In a relationship, girls are always the weaker party, what advice do you have for girls in love?

Love, many people think that as long as two people love each other, in fact, it is not, who is not a lover in the world because of love? But how many people have come to an end? In love, love is the foundation, but if you want to be together for a long time and happy together, it's more about the management of two people.

The following advice is for girls in love. I hope you can be better because of love.

Love is a mutual act, and two people come together because they love each other. Although they love each other, when they are together, love is mutual, not one-sided. Some girls are used to indulging in love.

Of course you can, but reservations are reservations. What should be paid still has to be paid. Don't always be calm enough to appreciate that boy's flattery to you.

After the boy argued, he admitted his mistake. Over time, the boy's enthusiasm will not be reciprocated, and it will gradually cool down.

Some girls are always used to giving love. They are always positive. They can't take the initiative, but sometimes they don't get a response.

They should give up as early as possible. Don't be humble for love. In love, no one can fall in love unilaterally, there is a future, they are equal to each other, and love can last for a long time.

Love is not love, but action. Girls are always easily moved by the sweet words of boys. It seems that if he says "love you for 10,000 years", he will really love you for 10,000 years.

People who truly love you may not say so many sweet words, but in practice, they are definitely the ones who care about you the most. He won't always tell you that he misses you, but he will want to see you. He won't gently tell you to eat in time to avoid stomach pain, but will quietly order a takeout for you.

So, don't be moved by words of love. More importantly, see what he has done for you. Maybe you'll know how much he loves you.

In love, what advice is a woman must listen to? People who are lukewarm to you must know how to withdraw your enthusiasm in time and stop losses in time.

Girls can't be private, I have to protect myself. It is necessary to do something right, and at the same time protect your legitimate rights and interests.

It's simple, improve your appearance, sublimate your inside, and strive to become excellent, so that you can attract men, don't kneel and lick, adhere to principles, and have an independent personality.

Girls don't lose themselves, it's right to be tempted in love, but you must not lose yourself.

Many girls, once they think about him at first, after falling in love, there is only him in the center, and they may not love you more by surrounding him every day.

Girls must have their own confidence, feelings are the best, and if you don't have it, you can live, and live beautifully.

In real life, many people will think that girls are on the weak side, and when something happens, they will unconsciously think that girls are bullied, why is this?

1. Parental influence.

For example, when I was young, my parents would think that girls could cry and cheat, but boys should be strong and not like to cry. When I was young, girls had the idea that I was a girl and that I was the weaker party, so I could cry. When I was young, my parents also used to teach me this, because you are a girl, you can't do many things, such as you can't yell like a boy, and after growing up under the influence of my parents, I also consider myself to be the weaker party.

So many girls are not weak, but under the influence of their parents' teaching, this concept of being on the weak side has been ingrained and is difficult to change.

2. The influence of social perceptions.

This concept also exists in schools, for example, when moving books or desks, teachers will ask male students to move them, and will not let girls move. Because in our observation of the stove, the strength of boys is relatively large, and the strength of girls is relatively small, this kind of work of moving things should be done by boys, and girls can sit in the classroom and wait. After entering the society, this concept is even more, for example, some jobs he may only recruit a governor or some boys, just like the kind of job that has to travel and drink.

Under the influence of this social concept, girls will perceive themselves as the weaker party.

3. Summary. So not only the ideals of parents, but also the existence of this social concept, which affects the self-perception of girls in their subconscious.

He thinks that he is on the weak side, and he does not dare to try many things. But girls and boys are actually the same individuals, and there are some things that can be done, we can challenge ourselves, have the courage to try, and take that step is success.

This is because girls are relatively small, and they are also relatively weak in character, and they will always run away when they encounter Lu Yu's troubles, so people think they are vulnerable.

Because the body shape of girls is weaker than that of boys, and the character of girls will be a little weaker than that of boys, so many people think that girls are the weaker side of the hidden reputation shed.

Because girls really like each other, they will let girls slowly become amblyopia, and girls' strength is not as great as boys.

Marriage is run by two people together, two people work together to create a family atmosphere, the happiness of the family and the efforts of each member of the family are inseparable, if marriage is compared to a marathon. This long and extremely physically demanding process requires us to adjust our breathing and rhythm all the time, and we need to plan our long married life into several small goals that can be seen and achievable. Now in the trivial and boring daily life, we must learn to be more patient, more surprises, and more rituals with each other as before we got married.

Let the other person feel your careful love, your care and care. When you make changes quietly, without regrets, and voluntarily for the sake of your small family, (remember that at this time, you must be from the heart, and you want to change for a better self and change for the family without complaints).

Sooner or later, your partner will also notice the changes in you, your love will touch the other person, people are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless, after a long time, you will definitely be moved by your love, and re-examine the bits and pieces of your journey. As long as the divorced man has a strong economic foundation, he is still sweet and sweet in the marriage and love market, and it is no problem to find a young and beautiful girl. This is why many people use second-hand goods to refer to second-married women, but rarely use it to refer to second-married men.

Although most women in modern society have their own careers or jobs, women have to experience marriage and childbirth after all, and after giving birth, many women have become full-time mothers for children, like I am a full-time mother.

Stay-at-home mothers are sometimes looked down upon in the eyes of others, and some people will say that they will take care of the baby at home without earning money, who wouldn't? Even her husband will dislike herself for not going to work. What's more, men who have a hail will commit domestic violence against their wives because of some trivial matters.

Therefore, a large part of the people are still weak in married life! Whether it is marriage or love, in fact, there is no one who is weak after divorce and breakup. It's just to see who can think about it, choose to bear it yourself, and withdraw silently; Or they feel that they have been wronged and need to be compensated for the loss of sails.

It is also the lead wheel that needs to have a cong to disturb his interpersonal circle, so that he can stay with his good friends in ordinary life, and he also needs to have his own career and be able to achieve financial independence, so that he will not be bullied.

You must have your own income, and you must have your own job independently, so that you can have confidence and not be controlled by others.

I think you should have your own job, your own thoughts, your own circle of friends, and your own property, so that you can gain the respect of the man.

It cannot be said in general terms which side is strong and which side is weak. Love should try to be based on a relatively fair foundation.

In love, the one who loves a lot and loves deeply is often the most vulnerable to injury. Because I care too much, I love to be humble and always afraid of losing each other. Girls may be more delicate, not how to do it, love should be eight points to love others, two points to love themselves.

The mode of getting along with two people comfortably is the mode that suits, not necessarily who is strong and who is weak, and it is not a fight. It's also possible that the man doesn't mind the woman being strong, so that's okay. Anyway, love is a matter between the two of you, as long as both men and women have no opinion, then others are not qualified to interfere too much.

Affection is a feeling. A feeling of loving each other, loving each other, cherishing each other. Understand each other.

Being strong, or being weak, is a relative behavior. When two people are together, they have to discuss something. There will always be compromises on one side, but on the other side, there will be moderation.

Understand the other person's mind.

Should be level-eyed. A clear division of labor in the lives of two people is indeed conducive to the development of the first source of thought, such as the choice of a man for big things and the choice of a woman for small things. However, in terms of feelings, the most important thing should be equal eye contact.

Love is not the plundering of one person against another, but two people helping and supporting each other. In love, the status of two people is equal, and both men and women are indispensable. What we have to do is to respect the other half, not look up to the other half or look down on the other half.

In reality, there are so many examples of men or women controlling everything in the family, and such a family can survive because of the sacrifice of one party. This is similar to the reason for the peasant uprising, if the emperor oppresses too much, then the peasants will also revolt in order to survive, and the same is true in the family. This kind of life always relies on the discomfort of one party to nourish the happiness of the other.

In addition, some families seem to have unequal feelings, and the actual respect is unknowable to outsiders.

So, don't talk about the strength or weakness of the relationship. In my opinion, feelings are only active and passive. If you want a beautiful love, only by respecting each other and understanding each other can you go on better.

Don't try to control others, demand others, use yourself to influence others.

<> "4 Weak Mentalities of Girls in Love.

Girls are considered vulnerable and need to be protected.

Girls who have a weak mentality in love, no matter what happens, will always habitually let their boyfriends take the initiative to admit their mistakes first. I will subconsciously think that you are a big man, why do you want me to apologize to a girl first, you let me know what's wrong. They will think that girls are born to be cared for.

But in fact, men and women are equal, and taking care of you is because of love, not obligation.

I can't accept the accusations and denials of my relationship from people who don't regret it.

Girls who have a weak mentality in love cannot accept other people's opinions or suggestions on their feelings. When a friend or family member sees that your lover is behaving inappropriately, you will deny their remarks, never admit the problem, and say hurtful words that don't concern them. But in fact, there should be no denial that there is a problem, the problem is real, and what you need to do is to be hospitable.

Emphasize how much you've given and ask for something in return.

Girls who have a weak mentality in love will use their own efforts as bargaining chips to repeatedly reduce their needs in the relationship and compromise. But this "bargaining chip" will instead weigh on you, and you will become more and more inseparable from your lover because you have paid too much, and you feel that you have to hold on to him, otherwise it will be in vain. But in fact, giving is one-sided, when you give because of love, but don't be afraid of losing because you have paid.

Keep tempting and attribute your unstable emotions to love.

Girls who have a weak mentality in love will set a lot of experiments for themselves, thinking that they will accommodate you if they love you, and they will be jealous if they love you, so they will often use their "doing" to test their lovers in a relationship. In the name of beauty, I will do these things because I love you, so you should also submit to me. But in fact, as an adult, the emotional stability of an adult is the basic quality of eulogy, "doing is the most relational behavior."

Girls should behave a little bit in the relationship and do something that should not be so strong, otherwise it will follow the boy's saying to be a woman gentle like water, so it should show the gentle side of women, it should not be so strong in Beijing, and it should be arbitrary in the relationship, so as to return to the boyfriend's disgust, which will affect the relationship between the two people, so I think girls should be weaker in the relationship.

Girls should be strong in their relationship in order to be liked by boys, because strong girls can be respected and liked by boys.

I think it's better to be strong. Nowadays, many girls seem to be very soft on the outside. Often does not like to express. It's too vulnerable. So when it's time to strike, make a move. It's better to be stronger.