I always feel inferior in the face of rich people, how can this be?

Hello! First of all, I wish you good health! For the sake of your fate and mine, let me talk to you about the rich and the "poor".

Your envy of the rich, and then inferiority is a normal phenomenon, you should not have too heavy psychological burden for this, in fact, many of your classmates also envy the rich, but you don't know.

But what do I want to know about them that you envy? Is it the abundance of material things they have, or is it their way of life? What do you think is a sign of your low self-esteem, and does it affect your daily communication?

Low self-esteem, that is, a person makes a low evaluation of his own ability, quality, etc., always feels inferior to others, pessimistic and disappointed, and loses confidence. It is a negative state of mind, a mental obstacle to the realization of ideals.

The trigger for your low self-esteem is the social environment. The main reason for the formation of inferiority complex is that you cannot correctly understand and treat yourself, so to change your inferiority, you must start by changing your own cognition.

Be good at discovering your strengths and affirming your achievements. In social interactions, the wealthier and the poorer are completely equal in personality, there is no distinction between high and low, and there should be no natural sense of superiority.

There is no intrinsic, inevitable and absolute connection with the inferiority complex, the natural living environment, and people's cultivation, knowledge, and ability.

If you want to make yourself feel inferior in front of what you think is "rich", you can try it like this, list your strengths, and compare them with "rich people", you always have a few things that must be better than them:

Try to remember what you have done that you have done and succeeded through hard work, and give yourself a positive psychological cue.

I'm still very capable, and my experience is richer than that of the "rich".

There are two types of people you can try to reach: one is classmates from relatively poor families who sincerely understand what they think of the wealthy; One is the rich people, who understand what troubles they have after they have money.

Love tips: Everyone is no exception to yearn for a better quality of life, you can transform your feelings of inferiority into the motivation to pursue a higher quality of life, continue to work hard, enrich your spiritual life, and make yourself a spiritually rich person.

Every master has been a big loser.

Rich people understand the order of success: to be—to do—to have.

If you're willing to do easy things, life will be difficult. But if you are willing to do the hard things, then life will be easy ......

If you are satisfied with the above, please don't disappoint my kindness and answer in time.

There are more people who have low self-esteem because they are not rich enough, but in fact, whether their family is rich or not, it is better not to let others know too much, and the weaknesses of human nature can be understood. (Actually, I can't do it yet, every time someone chats and asks me about anything, I don't have to be honest and unprepared.) I always want to change, because many times what I say is true, and others are not.

Don't expose your character weaknesses, others may hurt you out of jealousy. In fact, everyone has low self-esteem because no one is perfect. Everyone has a sensitivity to inferiority because of their imperfections or the lack of childhood.

In fact, a good family background should be the confidence on the road to your own growth, you are uncomfortable because others say that your family is rich, I wonder if it is because of your family education I hope you understand that these wealth is the result of your parents' struggle, not your achievements, afraid that you will be spoiled and squandered, I hope you are not arrogant and work hard, and ignore the encouragement and recognition of your soul. As a result, you subconsciously believe that there is a gap between your current abilities and your parents' achievements, and you have low self-esteem. (It's just my personal guess, but you can find the deepest cause for yourself.)

Or the person who said these things was not friendly at the time, or jealous and other factors, and wanted to implicitly express "You have no advantages except for the wealth in the family" and hit you. This is certainly not the case.

No matter what it is, in fact, after thinking about it clearly, you will feel that this kind of inferiority complex of internal friction is meaningless. If it is a family factor, after understanding the starting point of your parents, in addition to doing your best, you must also understand that the family environment created for you by your excellent parents is your own advantage and confidence. And all this is one of your strengths.

If the environment makes you feel inferior or uncomfortable, or you are targeted, jealous, or isolated, it can only be said that the environment is not suitable for you. Or learn to hide your light and strengths. Because sometimes your luck and advantages will sting others where they have low self-esteem, and they will inadvertently hurt others, even if you don't mean to.

Money can buy more material comforts, but it can't ** inner inferiority complex. Inferiority complex is a profound psychological experience, which arises due to underestimation of oneself and lack of self-identity. It can be triggered by a variety of factors, such as family environment, learning failures, rejection, failures, etc., and sometimes even experiences that appear in childhood can affect one's inferiority complex.

Whatever the reason, low self-esteem is a negative emotion, and it is necessary to have the right mindset to overcome it.

Money may be able to bring material comfort, but it cannot inferiority. It can satisfy some needs that you can control, such as buying a new outfit, but it can't satisfy your innermost needs, such as gaining the approval and confidence of others. When your inferiority complex becomes stronger, simple material conditions no longer seem to be able to change your mentality, and even make you feel that you are almost useless, and your inferiority complex will become even stronger.

The first step in overcoming low self-esteem is to acknowledge the negative emotions you have and find ways to overcome them. Low self-esteem is essentially caused by low self-esteem and low self-confidence, so the most important thing to overcome is to improve self-confidence and self-esteem and establish a correct sense of self-identity. Secondly, you can try to change your own perception and use your failures and shortcomings as an opportunity to learn, so as to enhance your self-confidence.

In addition, filial piety can also insist on participating in some activities, such as gaining self-confidence by joining clubs or participating in competitions, or communicating with different people to improve their abilities, so as to change their inferiority complex.

Therefore, money can not ** the inferiority complex in the heart, only by working hard to improve self-confidence, establish a correct sense of self-identity, can effectively overcome the inferiority complex.

Being rich is only a material foundation, and rich people need to further improve and have high requirements for themselves, and the inferiority complex in their hearts is also a kind of motivation to make continuous progress.