Should you choose to forgive for domestic violence, do you think domestic violence can be forgiven?

People have different personalities and temperaments, and domestic violence should be resolutely resisted, but the reality should also be considered.

Divorce is certainly easy now, but you have to consider whether the cost of divorce is something you can afford. This involves not only the division of property, but also the maintenance of children.

Therefore, we do not forgive domestic violence unprincipledly, but after encountering domestic violence, the most important thing we need to do is not to think about divorce, but to consider how to help the other party correct the problem of domestic violence. You can't let the other party have the first time, and there is a second time, a third time.

Now that the national law has more and more severe sanctions for domestic violence, you can also seek legal help after encountering domestic violence, apply for a writ of habeas corpus, and at the same time give the other party a chance to correct her mistakes.

Of course, if the other party refuses to change and commits it again and again, then such a partner, whether male or female, must choose to stay away as soon as possible, break up when it is time to break up, and divorce when it is time to divorce. Otherwise, live in fear all day long, and no one can live such a day.

There is often no fixed answer to family problems, because the situation of each family is different, which is the fundamental reason why "it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs". Therefore, whether to divorce after domestic violence or not varies from family to family, and you should not act impulsively.

Most people will choose to forgive when facing domestic violence, because she feels that the other party will change because of him, or it may be a temporary impulse, so she chooses to forgive with an excellent attitude, and for the sake of the children and family.

It should not be forgiven, because there are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, and you can choose to choose to forgive because of the child, but you have to be prepared for the next time you will be beaten.

Being subjected to domestic violence should be dealt with in a timely manner, this should not be forgiven, if you forgive once, he will have a second or third time.

This specific question, how about the specific analysis of how many injuries I have been injured by domestic violence? In fact, once a man beats his wife. It's really going to be addictive, and it won't stop in the future, so you need to think carefully and give her something to try.

In the face of domestic violence, can we choose to forgive? Do you know how?

No, there are only 0 and countless times of domestic violence.

I don't think domestic violence can be forgiven, and domestic violence is a sensitive word for me. After all, if you are subjected to domestic violence, there will be an indelible shadow in your heart, let me talk about it.

When you encounter domestic violence, you may be traumatized. If one person commits domestic violence against another, the other person is physically tortured, and the other person is also subjected to mental torture. In addition to physical harm, sometimes domestic violence can be verbally attacked, with abusive, malicious slander and other bad words.

Domestic violence may lead to depressionBeing anxious for a long time in your heart will bring unexpected consequences. This can range from self-harm to suicide.

to couples

At first, after a domestic violence by a husband and wife, they thought that there was nothing to do after that, as long as the relationship between husband and wife was maintained. But if there is more domestic violence, the relationship between husband and wife will become very diluted, and even divorce will occur, leading to the breakdown of the family.

UsuallyThere are many cases of domestic violence against wives by husbands, the wife is weak by nature and has a gentle personality. If you do something bad, you will often be abused by your husband. Once the wife is divorced, the husband will force her to die, begging her not to divorce, and the wife is easily forgiven by the husband.

If you are in the midst of domestic violence for a long time, the husband's claws will still exist and will not let go of the wife, and the wife will feel very anxious and can only treat her husband calmly.

To children

The ancients said: "Filial piety comes out under the stick." This statement is clearly false.

When a child is disobedient, the parents commit domestic violence against the child, and the child will immediately cry. Feeling insecure and prone to nightmares when sleeping at night. It will also affect the child's personality, have no intention of learning, it is difficult to get in, he is afraid of socializing with his classmates, he becomes very timid, he has low self-esteem, and leaves the shadow of childhood.

In the adolescent years, children face domestic violence differently, and there is a rebellious mentality. Generally, teenagers are subjected to domestic violence because they don't like to listen to their parents' nagging, restrict their freedom of independence, and can't understand their psychological characteristics. It is easy to quarrel with parents, it is difficult to forgive yourself with your parents, and even extreme behaviors such as running away from home.

Therefore, domestic violence can never be accepted and forgiven. We must say "no" to domestic violence! When you encounter domestic violence, don't swallow your anger and use the law to protect yourself.

There are only 0 and countless times of domestic violence! Domestic violence is unforgivable!

According to a survey conducted by the Women's Federation, domestic violence exists in some families in China. Ninety per cent of the victims were women, and domestic violence resulted in death, accounting for more than 40 per cent of female homicides.

On average, female victims in China report to the police after 35 times of domestic violence, and if they report to the police or divorce the first time they suffer domestic violence, there are no 34 times later.

Why is it so serious, but it doesn't attract everyone's attention? Because it is easy to combine domestic violence with ordinary marital disputes.

Domestic violence is not only a family matter, but also a social matter.

Here's what domestic violence can do:

To childrenFamily education is a child's first classroom, and if violence is committed at home, it will subtly affect the child's development.

A child who is often beaten and scolded by his parents is easy to learn the means of violence and aggression from his parents' scolding behavior.

Domestic violence will alienate parents and children, and no matter what happens to children in the future, especially after doing something wrong, they will not dare to tell their parents, and it will also cause children to have low self-esteem.

to the family. Domestic violence has a significant impact on family harmony. Domestic violence should be completely eradicated. There is no reason for domestic violence for any reason, for anything, for any emotion.

Domestic violence can lead to serious psychological problems and leave lasting psychological scars. Victims had higher levels of depression, anxiety, and phobias, and significantly higher rates of emotional distress, suicidal thoughts, and suicide attempts compared to women who had not been abused.

How to stay away

Domestic violenceOnce domestic violence occurs, the first thing to consider is to avoid harm at the scene; If you really can't escape the scene, then protect yourself from fatal injuries as well. At the scene of domestic violence, you must shout for help, don't care about factors such as face, or even the so-called life principle that family ugliness should not be publicized. Try to get the attention of people around you, such as neighbors, and then come to the rescue, or call the police.

Every victim who chooses to come out of a domestic violence environment has experienced too much before leaving, and every decision they make should be understood and supported, not questioned.

I hope that we will never become victims of domestic violence, and I hope that once we are unfortunate enough to suffer domestic violence, everyone knows how to protect themselves.

Domestic violence is unforgivable! If it is the first time or the second time, at least there is room for redemption, and the domestic violence has shown many times that the person has no intention of repenting, so there is no need to spend time. There are several possibilities for a person who has been subjected to domestic violence, the first is the first possibility:

If you dare to commit domestic violence once, I will make you pay the price once, which is almost the same as the price of your domestic violence against me, and I will continue to make you pay the price until both parties can't get by. The second possibility: After making the domestic abuser pay a terrible price, he will no longer dare to continue to do so, and both parties will know that the other party's energy is about the same, so they will coexist peacefully.

The third possibility: there is no ability to make the domestic abuser pay, and there is no ability to prevent possible domestic violence in the future, so they choose to break up. The fourth possibility:

Whether I can make the other party pay the price or not, as long as the other party is domestic violence, I hate this person from the root, and most of the domestic violence is in the third possibility, if you don't have the ability to protect yourself, it's better to separate as soon as possible, even if you have the ability to protect yourself, you shouldn't waste your time on someone who doesn't cherish you, it's not worth it.

If it's for life.

In fact, most of the domestic violence people continue to make do with life in the end. It's not a pessimistic attitude towards this, on the contrary, it will feel that it is a good thing and a mature approach. There is no need to imagine that the relationship and marriage are spotless, it is complex, human, worldly, imperfect, and at the same time, it is also developed, needs to be run-in, tolerated, and stumbled, as long as you see both parties getting better, you have the courage to go on.

If it's for feelings.

There are such a part of people who do everything for their feelings, and even sacrifice what they have, even if they are subjected to domestic violence, they are indifferent, and they stick to their beliefs, all saying that it is for the so-called feelings, but in fact, no one knows what they are for. So don't boost the prestige of domestic abusers because of a moment of confusion, so that you will be the one who suffers in the end. Domestic abusers who commit repeated domestic violence are not forgivable.

If it's for happiness.

Zero vs. countless times. Domestic violence may have a cause, but it cannot be tolerated. If the relationship between two people reaches the point of domestic violence, there is no need to continue.

Even if it continues, what cannot be erased is mental pain compared to domestic violence. Because memory is a terrible thing. Forgiveness or not, in fact, does not mean anything.

Even if it is for the sake of happiness in the future, there can no longer be any contact with the domestic abuser.

If it's for the sake of face.

Face is something it doesn't have when you really need it, if it's just for this dispensable thing and loses a lifetime of happiness, it's really not worth it, and you may regret it later, after all, people only have one life, and do it and cherish it, we can't guarantee to live a happy life, as long as you don't regret it. Domestic violence cannot be forgiven when the number of times is small, let alone the number of times.

Domestic violence is an extremely serious act that violates the physical, psychological and personal dignity of the victim and is a violation of law, ethics and morals. Under no circumstances can domestic violence be tolerated or condoned in the name of forgiveness.

Forgiveness is a person's mindset and choice, but domestic violence involves rights, dignity and personal security between family members and therefore cannot be resolved through individual choices or mindsets alone. If the perpetrators of domestic violence are not severely punished by the law and educated and guided, it will not only bring more harm and fear to the victims, but will also have a serious impact on the moral bottom line and the construction of the legal system in the whole society.

Therefore, domestic violence should not be forgiven, and the perpetrator should bear the corresponding legal responsibility, and at the same time, it is also necessary to receive the necessary psychological and educational guidance to prevent the recurrence of similar behavior. At the same time, society should strengthen the prevention, publicity and education of domestic violence, help more people understand the harm of domestic violence, raise awareness of the dignity and rights of family members and their awareness of protection, and jointly maintain good family relations and social order.

I think that domestic violence cannot be forgiven, we must have zero tolerance for domestic violence, even if you forgive, there will still be another domestic violence. Why condone violence, domestic violence is no longer a family matter, it has risen to a social problem.

But it is obvious that even if domestic violence happens in front of me, it will not help if I call the police to comfort her, if the domestic violence itself cannot come out to defend it by itself, others can't help anything, in China, a country where ethics is supreme, domestic violence is a family matter, and it is good to solve it privately, so it has also caused some domestic violence to continue to run rampant, so do what you can, and stop it when you see it, and then educate and avoid harm.

For anyone to grasp the base, no matter how light the domestic violence, it can not be forgiven, this is a matter of principle, it cannot be tolerated, the strength of men and women is not the same, so the degree of attack is not the same, in case of accidentally using too much force, the damage caused is immeasurable. If you are hurt and the other party comes to apologize and ask you to forgive him, even if he has done a lot to compensate you, can you say that the physical damage you suffered is gone, and the psychological damage can disappear? Besides, domestic violence is a very serious matter, not only breaking the law but also revealing the distortion of the other party's humanity, which is a very terrible thing.

In fact, for people who have suffered domestic violence, this is a very painful experience, most of them are reluctant to mention this matter, many people have suffered from depression after suffering from severe domestic violence, and the years of skin mill because of the fear make them feel that they have been in the dark, unable to get rid of the terrible shadow, which has a great impact in later life, and may live a terrified life for the rest of their lives. Therefore, domestic violence cannot be forgiven, my personal experience is that I was abused twice when I was pregnant, and once when the child was about two years old, I was persuaded by my family to talk about the child, of course, it is mainly the man's family, and I really hope that the child can have a complete home.

I think that if you are really suffering from domestic violence, you still have to call the police and think about yourself.