Why are good old people annoying? Why are good old people annoying?

People who are commonly known as "good old people" are generally not good at rejecting others, and they are not willing to offend others, and even if they suffer losses, they cannot show the slightest aggression.

The reason why the "good old man" is annoying is because he feels "fake".

What kind of person is a "good old man"? Good people almost always demand their words and deeds with high moral standards, and they show a moral side to anyone. Excessively repressed one's desires and rarely expressed one's desires.

What is "high morality"? High morality is the result of socialization, a worldly agreement to maintain respect and politeness when dealing with people.

Freud's theory of personality divides personality into id, ego, and superego. Among them, the ego is the unconscious primitive instinct, which is the various physiological needs of man.

It follows the principles of pleasure and immediate satisfaction; The superego is a moralized ego that acts as a suppression of instinctual impulses; And the ego plays a mediating role between the id and the superego.

When the ego is biased towards the id, man is biased towards animal instincts, and when the ego is biased towards the superego, man is moralized.

Therefore,When the "good old man" is biased towards the "superego".At the same time, he is suppressing his own self.

When a person hides all his needs, his thoughts and desires, and shows you only the perfect side of himself, don't you feel fake?

Therefore, good people are not likable, no one is a saint, they all have needs and desires, and they are not real if they seem to be different from ordinary people.

Unless this "good old man" really reaches the state of having no desires and no desires, when a person excessively suppresses himself, and over time, the id, ego, and superego are in a state of imbalance, it will cause mental unhealth and mental illness.

Therefore, it is necessary to show one's aggression appropriately and selectively refuse some unreasonable demands in order to maintain a healthy state of mind.

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Why do people hate good old people? Because most people don't believe that someone can be so kind, they will wonder if she has other intentions and hides a knife in her smile.

In today's world, people are very tolerant of those who are blatant evildoers, but they hate those who keep good intentions, saying that they are ignorant of current affairs, and that they dare to be alone. Many times, this is actually a projection of the inner moral inferiority complex, so there are quite a few people who hate the so-called good old people.

Because these good old people always want everyone to be better. But it doesn't always work out as it should. Moreover, sometimes they blindly persuade peace as Chinese.

The reasons for the parties are not fully understood, resulting in many undesirable results. So, a lot of times the good old people are not welcome.

Because the old people can't do anything, and there are some old people who can't help themselves, and they will hate it after a long time.

In fact, it's not good to be a good person, you don't have any opinions, you can do whatever people tell you, and you don't have any ideas of your own.

I don't know, maybe I think it's too boring.

Because after a long time, he will feel that you should be good to him, and if you don't treat him well that day, he will hate you.

I hate people who don't do it and pick and choose!

There are many kinds of annoying people, so why distinguish one from the most? In my experience, I think shameless people are the most annoying.

As long as people are kind, innocent, and know how to empathize, they will not be annoying. If there is something abrupt in words and deeds, it will be self-reflective and self-corrective.

Contrived, hypocritical, one set in front of the face, one set behind the back.

People who are selfish and do not hesitate to pit their brothers and sisters in order to achieve their goals.

For example, I hate the kind of people with strong vanity, who are different from each other before and after, who pretend to be high, and I don't know how much black scolding I have been subjected to!

No one is perfect, and there is always no way to satisfy everyone, or just live happily.

The best representative of this is the left-handed one on the third to last in the second group of our class, you know.

What you don't like, what you hate.