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Love is to tolerate each other and understand each other, she actually loves you very much, if you don't love, she doesn't bother to pay attention to your past or living habits. Since you want to be together, you have to get used to each other, and there is a saying that love is habit. Get used to what the other party has, in order to last.
I hope you will compare your hearts and get used to each other. Also tolerate each other.,Girls are sometimes very willful.,Because I'm a little willful.,I understand all of this.,But I don't mean to hurt you or what.,Sometimes there's really no way to grasp it.,Want to be valued by you to be like that.。。 Come on...
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It feels like the problem is with your girlfriend.
Trust me, you don't really have any problems with yourself. It's not right for your girlfriend to use your previous normal relationship as a reason to quarrel. Everyone has their own past, and you were acting normally in a fairly normal situation, knowing that your current girlfriend rejected you at the beginning, and you were with your ex-girlfriend.
If your current girlfriend is blaming you for your actions, then you need to know that she is also responsible for it.
If she hadn't rejected you in the first place, you wouldn't have been with your ex-girlfriend, and nothing else would have happened. (Although these things are extremely normal things that can happen to everyone in a relationship).
So, it can only be stated that there is something wrong with your girlfriend, and what you need to do is to find out the "real" reason.
I think her constant use of your past as a lever is actually just a "reason", not the root of the matter.
Have a good conversation with her and find out the real root cause of the matter.
You love her very much, but you need to know that emotional things need to be paid by both parties. If only one side keeps giving, this kind of relationship cannot last. Make sure she's genuine to determine if your effort is worth it.
Good luck.
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If she really loves you, she should tolerate your past! It will be painful to go on like this! Affect the relationship in the future, she can't figure it out! That soothes her wounds with your sincere love, has been treating her with heart, and I believe she will feel it
No one is perfect, not to mention that it's not all your fault to find a girlfriend If she keeps rejecting you like before, shouldn't you find a girlfriend? The cruel person is not exactly you
If you want to be together, two people should forget about the unhappiness of the past Hand in hand to start over You still have a long way to go Love that has withstood setbacks is more evocative
I wish you all happiness in the future
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Maybe you should tell her that you should separate each other for a while, don't interfere with each other during this time, no matter who is looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend, let the other party adapt first, and wait until the agreed time is up, and then get together, then there will be no quarrels, maybe there will be an answer. I wish you success!
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Let me see that your girlfriend is stingy, really. Everyone has their own secrets and past, and now that you are truly in love with each other, why should you care about the past, there is no need. It seems that you may really have no future, because she cares about your past as much as she does now, and now you often have conflicts, do you think you will be happy in the future?
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One book that suggests you go read is Thomas. Moore's "The Night of the Soul." The cause of the two is not mutual accusations and demands. Rather, it is a metallurgical fusion, the union of the souls of two living beings.
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Always care about the past, don't trust each other, what's the point of being together.
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I don't think anyone can tell.
No one can help you.
Because we're not you.
Love must first determine whether it is love or not.
After you are sure that it is love, you need to give.
I guess your question now is, is there real love between you?
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She is beautiful in every man's opinion, and I admit that I like her beauty, I like her body.
At first, I thought I just liked her beauty, but I didn't know how I could never forget her.
Maybe 3 years ago I liked her because she was beautiful, but I didn't like her whether she was beautiful or not.
It became like this. Sometimes I hate her, I hate everything about her, I feel like she's not like a normal person.
She likes to play in her bones, but she knows she's playing big.
I don't know what's going on in my heart, I just know that I loved her madly. I don't want the person I've loved to become.
A bus for everyone. It stands to reason that I should hate her, but sometimes I can tolerate everything about her.
I can't bear to see her eyes, I just want her to be as motivated and dedicated as others.
Thinking about your career.
But she's just not as good as she wants. I don't know what she's thinking, I'm thinking that God is so unfair to me.
I didn't dare to think about me and finding a girlfriend who really loved each other, I didn't dare to choose the person I liked, and the person I liked was often.
There are many people who don't like me, but I don't like them.
I just want to live a plain life, live an ordinary life, I don't need to quarrel, I just want to live every day quietly.
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In fact, sometimes we can choose who to love and who not to love, but we can't choose who not to meet. You know, a lot of things depend on fate? You're good to her because you met.
The beginning of love can be divided into many kinds, and that kind of heartbeat is only found in the season when love first opens. Love is the crystallization of time. You said that after you broke up, she said that she couldn't do without you, right, then this is love, there is a habit called love.
She loves you, but neither of you may know it. However, how to tell if one person loves another person is to separate them and see if their hearts are uncomfortable. So, friends, don't think too much, you may not start out because you love each other, but I believe that you will go the farthest because you are the best for each other.
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Love is a combination of giving and needing. You don't feel well because you feel that her efforts and needs are not balanced, and that she is more advantageous than you. However, your dedication to this relationship comes from your heart, and the reason is nothing more than wishing her well.
And you did it. Love also has its fermentation period, at the beginning of all kinds of budding heartbeats, the later the more dull and a lot of relief. I hope you can put aside your paranoia and be happier.
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Cherish each other, that's all, maybe time will tell
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I don't know, have you ever heard of such a saying, girls like the kind of boy who is serious with informality, but not seriousness, and does not delay seriousness.
But one thing I want to say is that you have to stick to what is worth sticking to, I hope you understand!!
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Brother, don't mind too much, there are no perfect people, I don't think it's anything, give each other some space to move, too much care is counterproductive. Treat it with a normal heart, love needs to be verified for a long time, and the process is also the most beautiful, I am a person who has come over, and I think I quarreled when I fell in love before, but I think it is very interesting, the spice of love.
My opinion is to continue, I have all the big contradictions, not to mention the small contradictions, it's not too bland.
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It depends on how she usually is, whether she usually goes out and doesn't tell you, and you can't decide whether she is worth it because of one thing!
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Let it be, this one who has seen the truth over time.
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When something like you happens, all I can say is to let go of that girl and let me come.
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I don't think she loves you anymore because she's starting to annoy you anymore and doesn't want the gifts you give her.
You can be with her"Very happy"Yes.
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It's better not to make trouble for her in the past, the part-time job is very hard, it may be inconvenient for you to go over, and besides, you will not be able to find a job for a while in the past will only increase the burden on her, and when you find a job, you will start school. Don't be busy, let's make a decision after the two of them sum it up.
She said that you should make a spare tire for her, or a good share, no matter how good you are to her, she will feel that you are just her spare tire, are you like a spare tire for the rest of your life! You are a man, such a woman is not worthy of you to be really good to her, love is mutual. in order to have good results.