Is it true that most people don t regret their former lovers, but they just feel that the past is th

Updated on healthy 2024-02-13
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course yes, after all, it's all in the past, and sometimes it's useless to regret it, so people should still look forward, so cherishing the talent in front of you is the most important thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes. With the passage of time, it will become a thing of the past, but the unforgettable love will be eternal!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on whether you trust someone good enough, and if you're good enough about your current one, then of course you won't remember your ex, even if the loved one you remember is just the name of that person. But if trust is indeed too much in common with his predecessor, and sometimes the current one is not good enough, then of course you will miss your predecessor, which is an indisputable fact.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It should be, some will regret it, but regret is useless, let it pass in the past, and learning to let go is the best thing for yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Most people still have a trace of affection for their former lovers, although they are separated, but there will still be his shadow in their hearts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Those lovers who broke up because of relationship problems should be, because since they broke up with their former lovers, it should be that the relationship is not enough to maintain the relationship between lovers, since there is no relationship, it is a pity to break up, and I should not regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not really, many people will think of their former lovers and think of the past. After all, it's an experience in life, and it's hard to forget.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Most of the ladies will regret it, why didn't they insist? I regret breaking up like this, in fact, others are still good, if I am really bored, I will feel that the past is the past.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some people don't think they can get past it, and some things may be remembered for a lifetime and will not be forgotten.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You will definitely regret it, how can you not regret it? Especially if you give up something you shouldn't give up, you will definitely regret it very much.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think most people regret it, they regret why they left, and a lot of people just don't understand why they were so stupid in the first place.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The sense of security is brought to you by the other party, their various behaviors can affect you, girls are mostly the more sensitive party in the relationship, and what they need is a boy who can bring her a sense of security.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Only after experiencing it, will you grow, after all, you have liked it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The so-called most memorable is the one that has never been remembered, but can never be forgotten.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, I believe that most people will not regret their former lovers, and will think that the past is over, and it is good to start a new life again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The past is still in the past, and you have to face the future and not the past, so it is useless to know.

    I know that it is good, I know that I broke up early, and I will bring unnecessary troubles to myself after marriage, I am not a person who wants to step on two boats, it is you who do it yourself, this can only depend on the individual, and it is good to be confused by other authorities.

    There is no need to actively know. Sooner or later, you will be told what you should know, and you won't get an answer if you don't know. Go with the flow, you'll always know what you need to know.

    However, there are some things that will be known one day.

    Two steps: You first understand her views on paternity testing, for example, you make up a story about your colleague's divorce because of paternity testing, and explore her views, if she thinks that this is a great insult and unacceptable to the woman. You can do the identification yourself secretly.

    On the contrary, she held the attitude of "don't do bad things and don't be afraid of ghosts calling the door", so she invited her to go.

    A doesn't know that B is the correct solution.

    Why do you have to ** someone else's past?

    It's really hard to say. But to love one person is to love all of him. As long as the past doesn't have much of an impact on the present and the future, it's best not to ask.

    While most people are interested in each other's past. Everyone still wants a little privacy. Think about it from another perspective, if there are 1 or 2 things in your past that you don't want people to know, and people keep asking you, what would you think?

    The person who said this is not sure whether the other party knows it, but it is basically a little more likely that he does not know.

    Knowing is the use of a shared platform to hand over one person's questions to other users who know. Therefore, there is almost no information about the question, and other netizens know the question of the questioner.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I wouldn't mind my lover's past. Everyone has a past, and the most important thing in a relationship is not how you have been in the past, because those have happened, and the most important thing should be how the present is. If your partner is genuine and considerate to you in the present, then his concerns about his past are not so important.

    First of all, it's normal to have a past. A person will go through all kinds of things in his life, there is no fixed order of appearance in life, it's just that he met someone he liked just before you, and they didn't have fate to go to the end, and now he met you again. No one can say for sure, so we don't need to take the "past" too seriously, what matters is how you feel in the present, and then the plan for the future.

    Secondly, as long as the other party has dealt with the past feelings, the past is just a chaotic and vague memory. As long as the other party has dealt with the past feelings and no longer contacts, and the present is truly in love with you, it is enough.

    In the end, your happiness is in your hands. The past is indeed indelible, but the initiative for the happiness of the present is entirely in your own hands. I believe that most people choose to cherish the people around them.

    Instead of being too entangled in his Li Ming's past, it is better to grasp the present moment, do more meaningful things, have more common experiences, and fill the thoughts of the past with the fullness of reality, people's eyes are always looking forward, so as long as you are willing, the present is the best time.

    All in all, we don't need to be too entangled in the object's past, hand in hand and step by step.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you hear the past from the other person's mouth, and find that everything is not what you imagined, and it is not within the scope of what you can accept calmly, you will be surprised, and you will be a little disappointed and mind for a while, which is very normal.

    The people you love, even if you have some past, of course you will hope that those pasts will not be too crossed.

    But when everything has become a reality, for example, the other party has more exes, has had an improper relationship with someone else, and has already lived with someone, instead of feeling bad about the other party all the time, you should ask yourself if you can make the past a thing of the past.

    If, after thinking about it for a while, you find that your love for that person is far greater than anything else, and in your relationship, you find that you can still continue to be kind to each other, and you only want to be together, then of course you can continue to be good with the other person.

    A person's past cannot be changed, and everyone will inevitably have some unbearable years.

    Since those past are gone, that person is really good now, you really like it, and the other party is sincere enough, give the other party a chance to start over, and give yourself a chance to be happy, which will of course be particularly worthwhile.

    In this life, everyone is the same, and they can't always live in the past, let alone live in the past of others.

    What you need to do is to feel the present and create a better future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What do you think about the past of lovers? He has a good time with you now, if he is good to you, you don't care too much about his past, because everyone is going to pass, and you will be relieved if he lets you go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not important, it's important to be now, don't always keep your eyes fixed on the past.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I don't think the lover's past really matters, as long as the current person really loves you, I think this is the most important thing, and there is really no need to hold on to the past things.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Unimportant. The past of the lover really doesn't matter, what matters is your future life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think it's important, because you're married to him now, and he's more important now.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'll care. But I'll adjust my emotions. After all.

    What happened to the other party before was not there at that time. Some things, when you don't care, go away slowly; But if there is something that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not be erected, the clearer it will be in your memory.

    So, from a love perspective, the question goes like this: if you love him, you will never mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't love him anymore.

    When you mind a person's past, it means that the person's past is not happy for you. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave gaps and even shadows in your heart.

    If you care a lot about someone or something he has met in the past, then your heart can't love him anymore.

    When you face Him in the future, you will be very entangled and painful. When you enjoy his kindness to you, you will wonder from time to time, did he use it so well to others before? Did he think of me as an old man? When it comes to love, the most afraid of doubt and nonsense.

    Being overly concerned about the other person's past, or even being uneasy, will only create rifts in the current relationship, erode mutual trust, and eventually inevitably part ways. Now Yu Lingsong really doesn't have any meaning. The past is in the past and cannot be erased or changed, but all we can do is cherish the present and work together.

    Since two people can be together, they should let go of the past. Facing the present, facing the future, those past have passed, those memories, we don't need to deliberately forget, plain, do as you like.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you want to care about each other's past, there will be some of them, especially for people who have a love habit. If two people have a deep relationship and are honest with each other, they may be able to accept it slowly, because some people accept it, but they are psychologically affected, and if they encounter something unpleasant, they will use this to provoke the matter again, and even become a topic of ridicule for each other in the future, and become a handle.

    Once there is a knot in the heart, it may not be so easy to tie it in the future. As the saying goes, who has not passed, because there are several pasts, let fate link the two sides together, if there is no past, it must be the first love, and the first love did not stay, then there is a later relationship.

    Everyone hopes that the first love is true love and absolute love, but things are unsatisfactory and not according to the development you think, so I have to find someone else, and they all say that the best is in the back, I don't know how many people have been pitted, many people believe it, and they are waiting for the last person to go on a blind date, so the front is not cherished, and the people in the back mind your past. It's best to meet the right person at the right time and in the right place, so you don't have to work hard.

    Lovers are now written from the past, whether it is a blank space, or after the vicissitudes of life, the past can no longer be changed. He was willing to say that it was a blessing to listen to me, and he respected his decision even if he didn't want to share. Even if his past is unbearable, Since he chose him, trust him, after all, he likes the present.

    Don't ask, don't play stupid. It's because I love him now, and I believe that if he is so good now, his past will not be bad. It's me who trusts him now and has confidence in our relationship. I was not involved in his past, at least now and in the future.

    Since two people have come together, it proves that the exes of each other are the wrong choices, so stop worrying about the people in the past. Cherish the present, cherish the people in front of you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello dear! I won't care about his past, and if I mind, I won't be able to love him wholeheartedly. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

    When you mind a person who is envious of his past, it means that this person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow. If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore.

    In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will still think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be? In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, or your brother will have some performance, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be alienated, sometimes he will ask it often, and he will be sensitive to realize that you mind those things very much. His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past.

    If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

    Watch the sunset together.

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