How to learn to endure What is forbearance? Why should people learn to endure?

Patience, it's actually very simple, it's that others harass you in an inconvenient situation, but you don't have to care. If he harasses you many times, then you should warn him gentlemanly to stay away from him in the future. This is my forbearance, I don't know if it's right or not. Hee-hee.

Accept this, because it is inevitable, accept it, and know that this is a normal phenomenon, and then the mentality will naturally relax.

One day, I was waiting at the bus stop! A car from another road came, and I saw a person in the car behaving strangely and looking hideous! I feel like a fool, pointing at me and trying to say something?

One second I really wanted to rush into the car and punch him hard, and the next second I was completely relieved! What do I call a fool, when I look at the carriage again, there is no more "fool" in my eyes!

In our lives, there are some people who have good karma with us, we should cherish and treat them well!

Some people have a bad relationship with us, and we have to laugh it off! It is necessary to have "gods and horses are floating clouds!" mentality.

Be tolerant of others with your own heart, and don't worry about the slightest little thing. Don't punish yourself for someone else's mistakes.

The work of customer service is not easy, try to be restrained as much as possible, if you live with restraint and feel that life can go on, you will become more and more comfortable with your work

If you can't restrain yourself, then you can't bear it anymore, which means that you are not suitable for this job, so change your career!!

Forbearance, a knife on the head of the heart. From this point of view alone, patience is a very uncomfortable thing. In life, everything cannot go well, and it is impossible to solve all the teacup conflicts between personnel with just a few mouths or knives and guns.

Therefore, people living in this society should learn a little --- tolerance when taking exams.

Confucius once said:"If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan. ”Here's a simple example.

"Everyone must know that Zhang Fei said that he wanted to tie Zhuge Liang back, if Liu Bei didn't persuade him to endure it, would there be the scenery of Shu?" Will there be a Romance of the Three Kingdoms? The ancients were like that.

Today's society seems to be regressing. The classmates will fight over small disputes; People often take their neighbors to court for a small profit; Colleagues will be intrigued over who can be promoted......The end result? It's often a lose-lose situation.

Now we advocate building harmony, but has anyone ever wondered what is lacking in a harmonious society? Patience.

It's not just about tolerating, it's about knowing how to endure, when to endure, and when not tolerate. There will always be things that don't go well with some people or things, and these places are often unchangeable. It's like when something is made, it will always be like that.

That's where patience comes in. For example, there are things that you have to do but you don't want to, or when some people stubbornly argue with you about their own obvious mistakes. However, when it comes to one's own dignity and personality, it cannot be tolerated.

Yan Zi makes Chu is a good allusion. Yan Zi relied on his own wit and courage to maintain his dignity. From this point of view, whether it is forbearance or intolerance, there must be a manifestation of wisdom.

A harmonious society needs to be tolerant, life needs to be forbearance, and interaction with people needs to be forbearance, so learning to tolerate can allow people to take fewer detours on the road of life, not only for their own convenience, but also for the convenience of others.

Heaven will descend on people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skins, empty their bodies, and act chaotically.

No pain, no gain.

This is a truth taught to us by our sages and predecessors from ancient times to the present. Tell us that if we want to succeed, we must learn to be patient.

If you can't endure hardship and sin, you will be the first to be eliminated by this cruel society.

There are also people who have endured ninety-nine steps, but give up at the last step, and eventually fail to achieve all their efforts, and all their efforts are burned in an instant.

To succeed first, we must learn to be patient, and patience must be persevered to the end, and we must constantly exercise our patience limits in order to reach the peak.

Two days ago, a friend left me a message saying: People with a peaceful mind will definitely be bullied. This sentence made me think for a long time, I think we can't control the words and deeds of others, but a person who becomes calm and broad-minded will have a long-term vision.

Maybe what others see in their eyes is bullying, but he himself can take it seriously. That is, to be able to endure.

Forbearance can avoid many unwanted tragedies

This character, according to the principle of the Chinese character "Liushu" (six methods of character formation), should be a shape and sound character, that is, the upper part of the "blade" indicates the pronunciation, and the lower part of the "heart" indicates the meaning of the fan. But since I was a child, I have heard a motto: "The word forbearance is a knife in the heart", which is to see the word "forbearance" as a word.

The people are not very particular about the knowledge of the "Six Books", but they use the glyph of "forbearance" to explain the truth of "forbearance": we must endure until we stick a knife in our hearts, and we will not resist. It's really endured to the end.

Chinese culture after the Song Dynasty emphasized the importance of patience.

In fact, forbearance, as a kind of self-cultivation, is often misinterpreted. Forbearance, it should not be held in the heart, nesting; Because the qi is not smooth, it is held in the chest, and if it is not smooth for a long time, it will be dizzy; If you are faint, you are prone to gaffes. In the end, the cultivation of forbearance will still be lost.

Therefore, forbearance should be actively and actively "resolved". It's ready to fly, if you endure it, you can only wait for death. Commonly known as:

The word forbearance is a knife in the heart", and I want to use the glyph of "forbearance" to explain the truth of "forbearance": "I have to endure until I stick a knife in my heart, and I will not resist." Actually, this is a negative attitude, and the result is very sad, at the cost of completely sacrificing oneself, and nothing substantive is solved.

This is not a positive attitude towards WTO accession, and it is not advisable. It is precisely because of this misunderstanding among the Chinese people that many people have adopted a negative attitude when they could have resolved the contradictions well, and as a result, the best opportunity to solve the problem has been delayed. Therefore, instead of misleading people to "endure to the point of sticking a knife in their hearts" to make senseless sacrifices, it is better to educate people to "endure", not be afraid of danger, make decisions at the right time, and adopt the method of actively avoiding their sharpness and roundabout resolution, and attacking them in a roundabout way; Learn to avoid head-on conflicts, reduce unnecessary consumption and losses, and use softening, differentiation and other methods to finally resolve conflicts completely.

The word "forbearance" is very important, because it is impossible for a person to be happy at any time and on any occasion, some things cannot be solved, and some things may not be solved quickly, so you can only endure! Although a person who is angry at every turn can relieve temporary psychological pressure, in the long run, he will cut off his future. People will encounter a lot of problems in their lives, if you can endure it, and learn to control your emotions and mind, even if you encounter a big problem in the future, you can naturally endure it, and you can naturally endure the best time to solve the problem, so as to achieve a great cause!

People should live for their own happiness and not be angry at the rudeness of others.