Male 30 or no object, will you not be able to find it in the future?

It's really hard to say.

Whether to get married or not, in fact, the main pressure comes from friends, the following is the real scene:

A group of good friends who talk about everything, about 8-9 people, around 26 years old, one or two people began to get married, not free, they couldn't make an appointment, and the rest of the people laughed at their wives and slaves, and also scolded them for having the opposite sex and no humanity, 28 years old, the people who were married before had a baby, and those who were not married were also married, and there should be people 3-4 left who are not married, and they are still free.

30 years old, the remaining one or two are not married, those who are married have given birth to babies, and the topic has changed from girls to children, and they are all a family of three when they go out, including the circle of friends, and then slowly you start to panic, not because you are older, but because you are a person together, there is no time to play together, and there is no topic at all, slowly, everything is by yourself. I finally came out to drink and play mahjong, and watched them all be called away, and the rest was just empty, and slowly it became more boring.

Well, what's even more tragic is that they have a family and a business, and they still seem to be the same, with no money, no career, no wife... Think about it, how terrifying, what are these relatives, they are rarely seen in ordinary times.

When I woke up, I found that JR quoted me a lot, so I said a few more words.

There is a JR who said well, the most feared thing in life is to be the same, and it has always been this state. I also belong to the kind of life that is easy to fall into the same, thinking that life should be like this, when I am still slowly living in a comfortable life, the friends around me are changing their lives one by one, promoting and doing business, when playing with them, I don't realize that the gap is widening with them, thinking that it is still the same as many years ago, and then at a certain moment, in a certain place, suddenly wake up, they are improving step by step, step by step away from themselves, Then I seem to be growing, but in fact I am standing still. How did I suddenly wake up?

Because a friend suddenly said to buy a house, a friend suddenly said to buy a car, a friend suddenly said that he was promoted to manager, a friend said that he had a second child, and so on. Then I looked around myself and found that I just had a good life, savings, skills, positions and nothing.

It's not that a person's life is bad, but a person's life needs sustenance, some people pin games, some people pin entertainment between friends, some pin work, etc., etc., etc., but if one day the sustenance is gone, it is too terrifying, the space is empty, the game will go out of business, friends will not be able to make appointments, and work will reach a bottleneck. I'm not afraid of anything, the most afraid is that it is difficult to fall asleep in the dead of night, and at this time it will be extremely lonely and empty.

JRs have resonances, and you can try to get out of this.

Thank you for the invitation, the man is 30 years old and has no object, it's really time to be anxious, generally love needs to talk about 1 or two years before getting married, unless you get married, you can't find a suitable marriage partner at this age, which means that your requirements are high or fate is not enough, you should expand the circle of friends, know more friends of the opposite sex, don't stay at home and don't go out, fate is not waiting for it, it is your own hard work, and then what about your own conditions? Looks, family, work, etc.? It is better to find the right person according to your own conditions, and it is better for boys to get married before the age of 35.

Nowadays, men and women fall in love and get married very late, so 30-year-old people are not looking for a partner, just start looking for it now, and you will definitely be able to find the person you can be with for life in the future.

Not necessarily, no one can say anything about fate. What can be clearly explained is not fate, and what can be clearly explained is not so much division and combination.

No, it won't. Nowadays, most young people will postpone their marriage, and many of our young men and women in their 30s have not found a partner, and they are all single.

Now the age of marriage of the younger generation in China has been pushed back by 30 years old, which is not too old, and it can be found.

For today's society, it is very common for both men and women to be older unmarried young people over the age of 30.

According to the analysis of relevant data, 22 per cent of rural areas have more than 1 3 per cent of unmarried young men over the age of 30, and 63 per cent of rural areas have more than 1 10 unmarried young men over the age of 30.

At present, there are more older women in urban areas, while young men are in rural areas. The main reason is that most of the single women in the cities are white-collar workers, while the single men in the rural areas are mostly poor families and have different appearances. Serious will face the problem of lifelong singleness!

So how to solve the problem that young men can't find a partner? I think we can change ourselves in the following ways.

1. The family is poor. Young men should have the courage to go out, go to the big city to develop, find a stable job in the city, in order to improve their lives, earn money to build a house, live and work hard to buy a house in the city for a few years, there is no shortage of people in the big city who can't find a job, and even the salary of food delivery is a lot, and the main willingness to work hard is to make money.

2. Ugly. In the process of hard work, you can improve your dressing style, get a clean haircut, and pay attention to skin care. Elevate your temperament.

3. Learn the manuscript of the eggplant Liang to ask the low. Use your free time to read more scum banquets and books, and improve your diploma, gold will always shine.

4. Unsociable. Make more friends by using a variety of dating apps, or activities such as mountain climbing and spring outings organized offline.