What are the pressures of primary and secondary school students now, the more the better! Urgent!!

There are many homework, difficult questions, confusion about the future, harshness of parents, and school violence

Too much homework: Teachers in school always assign so much homework.

Question deformity: It is a selection examination ......Or evaluate the ...... examThe questions are difficult and very difficult for beginners!

Feeling lost and depressed about the future!

The high demands of parents, the high demands of teachers.

The untold secrets of the campus.

The pressure on elementary and middle school students is much greater now than it was back then!First of all, there is no need to talk about family pressure! And then there's the pressure from the teacher!

There is also the pressure of homework, and the homework of primary and secondary school students now is simply incomparable to that of our time! To be honest, I have to think about some elementary school students' homework before I know how to solve it! Especially the homework of winter and summer vacations, not to mention!

Some of the questions are ones I've never seen before! (A little sweaty.)

Today's children from the first into the kindergarten, began to tutor children to do problems, memorization poems, arithmetic, to primary school, parents every day to ask their children homework is done, where is it? If it's okay to say it's done, if it's not, it's either angry shouting or whipping. How is this not a lot of pressure on children!

First, everything has a degree, learning depends on oneself, school and family are external factors. It is said that there is nothing wrong with school teachers and parents letting children study hard, study hard, and study hard. However, there is a limit to everything.

What is Degree? The Ministry of Education, the National Health Commission and other eight departments jointly issued the "Implementation Plan for the Comprehensive Prevention and Control of Myopia in Children and Adolescents", which clearly states that no written homework will be assigned in the first and second grades of primary school, and the written homework in the third to sixth grades shall not be completed in more than 60 minutes. This is the degree, which is the homework standard formulated to protect the healthy growth of children in combination with the physical and mental characteristics of children and adolescents.

All repetitive work, punishment work, and difficult work that passes this time are all against the rules.

Besides, students are the main body of learning and the internal cause of learning, and school teachers and parents are all external factors, and the external cause can only work through internal factors. Children have a lot of pressure on long-term homework, and it is easy to get tired of school, rebel and have psychological problems.

Second, how can parents help primary school students reduce the pressure caused by too much homework?

1.It is more important to change the view and mindset of children, and the healthy growth of children. In order to alleviate the pressure of children's homework, parents must first change the concept that only university entrance examination is the future.

Inches are long and feet are short, each person has their own specialty, three hundred and sixty lines, and the line is out of the candidates. Without a healthy body, a sunny mind, everything is in vain. Therefore, on the premise of increasing the healthy growth of primary school students, it is more important to study hard and be positive.

2.Help your child find the happiness factor, reduce fatigue and relieve stress. If the child's homework is stressful, parents can do some service work, bring him a cup of tea, and peel an apple.

Let children feel the care and support of their parents. When the child's homework is done, accompany the child to watch the children's entertainment program, read "A Yuan", "Mi Xiaoquan" and so on. Let your child smile and have fun and forget all about fatigue and stress.

3.After the children have completed their homework and completed the day's learning tasks, parents can take their children to visit the city park zoo and botanical garden, and in the countryside, they can look at the crops in the fields, visit the orchard ecological garden, etc., so that the children can look at the green space and find the fun in nature.

4.In between children's homework, parents can also play ball, dance, sing, listen to **, play yo-yo, etc., and combine work and rest to reduce fatigue and pressure.

At that time when I was in school, the pressure may be that the children who went to junior high school or high school, after all, the learning tasks at these two stages will be much heavier, and everyone is constantly working hard to get into a better school, so the pressure is naturally great. But now there are many primary school students are under great pressure, on the one hand, the expectations of parents for their children, on the other hand, the school assigns learning tasks to children, which will increase the pressure on children to a certain extent. It is true that children's homework is much more than in our time, time is tight, tasks are heavy, and children are in this environment for a long time, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children's hearts.

I know that some parents can't bear to watch their children bear so much pressure at such a young age, but as parents, they don't know how to help their children share the burden, so they can only watch and worry about it. Next, I will talk about what parents should do in this situation to help their children relieve stress. 1. Parents should not be too demanding of their children.

There are many parents who feel that their children are too stressed, and the other half requires their children to study well, which is contradictory in itself. Anyway, I think that parents want to really relieve the pressure on their children, so don't have too high requirements for their children. There is a lot of homework assigned by school teachers, which parents have no way to change, and what parents can do is not to put more pressure on their children in life.

As long as parents' expectations for their children are lowered, the child's stress will be much reduced. 2. Parents can take their children out to relax. One of the best ways to relieve stress is to go out and relax, and play is the best way for me to release stress.

Parents can take advantage of their children's holidays to take their children out to play, and let their children do some things they like, which can not only make the relationship between parents and children more intimate, but also keep the children in a relaxed state during the play process, which is very helpful for relieving stress. 3. Face up to children's emotional changes When facing children's negative emotions due to excessive pressure, some parents always disagree, thinking that their children are too hypocritical, after all, every child has to complete the same homework, why can't you bear it, and the efficiency is so low? For children, such an attitude of parents is completely adding fuel to the fire, not only do not give understanding, but make words to attack and ridicule, so that they can not feel the love of their parents, but will make the pressure in the children's hearts more and more, and eventually exceed the psychological critical point, at this time the child may do some radical things, parents should not take it lightly, to strictly prevent the occurrence of tragedy.

4. Actively counsel and cooperate with teachers. No matter how busy parents are, they should communicate with teachers appropriately on weekdays to understand their children's learning at school. If the child does not perform well in class, parents must intervene in time and cooperate with the teacher to find ways to make the child learn better.

The child's learning efficiency has improved, and he will naturally be able to do his homework with ease.

Nowadays, children do have a lot of homework, I remember one time, my family Dabao wrote homework until almost ten o'clock. In terms of the speed of writing homework, my family Dabao is relatively fast. It is conceivable that other children who write slowly will write when.

Every time Jane calls for the end of school, if the child comes out happily, it must be that today's homework is not too much; If the child is sad, it goes without saying that there must be a lot of homework. In the fourth grade, Chinese, mathematics, and English are three modular courses, and sometimes there will be homework for blocking the code field recording, which adds up to a bit much. Therefore, sometimes children are also miserable.

There is no pressure at all, in fact, children nowadays are very stressed, and most of the pressure is given by parents.