Busy with work, should I send my parents to a nursing home with good conditions?

Parents who are 50-60 years old and are preparing to retire or just retiring for a few years may still be able to maintain a relatively healthy physical state (healthy

aging), but in the process they will slowly lose a certain physiological function (chronic loss of

capacity）。Then at a certain point in time, the parents' bodies will become very fragile, and even a cold and flu will not be cured for a long time (chronic

vulnerability）。Then there is a sudden serious illness in the parents, which may be gout, cerebral infarction and other diseases, resulting in acute loss of function (acute

loss of capacity), such as unable to speak or walk, and hospitalization is urgently needed. After being discharged from the hospital, there is a process of chronic disease ** (as shown in the U-shaped curve in the figure), in addition to ** training, there is also the management of multiple medications, which requires professional medical care at this time. However, even if the recovery period is reached, it is impossible for the parents' physical condition to return to 100% of the healthy level of the previous years, and someone must help take care of them at this time.

An elderly man who had received professional nursing at the scene said frankly, "I am afraid of getting sick when I am old, but now I open my eyes every day and see that the doctor feels kinder than my daughter!" Another aunt present also confided in me, "I was not feeling well, I told my daughter, but she didn't understand, so she could only take me to a tertiary hospital to see a doctor, and the doctor only knew to prescribe medicine to me. ”

Let's go see The Simpsons, it's an animation, not a movie....Although the goods are slightly ugly and spoofed, it also reflects the darkness of the nursing home in the corrupt capitalist society of the United States from one side....Well, I just want to say that the United States can't do anything that is economically developed, and I don't want to be the first few to try it out in China....In addition, nursing homes are nothing more than danger or illness when the elderly are home alone because they are unable to take care of themselves or worry about the physical safety of the elderlyThen a nanny or relative can take care of them in turn, and if your goal is to have someone to keep them company, then the old buddy who has been around for many years is far better than the new old man. It is worth mentioning that my cousin and I are by my mother's side, and both of us are lovers of all kinds of electronic devices, and now my mother and his mother are comfortable using ipads and other things, and my mother is a good hand at fighting Warcraft, at least better than me...In short, strangers can only bring physical care to the elderly, and psychological comfort still needs relatives and friends....

We generally call nursing homes "nursing homes", which is similar to "orphanages", and subconsciously think that nursing homes are places where only the lonely and widowed old people go, where the elderly are desolate in their old age and the caregivers are not well cared for, which is our stereotype. In fact, the level of pension institutions is relatively rich, there are nursing homes with a monthly fee of 3,000 yuan, and there are also pension communities with a monthly fee of more than 10,000 yuan. Therefore, we can choose different levels of services according to the needs of our families.

As several friends said before, the fact that parents live in a nursing home does not mean that they will be abused, that they will live in a bad environment, or that they will not eat well.

The advantages are as follows: 1. It allows the elderly to enjoy better services, and the nursing home, as a professional nursing institution, is the first to provide services. If the care is not taken care of, the elderly can choose to go to other homes to care for the elderly, so this has become a necessary foundation for the business.

2. It can give the elderly time to do what they like to do, and almost everyone has seen the scene of the old man playing chess downstairs and chatting. Many hobbies cannot be carried out for various reasons, and nursing homes have such activities, and chatting with peers is also good for the health of the elderly.

3. It can allow the elderly to live a regular life, and many elderly people get up before dawn, which does more harm than good to the health of some elderly people. The nursing home provides three meals a day and implements nutritional matching, so it can make the elderly sleep soundly, sleep well, and have good spirits.

4. It is normal for the elderly to find the resonance between their souls, and the older they are, the more lonely they are. Nursing homes will give the elderly free time to find close friends, and they will not worry about the generation gap.

5. Make the relationship between children and the elderly more harmonious, because the times are different, and the education of children is also different. In this way, friction is reduced, children visit frequently, and filial piety can also make the elderly feel warm.

No, first of all, if you are busy with work, you have to take care of your family and children, and you really can't get out of the situation, it is really helpless to send your parents to a nursing home. However, now the nursing home has all kinds of supporting facilities, and there is no need to worry about the parents suffering when they enter the nursing home. It's okay to take your parents home for a few days once in a while, and it's also filial piety.

In fact, this choice is also more correct, because the living conditions in the nursing home are still relatively good, and the elderly can also be given more company in the nursing home, which is safer than letting him be at home.

I think that even if we don't have time to take care of our parents, we shouldn't send our parents to a nursing home, this behavior is very immoral, it is completely an unfilial behavior, and we should take time out to take care of our parents.

If you don't have time to take care of your parents, sending them to a nursing home is actually a better option. Although there are people in nursing homes who take care of the elderly's food and clothing, the elderly can still feel lonely, so you should visit them often.

Many young people nowadays choose to send their parents to nursing homes.

This is also a question worth pondering for everyone. There are many young people who are unable to accompany their parents because of work, so they will also be forced to send their parents to nursing homes. In fact, this practice is also disrespectful to parents, after all, many elderly people nowadays also pay attention to the filial piety of their children.

If the children do not respect the opinions of their parents and choose to forcibly send their parents to nursing homes, it is easy for parents to feel pain in their hearts. Therefore, every young person should also take time to spend time with their parents, so that they can feel very warm. <>

The elderly are very lonely in their hearts, although it is said that their living conditions can be improved by sending their parents to nursing homes, but the hearts of the elderly are very lonely. Because there are many elderly people who are also reluctant to go to nursing homes, they feel that nursing homes are not very good. There are also some nursing homes that are also informal, and they do not pay attention to the care of the elderly.

This can also be very painful for the elderly, and it can also feel very lonely. <>

Children are busy at workAlthough children are busy with work nowadays, they should also make time to spend with their parents. After all, our parents have also educated us bit by bit since we were children, but we have not fulfilled the relevant filial piety when we grow up. This will also make the parents' hearts feel very cold, and it is also easy to let themselves be infamous as unfilial sons.

Therefore, everyone should also pay attention to this aspect of things, after all, it is very bad to send parents to nursing homes. If everyone can spend more time with their parents, then they can also make their parents feel very happy. <>

Seek the advice of your parents in advance, and there may be some older people who also want their children to make time for them, even if it's for a meal. But children can't even do the most basic requirements, which also makes parents feel very painful. Because some nursing homes are also not very responsible, they will not accompany their parents well.

And some elderly people are also reluctant to go to nursing homes, so children should also seek the advice of their parents in advance.

If the parents are also willing to go to a nursing home, they can send the parents to a nursing home.

Admission Instructions and Requirements:

1. The elderly are voluntarily admitted to the hospital. If you are discharged from the hospital, you and your family members must apply for discharge, and your children and the whole family agree to be discharged.

2. The elderly residents and their family guardians shall submit a copy of their ID cards and a hepatitis B test sheet for the elderly, indicating that there is no mental illness or infectious disease. The guardian of the elderly and the hospital shall sign an application form and two copies of the agreement.

3. Patients with mental illness and infectious diseases are not allowed to stay.

4. The hospital provides **, bed sheets, and pillowcases. The elderly need to bring their own daily necessities such as quilts, pillows, basins, towels, water cups, soap, and a change of clothes in all seasons. Please refrain from bringing any other items into the nursing home.

5. The elderly are not allowed to bring electrical appliances into the nursing home. If it is really necessary, it can only be brought in and used with the consent of the hospital, and all expenses (including electricity bills) will be borne by the family.

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Yes, at least the nursing home can protect the safety of the parents, and can also take care of the elderly, so that the parents will not be harmed.

When parents are old, children should fulfill their obligation to provide for them. If you don't have time to take care of them, you can hire a special caregiver for your parents or send them to a nursing home. In short, it is enough to make them feel good and take good care of them.

should be sent to a nursing home, although every child has filial piety, no one wants to be an unfilial son or daughter, but in order to survive, and for the sake of the safety of parents, there is no way to do it, so it can only be like this.

I think it's okay to hire a nanny or a caregiver at home, but don't send your parents to a nursing home.

Parents should be sent to a nursing home or hired by a nanny, because it is good for both parents and can also allow parents to have a care.

The life of our parents. Most of my generation of parents met on blind dates。There is no emotional basis, but the divorce rate is very low.

They don't feel very good about each other, but they think that having children should give them their own lives. Therefore, even if their personalities are different, even if their marriage has long since died in name, they are still willing to insensitively persist in order to give their children a complete family. I think we've all heard parents say things like "if it's not for the kids" and "it's all for the kids".

Be. Many of us have grown up sacrificing the happiness of our parents。Our parents work hard and earn money not to buy themselves a new dress, but to give their children a better life and send them to the best schools. They don't talk about love together.

They talk about children the most. When their children grow up, their grandchildren. When grandchildren grow up, they will also grow old.

At this time, they are useless to us, should we send him to a nursing home?

Their life and ours for 5 to 10 years. They spend their lives living for their children. When we were kids, we were dirty.

They don't think we're dirty, and even if you pull stinky, she has to watch for a long time to see if there are roundworms. When you can't eat, she feeds you bite by bite. She always helps you when you can't walk.

She'd rather not eat herself than starve you. She feeds you like a bird, raises you, and even your children.

With her whole life. Now they are old and have become children。They may need you to take care of them for 5 to 10 years.

Therefore, we thought that the sanatorium was good, that I was busy with my work and was not allowed, that I wanted to pursue my dreams, that I also had my own life, that I also had children, and for all these reasons I wanted to be cut off by the owner, send her to the sanatorium, bring some money to deliver.

Sometimes, I really wish my parents' love wasn't so great。The great man completely forgot about himself. I don't know what other people think about sending their parents to a nursing home, but I've always had a disagreement.

Because nursing homes can give a lot of convenience to the elderly, the only thing they can't give is love and love. In addition, several parents really want to go to a nursing home.

Once your parents know that you don't want to stay with him until death but intend to send him to a nursing home, his heart should be sad and helpless. This is undoubtedly the greatest emotional hurt to parents.

They gave birth to us and raised us. We take care of them when they are old. It's the best feedback and love.

The above is a personal opinion.

"Filial piety comes first", the traditional concept of "raising children and preventing old age" of the Chinese nation for thousands of years, sending parents to nursing homes is a great rebellion against filial piety, and parents can only enjoy the joy of family life when they live with their children.

In fact, on this issue, we should first ask ourselves, are you really busy, so busy that you don't have any time to take care of your parents. For elderly parents, do you really want to take on the responsibility of support, or do you have some resistance and shirk in your heart? If you really want to take care of it and really don't have the time, then sending your parents to a nursing home is also a reasonable choice.

But when deciding to send our parents to a nursing home, we must discuss calmly with our parents, and we must not force them, because some parents are very reluctant to do so, and we must patiently explain to them the truth of the matter, and I believe that parents will also understand the feelings of their children.

Another point we must do is that when our parents are old, whether they are living at home or in a nursing home, we as children should always send our filial piety and patience in a timely manner, and care for them carefully and carefully, just like they cared for us when we were children.