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In another decade or so, China will enter an aging population in an all-round way, and the number of elderly people will even reach more than half of the total population. Therefore, solving the population problem has become the top priority, the two-child policy has been liberalized for several years, but the population growth is still slow, and now the state encourages the third child, but the enthusiasm is not high. The root of this problem is that I still can't afford to give birth or raise it.

Raising a child is too expensive, and for the average family like me, the cost of a child from kindergarten to college graduation is almost empty. If there is still one child, if there is one more, nurturing will become the biggest obstacle to having a child. A child has been in various early education classes since he was a child, and when he grows up, he has a variety of cram schools and interest classes, and 100 yuan per hour of a class is the standard, like I only earn more than 100 yuan a day and I am not busy with the sun at both ends.

But I don't want my child to lose at the starting line. Another is that the society's requirements for women are still high, such as the vast majority of job hunting has age requirements, and better units after the age of 35 no longer accept it. 35 years old is the best age to have a second child, but after giving birth to a child, you can't support your family, and you don't have a certain financial ability to have another child.

That's the reality.

If you want to have a second child, you must first buy a house and a car, and then find a girlfriend to get married, have a child, and have a second child, haha, it seems that the road to a second child is a long way to go.

For those who haven't given birth to one child yet, why don't those people have a second child? I think it may have something to do with the following reasons.

1.I can't afford to raise a child, and I can't afford to have a second child.

2.One child is fine, but having a second child is too tiring and troublesome.

3.I want to be free, I'm still a baby who hasn't grown up, I don't want a second child.

4.I regretted it when I had the first child, and the second child would not have been reborn.

5.Why do you have so many children, one child is good, one child is a boy, what if it is a boy again.

From the perspective of people who have never given birth to a second child, people who do not want to have a second child, they do not have a second child for a variety of reasons, the main reason is high pressure, in fact, China pays attention to the prosperity of the people, the number of people must be lively, the family is prosperous, but now people's concepts have changed.

If we can withstand the pressure and overcome the difficulties to have a second child, when we are old, the most valuable asset may be the child. At that time, wealth and anything are no longer important to us, only family affection is the most precious. When they are lonely and lonely, the children play a **, come and see every other day, talk with them, and have a lively meal together, warm and happy.

Being able to enjoy family fun is the greatest happiness of the elderly's life.

Because the pressure of life is too great, I am afraid that I will not have the financial ability to bear the existence of the second child, so I will be reluctant to have a second child.

Can't afford it. Now it is very difficult to raise a child, it is too expensive to enroll in various classes, etc., and it is simply impossible to afford to raise another one.

can't afford to raise it, because the cost of children is relatively large now, and they are still facing problems such as school and education in the later stage; And because there is no one to bring it, after all, there are many only children in the parents' generation, and parents feel that it is very difficult to bring a child, so they don't want to have a second child.

The above paragraph reflects a small reason why people don't want to have children nowadays, but there are actually other reasons, come and take a look.

What is the reason?

Women don't want to have children more and more, now the national quality is improving, what mother-in-law is not obliged to take children, that's right, but the child's mother sacrifices work to take care of the child, even if there are old people to help take care of the child, most of the mother has to take over the child when he comes back from work, the child's father is too little involved in this process, the mother will be very tired, and the quality of life will decline if there are more children.

Do you think it was still a few decades ago, when there was nothing to save electricity, and when you had a baby at home, the virus was raging, and no one dared to give birth, and you couldn't go to the hospital for a check-up if you were pregnant. Who would dare to conceive Plus the contraception is so good now.

Nowadays, young people don't rely on their parents, how many people can afford to raise children! The work pressure is high, the housing prices are ridiculously high, the education expenses are high, the various expenses are high, and the divorce rate is high. It doesn't matter if the birth policy is fully liberalized, now, if you want to give birth or give birth, no matter how many there are, if you don't want to give birth, if you let him give birth to him, he will not necessarily be reborn, and the country will not be able to control hunger and balance.

Previously, the newborn meant the hope of the family, the future of the motherland. Newborns now mean a heavy family and financial burden. The delay in retirement of the elderly also means that the elderly will continue to work, and the children will be left unattended, and the mortgages, car loans, and huge gifts owed not only shatter the entrepreneurial dreams of young people, but also crush young people's hopes for the future.

Having children has just become a kind of inheritance and a responsibility of the family.

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With a salary of about 1 or 2,000, what kind of children do you raise?

Fertility rates vary from place to place, for example, some provinces are steadily rising or staying the same, while others are declining. Maybe the province you live in has a good fertility rate, and your friends and relatives have given birth to a second child. And everyone's social circle is certain, we should jump out of this circle to analyze problems, not always generalize.

In society, there are not only two-child families, but also three-child families, and even some families have a very large number of children. This is because their family background is relatively rich, coupled with their special love for children, they will naturally have as many children as they want. In fact, you can go to the Internet to take a look, there are a lot of young people who don't want to get married or don't want to have children, but in the end, they will also go to reality, and they may go on a blind date according to their parents' wishes, and then slowly develop.

There are also some young people who will eventually have a second child, because their parents are always talking in their ears, and they also think that having more children is more blessed, but because they are not capable enough, so they don't want to say so much. If the parents' pension adds up to 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, then the child will definitely live a happier life, and it is better to have two grandchildren or granddaughters.

If the family's economic conditions are comparative, and the elderly's health is particularly healthy, they can help the next generation to refer to their grandchildren or granddaughters, and there is no need to ask a nanny to see the children. In this way, it is really good to spend less money, and it is indeed good to have two children in 5 years. At the beginning, it was very tiring, but if the child goes to primary school, the parents can be liberated, and when the child becomes older, the parents will be more at ease.

However, it is true that young people have postponed their marriage, and it is normal to think that they are married at the age of twenty-seven or eighteen. They may have friends who married early and gave birth to a second child, so it is natural to form a common perception of a second child.

People who don't have children will speak on the Internet, and people who have children will also say their thoughts on the Internet, both of which are more premised. Let's not be too decisive just yet, because your thoughts change with age.

According to the survey of relevant departments in my country, it shows that my country's fertility rate has dropped significantly, but many netizens questioned after seeing this news, why is it that there are families with second children everywhere, how can the fertility rate decline? In fact, the survey we did was measured by sampling data from different cities in different regions. Maybe the small range we are in, the familiar people in this cognitive field that we are familiar with, are all second-child family banquets.

But looking at our country as a whole, we have a lot of survey data, so the end result is more accurate.

In any case, in recent years, China has provided a lot of welfare policies in childbirth, and if everyone's personal ability and physical condition allow, we must actively respond to the country's fertility policy. I can understand the feelings of some people, because many people dare not easily have children. Because of the impact of the epidemic in recent years, many people's economy is very tight, and some people have not been able to go out to work for a long time.

So there is a certain reason why our fertility rate has declined over the years.

Our country now has a better welfare policy for the fertility ecology, if you really don't have any economic and stress tension, and your physical condition is also very good, I hope you can actively respond to China's fertility policy. In fact, children are more lonely now, many families are only children, and children will feel lonely when they grow up in the future, so if their physical condition is more allowed, it is recommended to have one more child, and they can also let their children have a brother and sister who can discuss things together in the future. As we all know, the pressure of life is very big now, and many times everyone lives more anxiously, but if you want to go out and find someone to talk to, chat, share and share your experience, you can't find anyone.

At this time, everyone's pressure is very huge, but having one more brother or sister will make a person's burden smaller.

First of all, it's likely that the family around you is like this. More of them may also have something to do with your circle of friends, as well as some of the people you come into contact with. No matter how much regret the mountain group has, it is the second child, and it is also because the only file wants to give the child a companion for the self-orange.

Because second-child families are all raised before the announcement of the two-child policy, it cannot promote the fertility problem in our country.

High housing prices, high prices, and high education costs have greatly increased the pressure on young people. Nowadays, many young people are lucky that their parents have bought them a house, so they don't have to worry about housing prices. But?

Prices are increasing year by year, and now it takes three or four yuan for a haircut, how can you raise a child with a salary of three or four thousand yuan? A child goes to kindergarten, public kindergartens can not enter, community kindergartens are not high, and private kindergartens often charge tens of millions of kindergarten fees. My colleague's child is about to enter kindergarten, and the various expenses add up to about 3,000 yuan a month.

There is a lot of competitive pressure on young people. The 996 work system is a common thing in many private enterprises at present, and even state-owned enterprises have seen this trend. Now that information is developed, the pace of all kinds is accelerating.

Leaders at work often ask for mobile phones to be turned on 24 hours a day, and they must stare at and reply to WeChat at any time. Still, the salary package will not be too high. Now that it is a job market, your results must be worthy of your salary.

Moreover, as you get older, you are in danger of losing your job at every turn. Middle-aged people happen to have a mortgage and car loan, and they have to raise children, which is very stressful. Pensions are stressful.

At present, most of the main working families have only one or two children, and at this time, the elderly have problems, and it is very troublesome to take care of the elderly. If you take care of yourself and don't have a salary, if you hire someone, the cost is also very stressful.

At this time, having a few more children seems to eliminate the pressure of providing for the elderly in the future, so doesn't it take up the time to take care of your parents? Many people choose to take care of their parents first and then think about their children. According to the results of a study by the Institute of Population, Labor and Economics of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, if the total fertility rate of the population remains unchanged, the head of China's population will reach in 2027.

Now that our total fertility rate has fallen to the warning line, the peak of the population will come sooner. National 145 is deploying a national strategy to deal with ageing. It is hoped that the fertility policy will be optimized, the inclusiveness of the fertility policy will be strengthened, the level of eugenics and childcare services will be improved, the inclusive childcare and education service system will be developed, the cost of childbirth, parenting and education will be reduced, and the long-term balanced development of the population will be promoted, so as to greatly improve the population problem in the future.

Some people say that housing prices are too low to help young people struggle, but they do not say that housing prices that are too high will lead to more people affording them. When nearly half of young people's income is spent on paying rent or paying off their mortgage, there is little left over from their wages to feed and drink and not be able to raise their children. Not to mention the 30 or 40 million widowers in the countryside, there are still tens of millions of leftover women in the cities, and the two conditions are different.

The latter preferred to be alone rather than marry a widower in the countryside. A house is the biggest consumption, but the cost of raising a child is not a small number either. From milk powder, clothes, toys, and older points when I was a child to a cram school for specialty classes, to raising a child in high school, hundreds of thousands of people, if more, millions of people.

In addition, if the child gets married in the future, the parents have to be busy preparing and helping him buy a house. Otherwise, it may take more than ten years for the child to save up for a down payment. Not to mention anything else, the simple house and education make many young people dispel the idea of having a second child, and they don't even want to have a child.

Because to have a child now, you need to invest in education, money, and have a person to take care of the child. And the pace of life is very stressful nowadays. If the baby is born later, then it may lead to women not being able to develop better in the workplace.