How to become a gentleman How to appear a gentleman?

You can't bully girls, help girls hold umbrellas when it's raining, give up your seat to girls on the bus, you should stand on the right side, you shouldn't favor boys, you should be polite when you speak, you can't swear, you can't be elegant, you can't do a big deal, and you should always have a smile on your face.

It's okay to be a civilized person and learn more etiquette.

I suggest you watch a few films, and you will understand what a real gentleman looks like when you watch them......The first is "My Fair Gentleman", which has just come out, and the male protagonist in it starts with a big boss who is flustered and impolite, and after the influence of a girl, he finally became a gentleman, which is a very good film ......A role model for men! The second is "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" and "Party A and Party B", although these two films do not directly express the demeanor or temperament of a gentleman, but the language charm of the male protagonist played by Ge You in the film is worth learning, I dare to say, which language style any girl likes, humorous and funny, and gives people a good impression. As for what you wear, I don't think it's the most important thing, a person's quality is shown from manners, and conversation, I believe that if you really want to be a gentleman as a goal, you will be very patient to watch these two **, and you must have learned a lot from them after reading it.

Finally, I wish you an early achievement of your goals. Thank you

"Gentlemanly demeanor" is a general term for a series of behavioral norms such as male behavior, civility and courtesy, and respect for women.

1. The gentlemanly demeanor is prominently reflected in the attention to appearance and hygiene. From head to toe, attention should be paid to neatness and color matching. Generally, the color of men's clothing is more plain and dark, and the color of shirts is more eye-catching.

Dressing neatly is seen as a sign of self-restraint and charm. If you're at work or meeting up with an important friend, try to show respect by wearing a modest suit and polishing your shoes well. You should also pay attention to dental hygiene and go to the hospital twice a year to clean your teeth with medication.

Scaling in the teeth and odor in the mouth are a sign of poor cultivation.

2. Gentlemanly demeanor is also reflected in the speech, tone, gestures, and sitting posture of Chinese men. If you don't understand someone, say "I'm sorry" to signal them to say it again. When talking to people, sit relatively straight, gesture harmoniously, do not move much, and speak in a moderate tone, which looks very personable, which will invisibly increase your personal charm.

If there are a lot of movements, loud and loud noises when talking to people, especially leaning forward and backwards, and constantly talking foul language, it will be seen as a sign of uneducated rudeness.

3. Respect for women is also a concentrated embodiment of gentlemen. In public, it is very uncivilized for you to grab a seat, especially with a lady. Whether it's in the mall, on the subway, on the bus, or in the office, when you meet a lady who comes through the door, be sure to ask her to go first.

Of course, there is no need to say "ladies first" kind words, but with a friendly and elegant gesture, signal that ladies go first. When you open the door, you encounter someone behind you, especially if the lady is about to walk in, and you must wait until the lady comes over to catch the door before leaving.

If you can do the above aspects, I believe you are already a successful gentleman!

First of all, we must understand that life is not acting in movies, if you are too "gentleman", it will give girls a very contrived feeling, usually words and behaviors should be casual, the tone should be optimistic, and give people a sunny image. Then the usual clothes should not be too fancy, it is best to be concise, and pay attention to keeping it clean, so as to give people a refreshing and refreshing feeling. Besides, you can't argue with girls, if girls do something wrong, you just need to avoid the problem and don't catch it, you do it wrong, don't say a word, admit your mistake happily, don't care about face or anything (in fact, this is the same for men and women).

When a girl asks for help, try to help, but don't force yourself too much to do things that are beyond your ability (this will make people think that you are very face-saving, and if you can't do it, you have to resist), but show others your hard work. Can't hit a girl (this should be nonsense). If you want to care about girls from small things, it is easy to pay attention to observation.

The last point is very important, don't be completely different from boys and girls, play around with boys, and become quiet and gentle when you see girls, which is a big taboo! Don't forget.

Be generous from the heart, know how to think about each other, and behave generously