If you refuse to let go, you don t love back, so how can you let go of the unwillingness in your hea

Personally, I think that if we want to let go of the unwilling words in our hearts, then we will silently hide this love in our hearts, pay attention to him silently, and wholeheartedly wish him a smoother and more happy future.

Adjust your mentality well, every relationship is not all happy, you have to leave some regrets in life, and you can only bear it by yourself if you are unwilling, so why not let go and start again.

You must tell yourself that only by learning to let go can you and the other party find your true happiness and not delay each other.

Personally, I think that only when the evil breath in my heart comes out, will I let go of the unwillingness in my heart, otherwise it will be difficult to let go.

Then you can think about it, what good it is for you to continue to entangle, it is also your own time to waste, it is better to spend time and energy on more meaningful things.

Everyone understands that the prerequisite for two people to be together is to be honest with each other, and when two people are separated, there only needs to be one person who is not in love. In many relationships, when one party wants to let go, the other party is not able to get back their feelings in time and sort out their emotions, so when they break up, there will be people who can't let go no matter how long it takes. Some people are still in love with others, while others are just because they are unwilling.

In a relationship, I have paid all my time and energy, poured a lot of feelings, and finally broke up, how can I say that I can learn to let go and let go, **Can I really be willing? Maybe in the process of getting along with two people, they already know that the relationship has already changed, and they already know that this relationship is not easy to have results, but when it comes to breaking up, they will still be unwilling. Because the input is not reciprocated, because of the outpouring of love, there is no response from love.

The girl can have a relationship with her boyfriend in the second year, and she is already about to make do, but she is willing to make do, feeling that as long as she works hard, there is still hope between the two of them. So she got rid of her arrogance and was even better than her boyfriend. When two people have differences and quarrels, they always admit their mistakes first, and never be cold and violent with their boyfriends.

It turned out to be a cheerful and delicate girl, but she knew how to suppress her temperament and manage her emotions.

originally thought that the relationship would be retained, so that the two of them could be long-term. can bring humiliation on himself and will be woken up by reality one day, and her boyfriend still separated from her in the end. When she broke up, did she still not let go of her boyfriend?

She began to contact her boyfriend frequently, telling him interesting things after the two of them first got together. wanted to make her boyfriend reconcile in this way, but her boyfriend seemed to be more in love with the previous one here and didn't want to go back to his side. She was sad and sad, had no intention of living and working, and lived a mess of her life, and even lost her job because of a mistake not long after.

Her boyfriend knew that she was like that, and did not return to her, but he had the courage to take on the responsibility of taking care of her. When she got in touch with her boyfriend again, she realized that the relationship she liked was not like that at all, and she had always been reluctant to let go, just because she had invested too much in the past, and now she is too unwilling. On your own, you can live well.

After two people break up, if they still want to keep it, if there is no way to let go, don't be in a hurry to make a decision, be anxious to keep it, think about it, so that they can't let go, whether they are unwilling or still want to love. If you still want to love, and you feel that this relationship also has salvage value, then go and fight for a chance to reconcile. If because of unwillingness, love will no longer be the same as before, then it is better to convince yourself, let go of the past, concentrate, and live a good life.

That's right. Because I also gave true love at the beginning, I spent so much time, energy and money in the relationship, and finally broke up, so it was not love, but unwillingness.

What really makes it impossible for him to let go is never reconciled, unwilling to break up after two people have been together for so long, unwilling that two people have no way to go to the end, and it will be very sad at this time.

Many feelings, when one party wants to let go, the other party can't take back their feelings in time, and what really makes them unable to let go is unwilling rather than still in love.

Hello dear! I'm happy to serve you: 1. Learn to let go of a relationship, if you let yourself cry a lot, it means that it is not suitable for you, or when the other party no longer loves you, you must learn to let go. Learning to let go not only will both parties not suffer, but also have better choices.

2. Learn to transfer the mental strength The reason why a person can't let go of a relationship is that the mental strength is all on the other party, and he is missing each other all the time. 3. Learn to be ruthless, when a person knows that this feeling does not belong to him, he must learn to be ruthless. No matter how much the other party pursues or retains himself, he must be principled and learn to be ruthless.

Not only do you get the respect of the other person, but you don't hurt each other. 4. Learn not to disturb when you can't let go of a relationship; There are always ways to contact each other. No matter how snub the other party is, you can understand yourself.

In fact, when a relationship does not belong to you, you must learn not to disturb, not only to leave suspense with each other, but also to be okay with each other. 5. Appropriate travel when feelings make you confused or unable to let go, appropriate travel. Traveling properly is not only relaxing, but also feeling the beauty of nature.

6. Keep yourself busy recordingIf you want to let go of a relationship, it is necessary to make yourself busy recording. You can spend your time studying or working. Busy recording not only has been improved in study or work, but also unconsciously let go of feelings that do not belong to you.

I hope mine can help you I wish you a happy life and all the best! <>

Many people in life are tortured by their own unwillingness and can't let go of this shackle, and I used to be the same.

Sometimes unwillingness is not because of how much love there is, but just because of unwillingness. was unwilling to accept his unreserved and paid so much, but he was finally let down; I am unwilling to accept the fact that I was so good to me, but in the end I will go away ruthlessly.

Every time I hear these three words, there is inexplicable distress and helplessness behind it.

In fact, your unwillingness is just a shackle and even poison that you put on yourself, and you can't hurt others, but only yourself.

The so-called unwillingness must mean that it is not as good as you want, unwilling to accept it, and unwilling to face it.

But the person who makes you unwilling is likely to have already lived the new life you chose, but you are still imprisoned in place and bound in your unwillingness.

The person you really can't let go of isn't him, it's yourself, isn't it?

If you are unwilling to be disappointed by what you have paid, then you might as well think about whether you were willing and unreserved when you were giving; If you are not reconciled, why did the person who used to be so good to you leave in an uproar, then it is better to calm down and think about why I have come to this point, and what can I gain from it.

The most important thing you should think about is how to grow so that the next time you meet your true love, you can hold on to it.

The Buddha said: All loss is not possessed; What is yours is yours, not yours, don't force it.

Love others first love yourself, if you don't love yourself, really no one will love you

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Summary. Through your description, the teacher feels that you still like him, and since you like it, it is better to try to redeem it, even if you try your best to redeem it is not what you expected, at least you dare to take that step.

Through your description, the rough teacher feels that you still like it, and since you like it, it is better to try to redeem it, even if you try your best to redeem it, it doesn't matter if it is not what you thought and expected, at least you dare to take that step.

I asked him and he said he didn't love it, but he gave me takeout again.

He will bring me fruit again, and he can't be the Lord and not reconcile with me.

You can also see that you both still have feelings for each other, what happened to affect your relationship?

If he can forget you so quickly, it means that he doesn't love you enough, and it's not a pity to lose a man who doesn't love him, don't you say?

When we say goodbye to a relationship, we must be heartbroken, Chunxian I know you are very reluctant to him, but we first need to make it clear, whether this person is worth burying you to keep, whether this relationship is worth your recovery, can you tell the teacher why you broke up?

Because his sister said that the fortune teller said that we didn't agree with the 8 characters, I am 31 years old this year for him, so I am unwilling.

If you want to let go of a loved one, it takes a while, you and him fall in love, it is impossible to completely forget it within three or five days, as long as you are willing, the teacher will be blind when you follow the front ruler mold, and accompany you to get out of this haze together, okay?

If he can forget you so quickly, it means that he doesn't love you enough, and it's not a pity to lose a man who doesn't love him, don't you say?

We've broken up for 2 months, his character is not expressive, so he's 30 years old, I'm his first love, I like to avoid asking questions, we broke up because Sister Lusui managed too much and he didn't communicate.

It won't change if your relationship continues like this.

His sister said that she was going to get engaged and have a child and was holding a wedding, didn't she force me to break up.

Everyone's ideas are different, if you can adapt, you can get along, if you can't get along, you can give up in the current situation.