What do you do when you are lost and have no direction in life?

Many young people who have just entered the society will have such confusion, feel that their future is hopeless, and do not know what to do next. In fact, people will be confused when they are alive, which is normal, and there will be times when powerful characters are confused, but inWhen life is confused and directionless, how to adjust and get out of the predicament is the most important thing to do.

Find out what makes you feel lost

Sometimes when I go home from work and walk to a certain crossroads, I will see all the pictures that seem familiar, and my heart will not be inexplicably sour, and I will suddenly feel lonely, with a strong sense of loss, and I don't know where to go next.

Or when you see a friend who is working hard like you, your life is getting better and better after continuous hard work, and you are still the same, you can't help but feel a little sad, why can't you do as well as your friends?

As long as we find the reason, we will know why we feel lost, because we have never thought about what we want, everything from childhood to adulthood is arranged by our parents, whether we like it or not, when our parents are old and incapable of taking care of us, we suddenly find ourselves as if we are lost in the dark, and the light shining on us in front of us gradually dimmed.

Never really wanted to live the life you wanted, you don't know the way home when the lighthouse is dim, why can't you think about the life you want, life is limited, how many things we have missed that we wanted to do but didn't dare to do. So when we don't know what kind of life we want, we will become confused, and as long as we start to take control of our lives again, life will become more meaningful when we know what we want.

Set clear and effective goals for your life

People are easy to get confused if they don't have a goal, we determine a general direction, set a clear goal, people will be busy when they have a head, and they will no longer be confused.

Don't set goals unrealistically, if you are out of reality, you will not motivate yourself to move forward, you can divide the goal into many small goals, so that a little bit of completion, life will become more fun.

I will let myself sleep to replenish my strength, and then let myself do some happy things, try not to think about the things that make me uncomfortable, and slowly get through the period of confusion.

At this time, I will read more inspirational books and re-establish my life direction.

Many times I inevitably feel particularly lost, when I am confused and have no direction in life, I usually go to watch some more inspirational movies, or go to read, or go to chat with my family, or go to clean up the house and run, which is a good way to keep myself busy and not think cranky.

In my case, I would confide in the people around me, ask for their opinions, follow the advice I felt was right for me, and then add my own opinion on the matter and keep going.

Anything that is not needed is superfluous for people who really enjoy life, and they will not carry this stupid baggage. How to apply:

A certain gentleman is well-known in the circle, he can always be unconventional, and he can always be a blockbuster: the day before yesterday, he was still doing a good job, and yesterday he went to the sea to become a manager, and the manager's position was not yet hot, and he heard that he was writing a book behind closed doors, and he didn't know how to write the book, so he met him for a small invention running a patent. Mr. So-and-so is flipping the ...... like this windmill

Caught in the fault line of alternating old mechanisms and concepts, many people are panicking; And in the fast-rotating stage of life, many people can't shake the ground, completely unaware of their own weight, regardless of their own foundation and morality, jumping around with their feelings, a kind of unconscious loss of life is inevitable.

At this point, it is indeed necessary for us to sit down and think about it. There is a famous proverb in England, called "the flow is still and the water is deep, and the heart is deep", as long as you really calm down, observe and meditate to achieve enlightenment, you will know a lot. Even though we are trying to make a living in an ever-changing society, each of us should sort out our eyes and need to adjust ourselves from time to time.

And this kind of adjustment should be calm and rational, should not lose objectivity and science, should be based on the good purpose of understanding and insight into the self, correcting and improving the self, so as to balance one's own weight, determine one's own life coordinates, otherwise, the blind man riding a blind horse can only fall into the inexplicable quagmire and lose himself.

Therefore, in the complex social and life fields, it is particularly important to position oneself. Lu Xun said: "The so-called survival is not to survive; The so-called food and clothing is not a luxury; The so-called development is not indulgence".

Obviously, we are committed to survival and development, and we should master a moderate tone and ruler, and more importantly, determine a suitable position.

It is not difficult to position yourself, as long as you withdraw your red-hot gaze first, analyze and weigh yourself objectively and realistically, maybe you will be at ease.

If you can really be as magnificent as "noisy as a torrential rain", you can do the big strings, and only "cut like a whisper" as graceful, and you will get the small strings. It doesn't matter what you do, what matters is whether you can do it and how you do it.

Rousseau said: The value of life is determined by oneself. The so-called decision of self-worth is essentially the balance and play of one's own strengths and energy, one's own pulse, and one's own positioning.

We may only remember Napoleon's famous saying: a soldier who does not want to be a marshal is not a good soldier.

In "Aim High", do we realize a kind of inflammatory misdirection?

There are a number of marshals and countless soldiers, what can I do if I can't get the marshal's staff? Belinsky's proposition was perhaps more rational and plain: if you can't get the marshal's staff, you take a gun, and if you don't have a gun, you take an iron pick.

Society is like a machine, the motor is a mechanical part, and the screw cap is also an indispensable thing, as long as you do what you can do in the corresponding position, you can also realize the value of life.

Marie Curie made a great contribution to humanity throughout her life, but she had a common and seemingly inconspicuous maxim: I have done what I can.