In the first year of junior high school, I was afraid that others would surpass me, what should I do

Method 1: Extinguish the mouth.

Method 2: Self-destruct.

Method 3: Buying classmates with good grades.

Method 4: Bribery of teachers.

Method 5: Buy Yourself.

Method 6: Study hard to ensure full marks in all subjects.

Method 7: Blow up the school.

Method 8: You know.

Method 9: You also thought of it.

Method 10: I haven't thought of it yet.

Personal experience:1I'm also a student, and I'm in my third year of high school.

Personally, I don't think that the current school education (only in China) does not reflect the distinction between people. As long as you waste a little time studying, you can get a high score, or even a perfect score. But, in fact, there is a difference between people, some people have a talent for writing, some people have a talent for invention....Finding your gifts and developing them is the happiest thing in life.

Some people spend a lifetime not finding it)

2.Learning should not be narrowly assumed that textbooks are all knowledge. In fact, the knowledge in textbooks is only a small amount, and it may not be useful for the rest of your life.

For you as a junior high school student, you should have a lot of time to do what you love (not playing), you can learn to draw, cook, play a musical instrument and so on, which will definitely have a positive impact on your life. Grasp the present, because time can easily fade away.

3,.Have the courage to try, but also learn to give up. Try to try something new, such as reading some books that you don't usually read, and meeting people you don't usually come into contact with, and you will have a "heart" discovery.

In addition, don't be too attached to what is not suitable for you, even if you give a lot, what is not suitable is still what is not suitable, and then learn to give up.

4.If you want to have a life without regrets, don't care too much about people other than yourself, even your parents, including me. Many times, people will be influenced by the people around them to make judgments that are not suitable for them, so don't let others say what you say, have your own opinions, stick to yourself, and even if you find out that you are wrong in the end, it doesn't matter, because these mistakes will become a tool for you to make correct judgments later.

5,.A person's life is never smooth sailing, people will always encounter difficulties, and there will always be times when they are confused. For difficulties, those who should be overcome should be overcome, and those who do not have to be overcome can be ignored.

For confusion, there is a feasible way (probably not the best way), and that is to "try", for example, if you are in a maze, then you try all the roads in the maze, and there is always a way to the exit.

6.Jealousy may be common to everyone, but we can't be carried away by jealousy, seeing others progress, in addition to jealousy of him, it should be more of a blessing to him, and you should be happy that you can meet some positive people.

The above is purely a personal opinion and any similarities are purely coincidental. I'm sure you'll read it all.

I don't care about that, I just want to help others, because I've been helped by a lot of people.

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There are many masters, and it is normal for you to be surpassed.

From your question, I think you are an excellent student with a strong self-motivation. Don't be afraid of being surpassed by others, because everyone has to play well or badly, as long as you study hard, communicate more with your classmates, and help each other, your grades will definitely remain excellent. Come on, come on.

Be calm, surpassing others and being surpassed by others are the norm, and it is normal competition. If you pay too much attention to it, it will become a burden, and it will cause your grades to decline, and the gains outweigh the losses. What you have to do is to master the knowledge and apply the knowledge, so that the performance can be steadily improved.

You should correct your learning attitude, don't be afraid of being surpassed, no one is perfect, and no one can always stand at the highest point. You are now in junior high school, and later you will go to high school and college, and the competition will be more fierce, if you can't bear to fail at all, your life will be miserable, and once someone surpasses you, you can't stand it, what are you going to do. Do your best to learn, be the best version of yourself, be surpassed to show that you have shortcomings, only to redouble your efforts, will be more frustrated and braver.

Victory and defeat are a common thing in soldiers. Dare to win and not be afraid to lose. When you are ahead, you are not complacent, and when you are surpassed by others, you will secretly make up your mind to improve your study methods and strive to regain the leading position next time you take the next exam.

If you keep thinking about being overtaken by others, which affects your learning status, it really outweighs the loss.

Young people, relax, know that grades are not the only thing, and you will know when you are out of society. If the score is exceeded, then it will be good to overtake it again, it is someone else's business to do the question, maybe people don't understand, brush it twice more, and you will understand. Everyone has their own way of studying, if your method suits you, then continue with your method, unless you find a method that works better for you, it is not recommended that you brush the questions desperately.

Calm down and don't care too much about what others do.

Hello this classmate! It's very normal to have such a mindset, which proves that you are very self-motivated!

However, you can't always feel scared, first of all, show your self-confidence, you do well in the entrance exam, it proves that you are very strong! If you have such strength, why be afraid!

Secondly, don't think of other classmates as very powerful, because others think you are very good in their hearts!

Finally, try to be friends with the ones you think are amazing! In this way, learn from each other's strengths, you will definitely make rapid progress, and make good friends and improve your academic performance, why not!

This kind of mentality is not right, and it is not conducive to one's own growth, and people who have always been leaders in learning are easy to become psychologically fragile and unable to withstand setbacks. We should take the transcendence of others as an opportunity to exercise our own mental strength. In fact, there are people outside the sky, the world is so big, there are people who are more powerful than themselves, it is normal to be surpassed by others, we must correct our mentality and continue to work hard.

Hello, judging from the situation described to you, you belong to the cause of mental stress, self-motivation is a good thing, but don't affect your happiness. Couples, you might as well adopt a way of thinking, it doesn't matter if you are moved by others, you must surpass it next time, so that it is a prominent thought for yourself.

Don't suffer too much about gains and losses, just be yourself, there are people outside the world! Don't suffer too much about gains and losses, just be yourself, there are people outside the world! Don't suffer too much about gains and losses, just be yourself, there are people outside the world!

Strive to surpass yourself.

1.It doesn't matter if someone else outperforms you or not.

2.It's more important to surpass yourself.

3.Learning is not competition.

4.For the purpose of mastering.

In short: go for it.

Hello this classmate! Now the above junior high school results are ranked in the top 20 of the grade, which is very good for you! But you must know that victory and defeat are a common thing in soldiers, and don't be afraid of being surpassed by others, after all, there are people outside of people, and there are heavens outside of heaven.

As long as you have a correct learning attitude, study hard, master good learning methods, and work hard to solve problems is only one aspect, and the main thing is to master the opposite.

Don't be afraid, grades in the class don't matter. You have to compare yourself to yourself, as long as you keep improving. The college entrance examination looks at your ranking in the province, not limited to the class.

Don't be so afraid of being surpassed by others, as long as you study hard, as the so-called people outside the world, there are days outside the world, you can't do your best in everything, just relax your mind and do your best.

Desperately doing questions is useful, but there is a limit, if you are very stupid and desperately do the problem to brush the effect is greater, to forcibly make up the knowledge, but when it is okay, the effect is not great, at this time the top students are reflected in the brainpower, such as brushing the first question of a hundred college entrance examination questions, it is better to spend time pondering the last two questions of the big question, and solve the problem with a better thinking side. As for others catching up with you, it's a good thing that proves you're not trying hard enough! Come on!

It's useful, as a student who has taken the high school entrance examination, really.

Particularly useful! Five or three brush down a few sets, and you will find out.

During the exam, I seem to have done this, and this seems to be the original question, but I changed the value a little bit.

In fact, many learning methods are useful, don't.

Afraid of being surpassed, you can only be in front of others if you exceed your current results, surpass yourself, and let others follow in your footsteps.

Then you have to put in more effort than other students, study hard and enrich yourself at all times, don't be ashamed to ask, make yourself better, there are people outside the mountain, don't put too much pressure on yourself, just do your best within your ability, otherwise you will go the other way.

I was the same as you before, and then I talked to the teacher about it, in fact, there is no need to do this, it is necessary to brush the questions, but you can't blindly brush the questions, find your own right way, don't care how others do the best on your own, because you work hard, you must learn the wrong questions, try not to make the second time, never make the third time, correct your mentality is the most important thing, if it really doesn't work, then read more books, exercise more, let your head empty and relax, divert your attention, I hope it will be useful to you.

As long as you think about learning and love learning, it is good for your grades to improve. Don't think about comparing yourself to others.

It's good to put a balanced mindset, after all, there are people outside the world, just do your best, you can also become good friends with them, and discuss the experience together.

Hello: This is a psychological state that we are often prone to, in the depths of the heart of inferiority and lack of self-confidence, even if they are in a high position, there is no sense of security, in fact, we should cultivate our own self-confidence from the heart, rather than the level of achievement caused by the loss of gains.

You should calm down and think about what you are like, what you are pursuing, understand yourself clearly, see your own progress clearly, you will become more and more confident, and take your progress as a measure of whether you are strong, rather than always comparing others with yourself.

That's because you've been compared to outsiders before. In this way, you can show yourself masterfully. If you are self-based. Always surpass yourself. This will reduce your current worries.

Because you are faster than others, if you are behind others, others are afraid that you will be overtaken.

You have to have the right mentality, competition is a good thing, but you don't treat your competitor as an enemy first, treat her as your good friend and make progress together!

Relax, the exam is like a battlefield! Ever-changing, one time is nothing! Everyone has a time when they are bad!

...Competition is inevitable, set the right mentality!

That's not the point, is it? You shouldn't be thinking about being afraid of others overtaking you now, right? Instead, it should go to the first place, right?

Well, I'm not in particular for taking grades too seriously. What if you surpass the first place? There are a lot of first places, and I can't finish it in a lifetime.

I still hope that you can correct your mentality and be able to look at the results correctly. Grades aren't unique, but childhood is true to come once in life. It is recommended that you find a classmate with lower grades than you to be a friend, and confide in him when you are upset, and you will find a different world.

Jealousy is a negative emotional experience that causes resistance due to others being better than oneself. When you see that others are better than you, your heart is sour, and you will have a complex emotion that contains hatred and envy, anger and resentment, suspicion and disappointment, humiliation and vanity, and sadness and grief, and this emotion is jealousy. The jealous person cannot tolerate others surpassing him, and is afraid that others will get fame, status, etc., which he cannot obtain, and in his opinion, others should not do what he cannot do, and what he cannot get, others should not get.

The degree of jealousy varies from shallow to deep, and the shallower degree of jealousy is often hidden deep in people's subconscious and is not easy to detect. For example, if you are good friends with a classmate, his academic performance and ability are strong, and he does not want to attack his good friend, but he always feels a little sour in his heart. And a deeper degree of jealousy will be consciously or unconsciously manifested, such as picking on classmates who are more capable than themselves, spreading rumors, and framing them.

Jealousy not only affects physical and mental health, but also affects study and work. Strong jealousy directly affects people's emotions, and bad emotions can greatly reduce the efficiency of study or work. In addition, jealousy can prevent us from making close friends.

Jealous people tend to be competitive in everything, often trying to stop the development of others, and always want to overpower others. This may make classmates and friends want to avoid you and not associate with you. As a result, you will create a bad interpersonal atmosphere for yourself, and you will feel lonely and lonely.

How to overcome? 1.Cultivate an open-minded attitude towards life, be open-minded, and understand that "there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the world", and "the strong have their own strong hands", which is an objective law.

2.Divert your attention and give yourself a reason not to be jealous.

When we have so much to do, we don't have time to be jealous of others. Therefore, actively participate in all kinds of beneficial activities, study hard, work diligently, and make yourself truly fulfilled, then the poison of jealousy will not breed and spread. In order to alleviate the psychological imbalance caused by your failure, you can find some reasons to stop being jealous of others.

3.See your strengths and turn jealousy into motivation.

When a person is jealous of others, he always pays attention to the good in others, but he cannot pay attention to what he is better than others. In fact, everyone is inferior to others, and when others surpass us in some aspects, we can consciously think about what we are better than the other party, so that our unbalanced psychological balance will be restored to a balanced state.

In short, it's not terrible to be jealous of others, the key is to see if you can face up to jealousy. You might as well use the strong superconsciousness of jealousy to work hard, sublimate this jealousy, turn jealousy into the motivation for success, turn negativity into positive, and surpass others!