My girlfriend is like this, what should I do? 20

It turns out that it is so difficult to be a man, I can only say that I sympathize with you, but in fact, you subconsciously tied yourself too tightly, let go, think about it from a different angle, maybe you will be relieved.

Your additional explanation of the situation still does not solve the problem

Very cupped, this situation is not solvable. I understand your feelings.

The best thing about this situation is to break it, and then find a girl you like relatively (at least in appearance, personality), stay with the two of you more, don't contact your former girlfriend anymore, and now you have cultivated a relationship, which will naturally fade a lot.

Otherwise, you won't be looking for it. There has been a stalemate. Even if there was no contact for a while. I still can't let go of meeting again in a few days.

Or continue to be stiff. Either break it completely. I chose it myself.

Good luck with my friend

Since she doesn't love you, why do you love her, if you can't find someone you love, find someone who loves you.

Dude, I understand that you can't let go of his feelings, I also have this kind of experience with you, my girlfriend also goes to school outside, and often contacts a boy in the same class outside, and often lied to me for that man, and finally I found out, this kind of thing is to put your own mentality well, you can afford to learn to let go, you think he is worthy of you to love him so much, you love, you don't think it's worth it, just let it go, anyway, I will let go when I encounter this kind of thing, why let yourself suffer, I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years, I use more feelings than you do, maybe you will understand it later, and you will feel relaxed after letting go.

Too many choices and abandonment in life Is this kind of love worth continuing? Give it up.

Men should be able to afford to put it down!!

If you want to live freely, you must know how to make trade-offs!!

I hope you can know how to choose, if it were me, the long pain is better than the short pain)

The reason why you feel heartache and can't let go is because you feel that all your efforts are not due in return.

If you can't get a person's heart, then there is no point in continuing to entangle like this. All that adds to it is endless pain and trouble.

When you cry when you miss the sun, then you miss the stars too.

Life will teach you that love is not the whole story of life.

Friends, it is helplessness to give up, and it is incompetence to give up; If you don't give up, you should give up ignorance, and if you don't give up, what you shouldn't give up is attachment.

Long pain is better than short pain, make your right choice. Give it up.

Give it up. Do you know why Romeo and Juliet's love is so touching? It's because Romeo died, so his later life became a blank, and if he survived, I believe there would be one or even several relationships, but the girl just changed her name.

Knowing that you are not old, it is better to choose someone who suits you, and don't waste unnecessary feelings.

Upstairs standing and talking doesn't hurt your back! Feelings are something that can't be cut by lasers, and I have a similar situation, to be honest, it's not that you can let it go, people like us won't let go without going through heartbreaking! But the problem is, buddy, she betrayed you, yes, I know you love her, I can understand it, because I have had it too, but betrayal is a flood, even if you can save it once, it is hard to guarantee that there will be no next time, even if there is no next time, this time the injury will be ingrained in the heart, the wound is a creature, it will grow!!

Now that it has happened, even if you get her back, it will only be for a while, and the rest will only hurt more! Brother, think twice!!

First love often does not end well, as facts have proven. It's better to give yourself one more choice, while getting along with her, while looking for a better one, because she is also like this, you are reluctant to deal with her first, maybe in the future you find that your other object may really be better than her, and people can see it when they have a comparison.

Persistence, persistence, persistence, I believe that she will definitely stack with you, believe in yourself, don't give up,

Or cut through the mess quickly. Otherwise, it will be a disservice to you ...

I see, find your Snow White again!!

1.If you can't stand her anymore, you can choose to break up.

2.If you really love her, you should tolerate her, love her more, and tolerate her actions.

The choice is yours, and she must have your reasons for doing it, otherwise she wouldn't have done it all the time.

Regardless of men and women, small works can only be a temporary freshness. During the love period, we make it every day, because we like it, we can tolerate it for a while. After getting along for a long time, we are really physically and mentally exhausted.

You can have a good talk with your girlfriend and express your opinion, if she insists on not changing, it will be too tiring to accommodate for the rest of your life, and you can only choose to leave. If she is sensible and willing to understand you, you can change the way you get along and continue to work together.

If you can change him, he will continue, and if he can't, then you can just let him go and let him go.

I think it's okay to talk about it openly.

A very good girlfriend, you don't know what to do, if you don't want to marry her, break up.

I have a girlfriend who is very good, and if I have a long time, I will feel haggard and tired.

At the beginning of the relationship, because love has strength, as a support, even if your girlfriend is very good, you have a lot of tolerance and patience, and you will even think that Piqi's girlfriend is very cute, but it slowly increases over time. When the other party does it, you will be bored, and even feel that it is unreasonable, and over time, this relationship will make people feel particularly tired.

There is a very good way to improve the girlfriend.

Change the way you fall in love.

For some girlfriends, the love method of the diary can be changed appropriately, and it may be the result of excessive spoiling of the dusty rent, which may be better if the way is changed.

Enrich your girlfriend's daily life.

For some girlfriends who are more comparative, you can enrich her daily life, let him be busy, and naturally he will not want to do it or you can take her out to play, which can also enrich her life.

Promote the independent attitude of the girlfriend.

At any time, good relationships are built on the basis of independence, and the way to make his girlfriend independent is to make him mature, and it is also the best way to maintain his feelings.

Here it is recommended to break up directly and not think too much. Just do your own thing and just remove the people who are not suitable for laughing and sleepy from the list. Finally, I wish the former Chi Fu eternal happiness and happiness in regret.