Why do most people become hypocritical?

No one is willing to give 100% of their thoughts to others, including their families! Because this society is too realistic now, and the continuous development has led to people's money worship, vanity and desire. And everyone's ultimate interest will only choose themselves, so everyone will choose to hide themselves, protect themselves, and keep themselves from harm!

So it behaves like the hypocrisy that the landlord said, because what you do and what you think are not necessarily the same! But in fact, as long as everyone grasps the degree, it will be left and right if it is handled well, but if this degree is not grasped well, then it is really a villain! It's excessive selfishness!

No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just keep in mind:

Don't give up this second, there is a miracle in the next second, life will inevitably fall and wait to be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain! I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.

Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.

Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.

Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it!

Finally, I wish you a happy life!

Hello landlord, your question is a bit extreme.

It's not that people have become hypocritical now, but that this society has become hypocritical and people conform to the environment.

The degeneration of society has made everyone wear layers of masks, and some insecure people cannot take off their masks even in front of their closest friends, which is the pathology of today's society.

Of course, we get along with each other and make friends first. If you face him or her with a mask, then you should communicate with him or her more sincerely, and if he or she genuinely befriends you, I believe he will be touched by you.

If he (she) still treats you with his or her original attitude, it means that he does not treat you as a friend in his heart, how can you ask him to have a heart to heart with you in such a person!

Because the world is constantly changing. So there are more and more hypocrites. There is no one in the world who is not hypocritical.

But don't turn this hypocrisy into a nuisance. Take care of yourself. You can't sway other people's hypocrisy.

But you must not allow yourself to be hypocritical.

It's not as complicated as everyone says.

I think it's due to 2 reasons.

1: The development of society.

People began to deliberately pursue a high spiritual and material life.

leads to increased vanity.

In layman's terms, I like to compare myself with others.

Pursue external balance with others.

2: The development of the times.

Be open-minded.

Speaking and dealing with things is not as strict as before.

Crisis of confidence. That's how it all came about.

Afraid of hurting himself, pretending to be hypocritical.

Hehe, on the one hand, it is the needs of the real society.

On the other hand, you can protect yourself from harm.

You ask this question to prove that you are more mature than before, that you are in contact with another color of this society, and by the time you suddenly feel that this question is not a problem after a while, you are a little more mature again

Forced by the helplessness of society and their own needs!!

Society should have changed everything that was good in people.

Hypocritical societies lead hypocritical human beings. 、、

Friend, you still give an illustration.

What a hypocrisy.

There is no reason for this question, I don't apologize!!