How do you divide good friends from ordinary friends? 10

Ordinary friends are average relationships, can chat, eat, or help out on some simple things together, without involving big economic exchanges. Good friends should go one step further on this foundation and be trustworthy and entrusted in important matters.

Actually, this really can't be divided.,You never know who you're really good friends with without experiencing some things.,If the power is a little bit of a point.,You ask a friend for help.,Friends will try their best to help you.,It's a good friend.,If you think it's troublesome, it's an ordinary friend.。

The difference between a good friend and an ordinary friend is that a good friend can put your difficulties in a position, as long as he has the ability, he will be shared by you, and an ordinary friend is some normal interactions, and he will not share your worries and sorrows.

Ordinary friends generally communicate at a shallow level, and good friends just talk about everything.

You can't even distinguish between ordinary friends and good friends, Xiang Qian sued that your life is really in vain, under normal circumstances, good friends are people who have nothing to say and no regrets, and they are blessed and enjoy the same difficulties, ordinary friends are just out of politeness, say hello.

In fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual giving, not taking, People who can share weal and woe with you, who can take the initiative to stand up for you when you need help in the most difficult times, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind. A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend. The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide them, and a heart to hope, express and cherish in the same way、、、 such friends are real bosom friends.

A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant.

1. Mutual trust.

Trust is a rare quality. At present, with the progress of the times, the development of science and technology, especially the development of the Internet, people's lives are becoming more and more colorful, and clothing, food, housing and transportation are becoming more and more convenient.

But at the same time, the existence of the Internet has added a veil of mystery to the people behind the screen, which makes people begin to lose trust in each other while exercising their rights through the Internet. This distrust spreads from the web to real life and to all around us.

Friends are even more so, if you don't trust your friends, you will feel that life is empty, false, powerless, and even hopeless, with each other, wary of each other, speaking without sincerity, hypocrisy, and will not sacrifice yourself for friendship, together with each other with false masks, such a life is unimaginable.

On the contrary, if we trust our friends enough, everything will be very different. As long as we trust our friends enough, our goals are no longer far away, we dare to think and dare to do, dare to let go and fight, and dare to give our backs to people we trust. Only in this way can we work together on the road of life, inspire each other, and achieve win-win cooperation.

In addition, if we have a friend who trusts us enough, whose joys are shared with you, whose pain is confided in you, and whose pressures you bear, who feel that you are needed at all times, that your presence is of great value. Such friends can give you more motivation and push you to become a better version of yourself.

Trust is a treasure, and friends can accompany each other and grow together.

When you need help, when you need help, he and she really put themselves in your shoes, and they are good friends.

The kind of guy who talks about everything, who will tell you anything, and when you're in trouble, he's going to help you without hesitation, and he's going to trust you all the time.

Can joke at will When two people get along with each other, they can joke at will, sometimes the joke is terrible, exposing each other's shortcomings, and breaking the news. Get along with each other like a family, and get along very tacitly.

Some time ago, there was a very popular saying, saying "It is the duty to help you, and it is the duty not to help you", which can distinguish ordinary friends from good friends. The only person who can say such things is an ordinary friend, and a good friend should be a good friend, who will appear by your side when you need him the most. And an ordinary friend should be within his ability he may help you, beyond a certain range, he will reject you, while a good friend is a person who can expand this range of ability to a larger extent, they can do more to help you, instead of giving up when they encounter a little obstacle, they do their best to help you, ordinary friends should help you with things that can help you without effort.

The bigger difference is trust, good friends can trust each other unconditionally, and the trust of ordinary friends should be based on "seeing is believing", when you are most helpless and no one believes in you, your good friends will also believe you, because you know each other better than ordinary friends, can be more familiar with each other's temperament, and some small living habits. It's as if she can prepare hot water for you in advance before you come to your aunt, and tolerate your stinky temper. And ordinary friends should be people who can borrow your aunt's towel if they have the same menstrual period.

They all know you and trust you, but to a different degree, just like the city and the country know about wheat separately.

Ordinary friends are the ones who want to get you drunk at the wine table, and good friends should be the ones who get themselves drunk in order to block the wine for you, they have different levels of dedication and care for you, and they will not harm you, but ordinary friends don't love you so much, and they don't care about your feelings the most.

Difference 1: When you meet someone who needs to help you, the first thing you meet is your good friend, and in the end, there is a high chance that you will be an ordinary friend. When you need help, you often look for the person you trust the most, but if you have a really good relationship with your good friend, you think of him but don't bother him, in short, ordinary friends are used for use, and good friends are used for pain.

Difference 2: Good friends can generally master all your strengths and weaknesses, especially the disadvantages, as well as big and small secrets. And ordinary friends usually only show part of yourself in front of him, and he may only see your appearance.

Because you don't allow yourself to show your inadequacy in front of someone who has just crossed someone's identity in life.

Difference 3: When sending blessing text messages, good friends are often the last to send, and they always want a lot of words, longing for each other, and there is only one sentence left at the end, happy holidays. And ordinary friends are even simpler, one-click ** SMS blessing.

Although on the surface, the one that seems to be a good friend is a little sad, but when you compare the mental activities, the two are immediately clear.

Difference 4: The choice of gifts can also be seen that the relationship between you is close, and it is often true love that gives some practical gifts and gifts that the other party wants. And ordinary friends are generally more expensive, but it is not practical, and it is basically to give away for the sake of giving away.

Although the difference between the two is not small, it is much better than icing on the cake.

In general, good friends and ordinary friends are indispensable in your life, and confidants and friends are all over the world is the attitude you should hold. Cherish every friend around you so that your life will not be lonely. And when you are in trouble, it is these lovely friends who are always by your side.

‍‍(1) You judge whether a person is worth paying for, not just when you are good, but how he treats you when you are not so good.

Dealing with people on a daily basis, I have a gentle and enthusiastic attitude, and I can provide help within my ability, which is the most basic courtesy, and it is also the lowest cost way to deal with people, after all, arrogant people are annoying.

Some people are in your power, around you, you lose power, and naturally leave you; Some people don't help you because you really haven't done much for others. Sometimes, some people say that they usually have a good time, go shopping together, have dinner or something, and they are depressed and difficult, but none of these people come to help.

When you are down, the people who are still by your side are good friends. In critical moments, when it takes a lot of time, energy, and even money, I only give for those I think are worth it.

(2) Friendship with friends has depth.

We grew up and met a lot of people, butThere are not many people who can become good friends, and the friendship is naturally deep and shallow. When we encounter difficulties, we will generally find good friends to solve them, and if we need to solve them with someone we are not familiar with, we will definitely be apprehensive and think about how to repay others.

The interaction between people, on the premise of ensuring basic politeness, should be treated differently, otherwise it will be treated the same, then your feelings will be too cheap. Relationships are maintained in normal times, so when others treat you differently, don't be busy complaining and see what you can bring to others. Did you help others in the past when they were in trouble, or did you bring a partnership to others? ‍‍

There is a well-known passage in the Analects, "How happy is it to have friends from afar?" "I think he's talking about good friends. And what is the difference between ordinary friends and good friends, I think it can be described in this way, that is, we have many friends in the world, but our good friends are as difficult to find as "mountains and rivers looking for soulmates".

There are many friends in a lifetime, and one good friend in a lifetime is enough. It is enough to have that one to read all your minds.

In fact, that is our rarest confidant. Recently, in "Where Are You Going, Dad 5", the little puffs should attract a lot of attention! Little Puff is innocent and cute, but few people knew that she was the only goddaughter of Jay Chou, Liu Genghong and Jay Chou at that time were newcomers who had just debuted, but Liu Genghong's living conditions seemed to be a little better than Jay Chou's, and Liu Genghong at that time took great care of Jay Chou.

Until Jay Chou became a king, the friendship between the two of them has never changed. Because both of them are confidants, they share weal and woe, and they are affectionate and righteous. That's true friendship.

There is a kind of friendship called He Jiong Xie Na, and it is good to have someone around you who understands you. Ordinary friends may do you a favor and buy you lollipops. But only good friends will think about whether you are hurt or not and whether you are okay at the first moment of the incident.

Sometimes I always hear people around me say how small their hair is, and I always envy it. Because when I was young, because of my personality, I really didn't have any good friends, and for me, it seemed really a little pitiful. I have good friends and confidants.

But I don't have a way of understanding what the word "small" means. Perhaps, there really hasn't been! It seems like this is a regret that I can't get back.

It's hard to meet a confidant, if you have him around, please love him well!