Is it really hard to make friends now? Why is it so hard to make friends?

Friends are certainly not interests.

It's hard to make close friends.

Because you are in love, but you can have a heart-to-heart relationship.

The key is opportunity.

Wait until you meet friends who are confidants of each other.

Don't worry.

Many people can't make close friends.

Wait is the only way.

As for the interests.

Do you mean being exploited?

He's a villain.

You can make this kind of friend, but you can't make deep friends.

Yes, I also have a good friend, who is really good to me, of course, I am also sincere to her, and I have always treated her as a close friend, but now I don't speak to her in my heart, just because her mouth is not about the wind, it is not intentional, natural character, no way. It is enough to have a confidant in life. You're not satisfied.

Interests can change a lot, and I have seen many examples around me, so don't expect so many good friends, now I think that yes is just not yet time to test it with money.

As long as you make friends with him with your heart, he will find out one day, real friends will not be measured by money, and friends made with heart are real friends!

It's not difficult to make friends, it's hard to make true friends, it takes time to verify! The truth is that it takes time to understand a person!

It's good enough to hand over one. Someone hasn't had another one in their lifetime.

Is it so hard to make friends now?

Text |Iko.

Anyone who has read my story knows that I don't have many friends and am sensitive. I found myself rarely able to make friends, let alone good ones. I think it may be because of my unpleasant personality.

If you want me to tell me what kind of character I am, I can't tell. In short, I feel weird about myself.

In addition to being relaxed when getting along with my boyfriend, I always feel that I am not relaxed when I am with other people, to be precise, women, and I can't get along naturally and easily with a layer of paper.

So much so that I didn't make good friends in high school and college. This may be a very regrettable thing in life.

You may say that there are not many friends, but two or three confidants are enough. Yes. I agree.

I'm a person who is particularly afraid of being cold, and I will either not say a word or say a lot. If you think about it, I'd go out of my way to please anyone. Deliberately catering to others, forgetting to express your truest feelings and thoughts in your heart.

In the end, I was too depressed, and I couldn't get along with others openly.

I used to think it was good, but I also drifted away in this strange energy field.

Even my best friends, because of this, we still can't get along very easily.

I was born poor and had an inferiority complex rooted in my heart. This may be one of the reasons why I am not confident and uncomfortable when making friends.

Subconsciously think that you don't deserve a close friend? Maybe.

As I get older, I see more openly. I'm not afraid of the loneliness that comes with not having friends, although occasionally I feel sad and struggling.

Just let everything go naturally, fate will always come.

If you have a friend, it is naturally the best, and if you don't have it, you don't force it. Live your life and embrace a better tomorrow.

Written by Yizi on February 6, 2019

Always feeling like it's hard to make friends? Or is it hard to get along with friends? I know this very well.

In life, I'm not very good at dealing with relationships. Getting along with people is only by feeling. Over time, sometimes, I feel like I'm not quite social.

There are one or two friends around me who can talk, but I didn't say whether I would become my lifelong friend.

Once, I was anxious about this for a long time.

But think about it, I can't waste my youth because of this, slowly, I finally got the hang of it.

I think it still has to be natural, you don't need to be too deliberate when you get along with people, everyone has their own ideas.

I am beautiful alone without friends, and having friends is naturally the icing on the cake, and you must love life yourself in order to discover the little surprises around you.

As long as I am not ashamed, everything is the best arrangement

Summary. It's hard to make friends, it's not difficult to say it's not difficult, and sometimes it's about methods and techniques.

It's hard to make friends, it's not difficult to say it's not difficult, and sometimes it's about methods and techniques.

Sometimes when you find like-minded friends, you will feel that it is easy to regret it, and it is easy to judge each other and rush to the bridge and talk together. It's especially hard if you're deliberately trying to make friends for a certain purpose.

You need to use some methods and techniques on your own.

Dear, have you been having any trouble making friends lately?

Just find a chat and relax.

All that software is a lie.

Yes, the teacher will be happy to chat with you.

Dear, the people can find here, come to talk, relieve your emotions, you are really in the right place.

It shows that you are also a person with a special ability to think.

Dear, you can give the teacher a specific example of how you have been confused in making friends recently.

I'm in a mess and I don't know where to start.

Or other confusion is also possible.

Well, I don't know where to start, it's normal, but I suddenly call you to say, I definitely don't know where to start.

I have a family, but now I live by myself and my lover and haven't been with me for more than three years.

Uh-huh, you're separated from your lover. How have you been doing in the past three years?

It must be not easy.

Surely there is a longing, loneliness, loneliness, sadness.

Sometimes I get annoyed when I think about it.

Mmmm, you're still irritable.

Dear, what do you think of when you tell your teacher about what makes you irritable?

The teacher cares about you!

For example, thinking about what your lover has not done well?

Wait a minute, I'm washing my face and brushing my teeth.

Uh-huh, okay. Teachers are waiting for you!

Dear, you can re-purchase the teacher's unlimited rounds of communication**, and the teacher can always accompany you in the next 2 hours!

The teacher is a psychology student, and can accompany you next, help you relieve your emotional emptiness, make you aware of some emotional problems you have at present, and consciously adjust it.

It's hard to make good friends when you come out of society, because people's hearts are too complicated. In fact, there is no way to make good friends, and the key reason is that everyone is different, although it is often because there is an intersection at work, and there will be the same topic. After the end of the work, each of us has different interests and hobbies, so I don't communicate too much in private.

To be a good friend, you need to have more intersections between two people. For example, if we have the same hobbies, because of a common envy and disparagement, we can have superficial shallow communication and slowly develop into good friends, and everything needs to have more original motivation to be able to push on.