I have a car, a house, a wife and children, why am I just unhappy?

Updated on society 2024-03-14
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If one day you find that I don't care so much anymore, it's not understanding, it's giving up.

    2. Don't be easily influenced, and don't be too sensible. People can't live too clearly, just know in their hearts.

    3. What I want is very simple, time is still there, you are still there.

    Fourth, sometimes you put down something, not because you are suddenly willing to give up, but because the deadline is up, you are willful enough, and you are more mature, and you know that this page should be turned over.

    Fifth, life is like subtraction, eat one less meal, see one side less, cherish what you have now, miss it, it will be gone. Everything in front of you is the best arrangement.

    Sixth, I'm afraid I don't have enough courage to wait for you all the time. She was still waiting at the end of the story, but the storyteller closed the fan and said from the beginning. If the freedom of flickering away and approaching is the freedom you want, then I would rather go back to living alone.

    7. Don't go around proclaiming your heart, you are not the only one in this world who has a story, and don't vent your pain everywhere, no one will empathize.

    8. Soft-heartedness is a kind of unfair stupid kindness, which fulfills others and wrongs oneself, but is regarded as a fool by others.

    9. Everyone will be tired, and no one can bear all the sorrow for you.

    10. You said that no matter what I become, you will not leave me, so I took off my mask and saw you fleeing in the wilderness.

    11. Life is short, don't worry too much, instead of spending time in turmoil, it is better to live happily in comfort.

    12. I finally understood that there are some roads that can only be walked alone. When you see through everything, you know that it is more solid to lose than to have.

    13. It's not love that refuses to let you go, it's not memories that refuse to let you go, it's not fate that refuses to let you go, but you yourself refuse to let go of yourself.

    14. The most feared, the strangeness after deep friendship, the pain after seriousness, the use after trust, and the indifference after gentleness. If you are dating, please be sincere, and if you leave, please be thorough.

    15. Later, I found out that things that are too strong always do not last long, and in response to the old saying, people who are attracted at first sight cannot be friends.

    16. After giving up something, never look back at it. If it's still worth a half-look, don't give up, hold on to it. - Yishu.

    17. Do you always keep revising your bottom line for someone's sake? Constantly making excuses for someone, constantly trying to forgive. But, silly boy, he doesn't like you that much.

    18. With a person, if the energy he gives you is to make you happy to get up every day, sleep peacefully every night, be full of motivation to do everything, and look forward to the future, then you are not in love with the wrong person, and the most suitable relationship is never to torture each other in the name of love, but to accompany each other and become each other's sunshine.

    19. It's good that you're gone, otherwise I'm always worried that you're leaving, and after separation, I hid from everyone and continued to love you for a long, long time. It's a pity that I'm only your old friend, not the person in your story. Hope you're doing well, but don't let me know.

    I wish you no waves in the years, and I have no regrets for the rest of my life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Have a car, a house, a wife and children, and you're not happy? Have you ever wondered if someone doesn't even have feet when you don't have shoes?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you are not satisfied, go out and gather more, and go for a walk.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    We all think too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In our lives, there are many people who do not have a house or a car, and they are also very happy, in fact, it is not necessary to have a house and a car to have happiness, happiness comes from our mentality. In real life, many people often attribute their happiness to the material level, thinking that if they reach a certain age, do not have their own house, and do not have a relatively decent car, they will have an inferiority complex in their hearts, thinking that they have a sense of frustration. In fact, I don't agree with this kind of thinking, although the material aspect is very important to us, but whether a person's heart is truly happy, in fact, is **in their own heart, **in their own mentality to maintain and adjust.

    When other people around us are more successful in their careers, have their own luxury cars, and have their own spacious and bright houses, these will naturally make us envious, which is human nature, but we should also be aware of the people around us, the reason why these people can succeed is also due to their own efforts, from their own innate advantages or a certain amount of luck, and for these, we should not be too entangled and caring, many times, As long as we work hard enough, we will not be able to achieve the same living conditions as the other person, and we should not blame ourselves and be too annoyed. In fact, like our parents' life, at our age, there is no car and house at all, and even household appliances are luxuries for them, but they live very happily, the real sense of happiness, in fact, is still ** in their own hearts, many times, when we can look at ourselves objectively, look at some of their own advantages and their own achievements, then we will no longer be annoyed by too much anxiety because of life, when we envy others, In fact, those who have a house and a car may also envy us in some way, so in many cases we need to change ourselves, this too utilitarian mentality, in order to let ourselves truly find the true meaning of happiness and joy in life. In fact, if you don't have a house, a car, or this kind of thought, you won't have expectations to bring troubles, and you will feel the joy and happiness brought by life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think there will be a sense of happiness without a car or a house, and I think the most important happiness for people is family, friendship and love. Emotional satisfaction is the root of a person's sense of happiness and filial piety.

    Family relationships, health status, and income level are the three major factors that affect well-being. The importance of "family relationship" is the most important in their hearts, if the family members are very harmonious and harmonious, it will make a person feel very happy.

    Where does happiness come from? Happiness is based on positive forces such as contentment, calmness, and love, and if you indulge evil thoughts and desires, etc., so that those positive forces are suppressed, people cannot be happy.

    So, don't always look at the outside world, look at your heart, talk to your soul more, see what it needs and what it lacks, and see if you are filling in some excess garbage into the spiritual world. It's not that if you have a car or a house, you will definitely feel happy, but you will also have a sense of emptiness and can't stop roaring, so the fullness of your heart is the root of happiness.

    Lack of faith. Zen people who lack faith have an empty mind, no sense of purpose, often do not know what they are doing and what they want to do, like the walking dead, and cannot find the meaning of life. Being easily influenced by others leads to a low sense of well-being.

    Love to compare. People who love to compare have a strong desire to compare, and their main energy is invested in comparison and competition with others. The inner happiness changes with the change of the outcome of the competition, and if you lose in the competition, the happiness is also lost. This kind of person will not feel true happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Having a car and a house can bring people a certain amount of material security and convenience, but they are not the whole of happiness. Happiness is a subjective feeling, which is the satisfaction and pleasure of the core of internal fortune. Therefore, even if you have material resources, you don't necessarily have a sense of happiness.

    On the contrary, many people rise while having material conditions and still feel empty and unsatisfied.

    Happiness mainly comes from an attitude towards life and a perception of oneself. People need to have their own goals and pursuits, they need to have a fulfilling life and meaningful social activities, and they need to have a healthy body and a good mental state. When these conditions are met, people can truly feel happy.

    Therefore, owning a car and a house can bring material conveniences, but it is also difficult to bring true happiness if there is no other satisfaction.

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