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Many parents have a misconception that they feel that sexual knowledge should not be passed on to their children because they are too young to understand it. This has also caused a lot of controversy on the Internet, because there are also many people who believe that sex education should be done as soon as possible.
This kind of education is not about age, and the younger the contact, the clearer the understanding, and it is also useful for self-protection. I think there are several reasons why parents are opposed to passing on sexual knowledge to their children at an early age:
01. They think that the child is not yet exposed to any sexual aspects. It is precisely because the children are still relatively young that parents will feel that they are too far from the knowledge of sex. It is true that under normal circumstances, children are indeed far from this aspect of things, but it is not excluded that any exceptional things happen.
Parents always feel that children should have a childlike heart, rather than learning too much about "adults" from an early age. <>
02. They think that sexual knowledge has a kind of erotic gauze. There are still many people who understand "sexual knowledge" as a kind of erotic knowledge, but they never think that this is actually just a kind of human physiological instinct, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. It's not a reasonable thing that students should receive physiological education in school when they reach a certain stage.
If this is really to be considered a shameful knowledge, then why be human? <>
03. They believe that the transmission of sexual knowledge should at least wait until the child reaches adulthood. Many parents are not opposed to passing on sexual knowledge to their children, but to passing it on to their children too early, feeling that this kind of education should not be properly told to their children until they are at least mature. But it is understood that many of the victims are still children.
On the other hand, if we had given them sex education earlier, would we have been able to reduce the occurrence of such tragedies? <>
I think the vast majority of parents' views are one-sided, and sexual knowledge is not a scandal, and children should be allowed to accept it as early as possible.
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Because many parents in China are influenced by traditional culture and the previous generation of parents, they are ashamed to talk about sex, and regard sex as a beast, even if their children are older, they will feel that this matter should not be said on the table.
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Because today's parents are too backward in their thinking and stubborn, believing that children should live a simple life, and accepting sexual knowledge will defile their hearts. In fact, this kind of thinking is incorrect, sex knowledge education can make children recognize the difference between boys and girls, and know how to protect themselves.
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Because these parents think about old traditions. After the child goes to kindergarten, parents should educate the child about sexuality, otherwise it is likely to suffer a big loss.
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In fact, this is just the difference in the thinking of some parents, because they feel that accepting these things too early will have a bad impact on their children, and on the contrary, it is precisely because of learning these things that children can have this sense of self-protection from an early age.
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Because they were very conservative in that era, they were naturally very conservative and had no other thoughts.
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Parents should go with the flow, and at the right age, they should accept the transmission of sexual knowledge, and there is no need to hide it, and this knowledge itself is scientific knowledge.
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I think it's hard to talk about. Most parents can't educate their children about sex, they feel that it's something that adults will know when they grow up, and children shouldn't know much when they're young.
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Children may not understand it very well. If you feel that you contact them too early, the more curious they will be, and it will be bad for them physically and mentally.
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