Who are the narrow minded and small people in history?

Zhou Yucai is not ha, is that the Romance of the Three Kingdoms good, you can take a look at the historical facts, Zhao Gao and Pang are counted as one Because he wants to take the lead and want to suppress Zhuge As a result, he died in Xichuan Qin Hui Yuan Shao Xia Wanying Yue Wang Goujian According to Wuxi folklore, after the death of Fucha, in order to show that he was a benevolent monarch, Goujian, the king of Yue, proposed to bury Wu Wang Fucha, so he built a tomb on a lonely island in Taihu Lake (now name, the island is eight kilometers away from Mashan). He mobilized 50,000 officers and soldiers to dig soil at Wutangmen on the opposite bank, and transported it to Tuoshan Mountain in one basket and piled it up into a mound. So far, there is a big mound on the top of the mountain, and there are nine small mounds next to it, and the common people around Taihu Lake call it the tomb of Fucha.

There is a local proverb: If you want to see your husband, you must go to the surface of the water. It turned out that the bottom of the big mound was full of stone rows, and Gou Jian came up with a vicious plan to bury the husband deeply in order to sit firmly in the country and let the Wu people never turn over.

Xiang Yu is narrow-minded and wastes because of people. Xiang Bo sold him, and he listened to Xiang Bo; Fan Zeng helped him, he hated Fan Zeng, it can be seen that he is narrow-minded and has no room for others. This planted a hidden danger for his later failures.

Regarding this point, Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Han Dynasty, also said: "In the strategic planning, the decisive victory is thousands of miles away, and I am not as good as the ovary (Zhang Liang); The town and the country care for the people, give salaries, and never stop the grain road, these three are not as good as Xiao He; Even an army of millions, the battle will be won, the attack must be taken, I am not as good as Han Xin. That's why I take the world.

Xiang Yu has a fan increase and can't use it, so he was captured by me. It can be seen that being broad-minded and tolerant is the key to career success, and it is also what Xiang Yu lacks.

Are the others broad-minded?

Zhou Yu Zhou Yu in history is very broad-minded, and in order to set off Zhuge Liang, Romance deliberately scandalized Zhou Yu and fabricated the story of Zhou Yu, but in fact, Zhou Yu's broad-mindedness has historical evidence. The official history "Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms" records: Zhou Yu is broad-minded and magnanimous.

The veteran Cheng Pu was dissatisfied with Zhou Yu because of his young status but was higher than himself, and insulted him in person many times, Zhou Yu didn't care about him, Cheng Pu was finally moved by Zhou Yu's talent and morality, and said: "Friendship with Zhou Gongjin, if you drink mellow mash, you don't feel drunk", and became friends with him.

Han Xin, everyone knows that he is brilliant in the use of soldiers, he is a far-sighted person, he was only a person at the bottom of the society before he was discovered, one day when he was wandering the street, he met a butcher, the butcher deliberately embarrassed him, stood in front of him and said to him, either you kill me, or you will drill through my crotch, he was not angry when he heard this, in order to protect himself, he really drilled through his crotch, and later got the appreciation of the ruler at that time.

There are many very broad-minded people in history, such as Qi Huan Gong in the Spring and Autumn Period, who was almost killed by Uncle Bao in his early years, but after he took the throne, he did not blame him, but appointed him as the prime minister, and he was very broad-minded.

There are a few days from the Three Kingdoms period to modern times.

Hello! A person with a small amount of energy, when he does things, he cannot be far-sighted and tolerant.

Therefore, this kind of person is good at torturing himself and others for trivial things. Obviously, it is difficult to achieve great things.

The biggest reason is that the field of vision is smaller. Working with others requires tolerance for shortcomings, and it takes effort to do something. It's hard to make big things, and the same is true for small things. But there are mistakes that can be corrected.

Narrow-mindedness is mainly manifested in: not being able to tolerate others and other things, not being able to let go of others for a long time, calculating, etc., being more selfish, and ignoring the things around them and ignoring some things that others also need. For example, respect, tolerance.

Although Cao Cao is a capable boss, he is also inevitably narrow-minded. He has achieved great things, but also because of his narrow-mindedness, he has buried some outstanding talents under him. The most prominent example is the well-known story of Cao Cao and Yang Xiu.

Yang Xiu was arrogant and arrogant, and repeatedly suffered from Cao Cao's jealousy. Once Cao Cao built a garden, Cao Cao was noncommittal after reading it, only took a pen and wrote a "live" word on the gate and left. Everyone didn't understand what this meant, only Yang Xiu said

Fill in the word "live" in the door, which is a wide word, and the prime minister thinks that the gate is too wide. So the craftsman rebuilt the gate and asked Cao Cao to come and see it. Cao Cao was overjoyed after seeing it and asked:

Who knows my mind? The left and right people said that it was Yang Xiu, and Cao Cao praised Yang Xiu's cleverness, but he was very jealous in his heart.

Another time, someone in Saibei sent a box of crisps, and Cao Cao wrote the words "Yihe crisp" on the box and put the box on the case. When Yang Xiu saw it, he took a spoon and shared the crisp with everyone. Cao Cao asked him why, and Yang Xiu said:

The box clearly says that one person has one bite of crisp, how dare I disobey the prime minister's order. Although Cao Cao laughed, he already hated Yang Xiu in his heart.

The prime minister can hold the boat in his belly.

The protagonist of the book,Lin Xiangsimilar.。

In fact, you should not judge the price of the gift by how sincere he is to you.

Since you really want to be together, you don't need to care about the value of the gift, the road of life is still very long, he will make money in the future, and the salary card will put you here, how much iphone5 you like to buy is not up to you.

You currently only have two options.

First: If you really think he is stingy and you can't stand it, then break up and find someone you think is generous.

Second: Don't care about vanity, if you really want to be with him, you can help him well, especially at this critical time when he is unemployed, he is under too much pressure, help him get through, and I believe that he will cherish you more and pay more for you when he turns back.

A man has always been more rational than a woman in front of feelings, and he has a rod and scale in his heart, and if he loses money, he may keep it in his heart. Rest assured to love, in fact, you are not together in the back, at least, you are worthy of your own conscience, you have no regrets, and he has lost the love of a woman who really does not care about return.

Hope it helps.

First of all, make a statement: I support you!

He has always been like this, you should know something, as long as it is not too much, it is understandable to others.

However, in the process you described, you were willing to share the ups and downs with him, but he was very untimely and profligate, feeling that he was no longer a matter of slamming the door, rising to a matter of principle, and his profligacy was irresponsible for his own personal life and career, and it was an insult to your efforts. What did he buy these expensive electronics for, to regulate the depressed mood of unemployment? To reward yourself for your hard work in attending a course?

It's ridiculous. Forget it if you buy it, he still makes excuses for himself, and even if he makes excuses, he dares to accuse you?! I think that with such a talent, you are really delaying others, you better quickly set him free and let him fly high......

Sometimes, men really do things without going through their brains, and then regret it later.

I think it's true that he's a little bit picky.

But you all know that he slammed the door, so forgive him this time, hehe.

Remind him not to take an example.

You're hopeless, break up.

No matter whether you pick the door or be generous, if you don't have a job, there will be no foundation for marriage, a man can get married in 30 or 40 and find a 20-year-old, a woman can't afford to wait, and when he starts a business and has money, then you are also old, Men don't ask for how much they earn, marriage must have a stable family, the premise is to have a stable job.

As a man's point of view, he does pick the door and piggyback a little selfishly, but since you also know how he personally gives him one more chance, these problems are not impossible to change, it is estimated that he has not grown up and has a childish heart, so be more considerate. Let's see how it performs in the future!

He's not right, so let's divide it quickly

Can't tolerate other people's opinions, and is jealous and hot, too selfish.

According to Mr. Yi Zhongtian's evaluation, Zhou Yu has two more prominent characteristics.

First, Zhou Gongjin cherished his talents, and his strategic goal in Eastern Wu was to eliminate Liu Bei, because Liu Bei robbed Jingzhou of Wu. But Lu Su's goal was to unite with Liu Bei and jointly resist Cao Cao. It can be said that the political differences between these two people are very big with the hail brothers.

However, before his death, Zhou Gongjin still recommended Lu Su to Sun Quan as his successor, which can be seen.

Second: Zhou Gongjin is very loyal, in the open and secret battle with Liu Bei Group, Zhou Yu has always been dedicated to the Lord, racking his efforts, until he died, he never forgot to ask Sun Quan to take back Jingzhou. He is not a narrow-minded person, but his political goal is to destroy Liu, so he and Zhuge Liang will definitely have a fight, but his skills are not as good as others and he is angry to death.