Why can t honest people look down on blind dates?

Maybe I just can't coax girls! Probably. Women need to be coaxed by men. So. A lot of the time. Men don't need to be very rich. It's okay to be able to speak.

The most fundamental reason is that it is not attractive, and being too honest cannot bring fluctuations to the girl's emotions, so it is naturally difficult to get together.

Because honest people are not excellent male resources in the eyes of blind date women, the general blind date women mainly look at the man's conditions when they go on a blind date, and the conditions of honest people are often not particularly good, the average honest person is to find a stable job, and then get a dead salary, so the conditions can only be said to be general, some honest people have not even bought a house, and honest people with poor material conditions obviously can't give a good life to the blind date girl, which naturally makes the blind date woman very disappointed.

From the perspective of honest people's character, honest people's character is often more cowardly, honest, although such a man seems to be very safe and reliable, but there is no way to give women sufficient protection, so in the eyes of the blind date girl, the honest person's cowardly character makes him not a man at all, and the blind date girl is more eager to find a manly person.

Honest people tend to be boring and can't speak sweetly, and girls often want boys to be cheerful, so that life will be full of fun after marriage, and honest people are obviously not this kind of person.

<> people who are too honest generally speak more woodenly, and women always feel that he is from the old times when they talk to him. Although it is suitable for living together, after all, the first feeling is not very good. I don't know how to beat around the bush when I speak, and maybe I pay attention to objective facts.

Honest people are generally dead-headed, and there is no common language with such people. Unlike some men, who are sharp and toothy, one or two sentences can make you fall in love involuntarily. And there is another point that is very crucial, honest people do not coax people.

When there is a problem, you only know how to blindly admit your mistakes, and of course women don't like it.

Generally, honest people generally have a low EQ and IQ, and this kind of person has the simplest social relationship. It's not that I've seen strong winds and waves, and I can deal with all kinds of characters easily. There is generally no achievement in the career, and it is strange that the blind date girl will be optimistic.

To put it bluntly, in the eyes of many people, he is a useless person, not only does he not coax people, but he is inferior to others in all aspects such as social life. Although life is stable, it is only tens of thousands of dollars a year, and if you want to pursue high consumption, you must rely on yourself.

1.When introducing the blind date, some elders often stand in the perspective of their generation and pay too much attention to the dimensions they care about as the screening criteria.

Individual elders want you to start a family as soon as possible, and rarely come to understand your feelings and needs.

You said that you like young and handsome little fresh meat, and he introduced you to a rich and wealthy big-bellied lewd man.

They don't know, or don't agree with some of your ideas, and if you refuse, they'll find you too picky.

2.There is an information and cognitive bias between blind dates.

Sometimes, the introducer's words cannot be fully trusted, and the subtext needs to be read. Whether the introducer of the blind date is reliable or not is actually very important.

Many aunts and aunts are too enthusiastic, and they will force it to you if they are of the opposite sex, no matter what, in the eyes of Yinhu, as long as it is a man (woman) who meets, they will be able to live a matching life.

They'll be there to urge you: You're so old, what do you want? Look at your elementary school classmates have all given birth to a second child, and you haven't even been someone else's "spare tire".

3.Excessive intervention and excessive concern have affected the communication between the two sides.

Many elders will often stare at you and ask about the situation, so you are repeatedly interrogated, and you seem to have become a clown on the stage, making people watch and gossip.

They'll also give you some completely unreliable advice for your gods. will persuade you that feelings can be cultivated slowly, urging you to get married.

In the process of interacting with two people, the "kind assistance" of several people is inserted, and between the elders, you have no privacy, and they often interfere in the interaction between you, and the scene becomes chaotic. So, you become a marionette.

4.Turning the interaction between two people into cold data.

Love needs feelings, and most blind dates are basically directly based on height, occupation, and income, which seems to make the blind date a commodity.

Elders attach too much importance to the "data" they care about, in fact, when two people are together, many times, they need to feel and get along, not just some gorgeous "data".

As a result, the blind date seems to have become an aunt who goes to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, picking and choosing. And he seems to be a green vegetable and a radish, waiting for others to choose.

5.A large part of the blind date is unreliable people.

The blind date of the juniors, sometimes, may be the elders blindly mixed, and the other party does not want to participate at all, but due to the pressure of the elders, they have to "play on the spot", and as a result, both parties are very embarrassed.

On the other hand, in the process of blind date, there are some people you meet who may have some problems themselves.

Blind date itself is a low-probability thing, like a numbers game, after a certain amount, you may meet a person who is really suitable for you.