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You don't want to tell him that you didn't accept yourself in the first place. You have to learn to accept yourself first, then love yourself, then love others, and finally make others love you. Not together yet, everything is frankly the best.
It's tiring to hide it, so tell him sincerely and make him feel that those are just the past, and the important thing is the future! He wants to know everything about your past, and he wants details, which proves that he still cares about you. Tell him that if he can't accept it, then separate it.
Again, what should be your own is your own. I wish you happiness.
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What he said is nonsense, if he really loves you now, he won't care about your past, if he keeps tracking down your past, it means that he is very narrow-minded, is a cautious man, if you really love him, don't tell him, let him understand that even if the two sexes are married, they should give each other some space and privacy, if you tell him, such a man may not say that he will tolerate you, but it will leave an indelible shadow in his heart, When you are both too familiar with each other, there will be a quarrel, and this shadow will expand infinitely and become the driving force of the explosion!
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Can't say it, men are stingy in this regard, and if you say it, it's no fun, if he says he doesn't mind, don't really believe it, it will become a thorn in his heart afterwards, and you won't be happy.
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You just tell him that you really don't care about the past. Still need to know what to do in the past? It's all in the past. All you need to know is the present me and the future me, that's enough. Blindly asking about the past will also make me feel that you don't really love me now.
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It's normal to tell him that you have had a boyfriend before and you can admit to having an intimate relationship, but don't mention having a baby, because men are more disgusted with it.
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No man doesn't mind, you still don't say it, and if you say it, be prepared, and it's possible that he'll fall out with you and break up.
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If you really care about him, please don't tell him that as a Chinese man still cares about this, you can start over and change yourself for him.
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Do you feel that he really sighs about you, if it is true, he will not care, it can be said, it is nothing, if he cares, he will not be playing.
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I think it's better to get to know him before deciding whether to tell him or not.
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It's so hard to hide a secret for a lifetime!
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I'll tell him when I'm familiar with him.
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I think the man's supplement is reliable.
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For children born out of wedlock, the law of our country stipulates that children born out of wedlock have the right to register their household registration in accordance with the law. The exact method varies from place to place. Generally speaking, in addition to the birth certificate, children born out of wedlock must also have identity notarization in some areas.
In addition, in Shila areas where a birth certificate is required, parents must first pay a certain amount of social maintenance fees at the family planning office of the sub-district office where their household registration is located. Only after the implementation of family planning measures can one go to the public security organ to register with the certificate issued by the family planning department. In this case, Xiao Li and her boyfriend can go through the household registration procedures for their children in accordance with the relevant laws and regulations to protect the legitimate rights and interests of their children.
Children born out of wedlock are unplanned births and may face some problems with the collection of social maintenance fees.
Legal basis]: Zhao Lao.
Article 1071 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as children born in wedlock, and no organization or individual may harm or discriminate against them.
A biological father or mother who does not directly raise a child born out of wedlock shall bear the maintenance of the minor child or an adult child who is unable to live independently.
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Summary. You don't want to have any privacy in front of your boyfriend probably because you trust him enough, you love him very much, and you are willing to give him everything you have, which is a sign of your deepest love for him.
You don't want to have your own privacy in front of your boyfriend, probably because you trust your boyfriend enough, you love him very much, and you are willing to give him everything you have, which is a manifestation of your deepest love for him.
Only when you love a person to the bone will you have this kind of unreserved love, and you will change your trust that the other party will protect your secrets, because your lover is your other half.
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It's not recommended to snoop, I don't know if you still have feelings for him, but what I can be sure of is that you are still stuck in a state of love that is more self-defeating, and I can imagine that you are also very dependent on your boyfriend in love, so even if you break up, you will still habitually see what he is doing, instead of living your own life.
Everyone is an individual, even in a relationship, you should have your own space and life, so that you can not lose yourself in intimate relationships. If a person is overly dependent on another person, he will become blind and uninteresting, and his life will only be centered on others, and in the end, it will be easy to get bored.
So, I want you to focus your energy on yourself, if you are still in school, study hard, and if you are working, work hard. In your spare time, you can develop some personal hobbies, learn a musical instrument, learn to draw, go to the gym, read a book, even if you get together with friends more is a better choice than spying on other people's lives every day and affecting your emotions.
When you can really focus on your life, when you force yourself to focus on something else, you will slowly forget about your ex-boyfriend, and when you think about it again, you will be glad that you forced yourself to do something else, because those will probably be very helpful to you.
Look at your boyfriend's personality, if you're more stubborn and conservative, don't say it or say no, otherwise it's okay to be honest, I think you don't want to hide his feelings.
Divide it! If, as you said, your boyfriend is not self-motivated, then as the gap between you grows bigger and bigger, he will become more and more inferior, and the final result will be unhappy, and the man's inferiority complex is very terrible!
Break up, break up resolutely, I promise you will regret it as soon as you get married. At the same time, I suggest that you find a way to protect yourself, because I heard you say that he will not cherish you so much, I am afraid that it will be detrimental to you if you say that he will not be able to get over the face after the breakup, such things happen too much in society, first think of countermeasures to protect yourself.
If it is a very intimate relationship, like glue and nothing to talk about couples, there is no need to ask this kind of question, this kind of couple generally knows what the other party is thinking in their hearts, what they want, he can know what you want to express through a look of you, a sentence to know what you want to express, and then ask him directly, if the relationship is not enough to the point of having a heart, be coquettish, or hint at it when talking, "This is so beautiful and beautiful, I really want it" and so on.
I think your girlfriend is very good, I have a problem, and I should keep it. Girls in general don't like stingy boys.