people are friends with their exes after a breakup.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Uh-huh. Yes, I have a friend who broke up peacefully with her boyfriend, but they're still very good friends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No, at least I didn't make friends with my ex when I broke up, because after the breakup, there was no need for everyone to keep in touch, and there was no work contact, so it was impossible to ask for warmth like ordinary friends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    After breaking up, there are still people who will be friends with their ex, and I said that they are still like-minded, or they broke up peacefully, so it doesn't matter if they are friends.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Of course. is because the two of them are very affectionate, and the two of them have really loved each other, so they are willing to be friends at this time.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello friend, no, I really broke up, I won't be friends with my ex, I want to start a new life, I have to cut off all relations with him, and I can block her to start a new life again, so I can't be friends with him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Most couples don't stay friends after a breakup.

    Because when two people are together, they are lovers, and they have to retreat to friends, which is actually really difficult, so it is better to exercise directly after breaking up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If it is two people who really love each other, then they must not be friends with their ex after breaking up, because each other's feelings have deteriorated, so it is very embarrassing to be friends, I hope it can help you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think of course you can be friends with this ex, because only by maintaining a normal mentality, it will be more beautiful for two people, and being friends is also a good choice.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    In my opinion, it seems that it is difficult to do it, because it is impossible to be an ordinary friend after this most intimate relationship, so I think there are many things that I can only think about myself, but it is really difficult to achieve this kind of relationship.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You can really be friends after a breakup.

    The current problem in the entertainment industry is the best explanation, and all people will have a lot of relationships. This means that everyone has let go, and it is no big deal.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Being friends with an ex is a very sensitive matter, some people think it's okay to be friends, while others think it's best to distance yourself from your ex and stop being in touch after a breakup. Therefore, whether or not you can be friends with your ex is a very subjective question, and the answer to this question varies from person to person and needs to be evaluated based on personal experience and circumstances.

    However, in general, it is less ideal to maintain a friend relationship with your ex. You will find that after your breakup, the emotional foundation between you changes a lot. In a love relationship, we are interdependent and supportive, and after a breakup, this dependence and supportive feelings will be destroyed.

    This disruption may affect your ability to continue to be friends, and may even lead to more quarrels and conflicts between you. In this case, for you and your ex, you will only be better able to be friends if there is already a considerable degree of independence between you, or if the feelings for each other have cooled.

    In addition, another problem of becoming a friend of the ex, Song Defeat, is Shi Zheng Eunma. After your breakup, you need to give yourself and your ex enough time to heal and recover. As social beings, we need to maintain a strong bond with humans, but it also takes some time.

    If you start being friends with your ex too soon, you are highly likely to be mentally hurt. Therefore, the decision to become an ex friend is best made when the emotions between you have calmed down and you have had enough time to gradually adjust to the changes and shifts in focus between you.

    In short, it's not a bad thing to be friends with your ex, but you must be cautious when shouting at Sakura. When the emotional foundation of your relationship changes, the friendship can also face significant challenges. You need to think as much about yourself as your ex, give each other enough time to adjust to what happens after the breakup, and try to find a way to maintain the relationship better.

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