The upbringing that goes deep into the bones is not to lose your temper with those close to you

The upbringing that is deep in the bones is actually reflected in all aspects of life, including not losing your temper with those close to you, and many more!

1. Be polite to others. When eating, wait for people to move chopsticks together, pull stools for elders for women, leave convenience for the people behind when bringing the door, hand scissors and other sharp weapons, and leave the handle for others.

2. There are principles and bottom lines. Men don't beat women, women know how to protect themselves, don't do things that break the law, don't do things beyond their ability, don't do things that go against their conscience, and try to get what they can reach!!

3. Be humble downwards and calm upwards. When you meet someone who is better than yourself, you will not flatter and deliberately flatter, and when you meet someone who is not as good as yourself, you will not laugh at sarcasm, but be humble and respectful!

4. Know how to love and be loved. When someone loves, go all out, be honest with each other, know how to love yourself when no one loves, keep growing, moving forward, and becoming better!

5. Harmony with everyone! Be measured with colleagues, sincere with friends, sincere with lovers, filial piety with parents, know how to get along with people, be able to correctly grasp proportions and strength, and get along comfortably!

Well, I like this sentence so much and agree with it. But often, our dissatisfaction and anger can always be held back outside, and once we face people close to us, we are prone to go berserk. The closer we are to people, the easier it is for us to ignore their feelings, or to let us know that no matter how much we treat them, they will tolerate us, so there is no need to hide, and we are all ourselves.

On the other hand, we can tolerate the big lack of outsiders, and we can't stand the close people, even if it is a small shortcoming. We always have the handle of the knife on the outside and the tip of the knife on the inside, which is really bad. Therefore, it is still necessary to improve upbringing and face the people close to you with more love, after all, they are the protagonists of their lives.

To the bones, of course, is not to lose your temper with those close to you. Because if you are a cultivated person, you can control your emotions very well.

Raising deep into the bones is not to lose your temper with your relatives, I think. Only losing your temper with your loved ones is one.

The literal meaning of upbringing is probably the level of education and the habit of cultivation. Therefore, there are high and low upbringing, and education is also fundamental, and the upbringing will be different depending on the education received. I understand that the upbringing you are talking about is deep to the bone marrow, and it should be a very high upbringing.

The first thing to do when you lose your temper depends on who you are, and the person who has the right to restrain yourself, such as your elders and leaders, you can't lose your temper. Secondly, it is also related to personality, some people are honest and honest, and they rarely lose their temper with anyone. Therefore, it shows that people who do not lose their temper are not necessarily highly cultivated.

Losing your temper, having poor self-restraint, and not considering the feelings of others is a disturbance and violation of others, and it must be a sign of poor upbringing. If you don't lose your temper with your loved ones, you can lose your temper casually with people who are not close to you? Obviously, it cannot be said that he has a good upbringing.

In fact, the core content of people with high education is generally similar to that of restraining oneself and not disturbing others.