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Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises Why do we swear to each other, because we don't believe in each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic:
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
Be careful not to make promises that can be fulfilled
It's better to promise what you can't do, and if you can't do it anyway, it doesn't matter if you talk about it, and remember: "Promises that are impossible are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
Those who speak do not believe, and neither do those who listen.
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If true love will think of paying for the "her" he likes without regrets. Don't ask for anything in return, this is true love, in fact, as long as you can see that he can be happy and happy with what he likes, love doesn't have to be together.
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Don't think too much about the pros and cons.
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I think the main reason is that this is a kind of selfless love, only selfless love in the expression is to give to each other without regrets, if it is selfish love will let the other party always be by their side, will not let the other party leave themselves, and even the other party can only pay for themselves.
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The reason why it is said that love in a relationship is to give to each other without regrets is because loving a person can't bear to let him be hurt in any way, so he will give from the heart.
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If you like someone, you will be good to her wholeheartedly, without complaints, all voluntary, and will give everything for him.
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This is because two people who love each other need to go both ways, and they are willing to pay for each other when they love someone, and only two people who go both ways are willing to pay for each other.
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If you really love someone, you will think about each other wholeheartedly, you will pay in this relationship, and you don't want to be reciprocated, this kind of love is uncomplaining and willing.
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Because if you really love someone, you will give without regrets, and for the happiness of the other party, you will do something willingly.
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Hehe, what is true love?
Although we will.
DU often sees similarities.
Zhi's remarks, love is a person's dao thing, my version loves you, and has nothing to do with you and so on.
But, believe, most people can't do it. If you always get no corresponding return for your efforts, if you always get no response to your love, I believe that not many people can bear it.
Only those who love each other beyond reality, beyond language, beyond time and space, and beyond everything will only ask for something to give without asking for anything in return.
But we can't do it, we're just an ordinary person, we hope that our love can be reciprocated by the other person's love, one person's love is more lonely than two people's love. We are not so great, we are not so divine, but are we not true love? How many people in the world can just blindly give, never hoping that they can get the same love from each other?
That's just an ideal state, if you really don't ask for anything in return, then why do people feel sad and uncomfortable when they fall out of love? Because you want to be loved by the other person, but the other person doesn't give you his love, so you are sad, isn't that the reward you are asking for?
Not asking for anything in return is just to comfort the lovelorn, just like the saying: love is giving, so it will never be lost. Encouragement to all those who have fallen out of love.
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Not necessarily. It is said that love is selfish, and who really doesn't expect anything in return.
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There is no such thing as unprovoked hatred. There is no love without a cause.
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Different people have different understandings of love ... It depends on what kind of person you are.
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When young people fall in love, especially girls, they will always ask their boyfriends solemnly and suddenly: "Do you love me?" If you say "love", you will be full of joy, and if the other party is spitting, you will feel that "he doesn't love me" and be angry and unhappy.
In fact, most people seem to love someone must be paved by the other person's love, and if there is no foreshadowing, they are reluctant to love well, or love is uncomfortable.
However, love can only be felt when the beauty model is reconciled when the wild gives.
When you love someone, when you focus on loving this person, you see that the world suddenly becomes very wonderful, and when you start to wonder if he will love me the same, immediately this good feeling is gone.
The fundamental attribute of love is to give, just like the sun, he just gives he does not ask for anything in return, and there is no difference. If you take a magnifying glass and focus the sunlight to one point, then this point will burn, which gives us a very important revelation: all narrow love is harmful to people.
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When I was young, I liked to watch **, especially like to see happy love and hatred, longing for "I wish to have a heart, and the white head will not be separated", firmly agree with "If you are interested, I will love deeply", and I think that "if you don't have the heart, I will rest".
Maybe it's because you're young and vigorous, you don't have a firm heart, you don't have the patience to wait, or you are selfish and unwilling to fall into an endless and hopeless situation, how can love have nothing to do with the other person? The character is very hard and rigid, and he would rather swallow the bitter water himself after choosing it, rather than show others what it looks like he has suffered.
Compared with Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu waiting for each other, I appreciate Ah Zi's clear love and hate: love must take the initiative to fight, and if you don't get along with Changbu, you simply give up, and it is not happy to be caught in the middle.
Now, as I get older, I slowly understand that love and waiting are more compatible.
Giving for the sake of a response, giving for the sake of being rewarded, is not true love. Love is giving, love is giving, love is perseverance, love is fulfillment. People who can't be selfless and can't insist on waiting are not qualified to talk about love.
I still like you very much, like the wind has walked 80,000 miles, regardless of the return date", because I like it deeply, I will be serious and single-minded, and I don't ask for anything in return. This love is just a thought in my heart, I can think about it, but I may not get it, and I will continue to love silently without disturbing it.
is like a song that says, "I don't give up the day, I have experienced a thousand sails, and liking you is the most beautiful secret I hide in my heart." If you believe it, don't give up easily, so as not to live up to your heart.
Now thinking back on the ** plot, Guo Xiang puts his lifelong admiration in his heart, and whenever he recalls the fireworks on his sixteenth birthday, he feels happy, and in fact, he has completed himself. Sticking to one's unwavering love is true love.
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Love is gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, failure is with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad together. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him happy forever, to be her eternal safe haven, to protect her, even if it is the slightest harm.
Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together! Eternal love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, eternal love is your love.
Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.
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True love is giving, not calculating.
Bai of returns
Only if you really love each other, you have never thought of asking the other party to give you something in return, because love is a kind of selfless dedication and dedication, he in the process of dedication and dedication, let yourself be happy and happy, if you care about the return, then which is true love? Calculate your efforts every day, how much return you want, and can you still give sincerely? No, so when you love each other, as long as you sincerely do what the other party needs, sincerely experiment and consider each other, help them solve various problems in their lives and work, and give your sincerity, then this is true love, not how much you have to pay in return in the process, otherwise it is not true love.
Giving to each other in marriage does not necessarily lead to true love. What is true love? True love, as the name suggests, true love, that is to say, in the process of getting along, men and women germinate love, because the love for each other trumps everything and transcends all material, only the instinctive love for each other from the heart and in the depths of the heart, this is true love. >>>More
Love is tired Love is originally a thing that is not easy to grasp the balance Maybe love is more between a subtle and ambiguous thing before the establishment of a relationship and after acquaintance Love is tired is that the limit and highest point of love has come and has passed When you are tired, you should rest Maybe you don't love Maybe you thought love was vigorous But in fact it is not, so you should rest and rest It's good to reminisce.
Of course, you want to be free, love or something, when you want to settle down, let's talk about it.
Love is not the truth, you have a question to ask.
Truly loving someone should be like this.