I m 1 year high now, but I always feel homesick when I m in school

There must be a period of adaptation to everything. A happy family used to be your warm nest. Now that you are gone, you have lost your warm environment, you have to do a lot of things on your own, and the people around you may not be in tune with you......There are many factors that will definitely make you uncomfortable.

But, to face it, you have to adapt. Survival of the fittest. You can enrich your life with extracurricular activities, **, and textbooks, don't be too boring, and use the present to do what you like to do, which is not a good thing.

Immerse yourself in collective life as much as possible.

Communicate more with teachers and classmates and smile more.

Believe in yourself.

I'll get used to it slowly, and I'm about the same in my first year of high school.

Talk to your classmates more about your mood Find good friends as soon as possible Arrange a new life It's 1 year in high school Older children have to study hard Make friends Parents will miss you too What you can do now is how not to let your parents worry about you So you have to work hard Be a big kid

When you say that you are not used to living in accommodation, you are actually slowly adapting.

It's a great thing to be able to experience residential life, because you can learn a lot of things that you can't learn at home, and you can adapt to residential life relatively quickly when you go to university.

When you are really annoyed, you can listen to it**.

Relax a little and everything will be fine.

Me too. It's about personality. I've always been with my family.

Since being admitted to this foreign school, .I also feel uncomfortable all the time, but if I stay for a long time, I won't. You should find new friends to hang out with, or go outside by yourself for a walk.

Listening**, or going to the school computer room to surf the Internet, etc., can make yourself adapt.

Don't hold back your happiness if you're unhappy

Give your parents more **

Try to blend into the collective life You have to leave your parents sooner or later Hehe, I'm also in my first year of high school.

You might as well make more friends to alleviate the need not to think about it It's time for you to be independent, and lay a good foundation for going into society in the future Communicate more with friends and divert homesickness

If you are particularly homesick at school, you can only relieve your homesickness by making your life full and busy at school. After high school, there is more homework, so you can put all your mind into studying, and it is not so easy to feel homesick.

When you enter high school, you are surrounded by new classmates, so you can make more friends, and friends can chat with each other, so that you don't feel homesick so easily. In fact, homesickness is also normal, to learn to alleviate, you can call your parents if you are really homesick, and your parents will be good listeners.

It's only been a long time since school started, and boarding is definitely not suitable for school, and I don't want to do it after a long time.

If you are homesick, you will call your family, there is no better way, you have to slowly learn to be independent, and many people have come over like this. Do you have any junior high school classmates from the same school as you, you can talk to them?

I think the way to do this is to divert our attention and integrate into the group as soon as possible.

Ask your mom to bring something delicious to school to accompany you.

Me too, my home is far away from the school, and then my mother and relatives discussed and decided to accompany the study, no way, I also want to cry all the time, I can't hear it in class, take one step at a time, I have taken medicine before (for depression and anxiety), it is best not to rely on drugs, I think accompanying the study is the best choice.

I remembered when I was a freshman in high school, when I was 13 years old (I started school early, no matter what age I was in the country), I was in a very backward town, and I was going to the best high school in the city, and that was the first time I left home, I was already very dependent on my parents, and did LZ know how I spent my time? I hid in the quilt and cried until one or two o'clock every night, and played ** with my parents every night, and naturally fell asleep when I was tired of crying. Our school will not have any monthly vacation, but Saturday afternoon will be half a day, that is to say, I can go home in half a year except May 11, at that time my mother came to see me once a week, my mother she was motion sickness, our school is four or five hours away from home, she is really uncomfortable, but I am so homesick, and then there is no way.

It was really an unbearable past, I was relatively young, I was so far away from home for the first time, I didn't understand the language, I didn't have any relatives and friends, and the feeling of loneliness was really uncomfortable and suffocating. (By the way, how come the questions I answered today are similar to my own experiences?) ）

LZ you're okay, I'm really happy to be able to go home once every two weeks.

I don't think you have a little bit of friends who play well at school, I was at that time, and when I found a good friend to talk about, I didn't miss home at all, and life at school became a kind of happiness, a kind of happiness, and the feeling of homesickness was much lighter. LZ can find a friend who can play with him, although friends are hard to find, but they also need to find and understand by themselves. Rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out, friends can give you a sense of security

Then you can do things to distract yourself, such as going to the library, going to the stadium, etc., and running can also vent your emotions.

When you are in a difficult time, you will feel very difficult, you will feel very painful, but once you grit your teeth and get through, it will be a good memory, although I think I was a hard time in my first year of high school, but I am proud of myself at that time. LZ, you're not alone, there are many, many people around you, so there's no need to be sad

Are you just in high school or what? Is it the new environment that makes you uncomfortable? I am reminded of a sentence from "The Fantastic Journey of the Shepherd Boy":

It's not a strange world, it's a whole new world. It's true that home is warm, but the world is colorful, and LZ will definitely find something you like, provided you are "brave".

It's good after a long time, and when you get used to this lifestyle, you don't feel anything. Isn't it possible to go back every week... I am homesick now, and I think about it when I go to college in the future, you can't go to college in a foreign country and go back once a week, so it will be very helpful for you to adapt early!

Answer 1: Students are still academically focused, and they can reduce their thoughts about their families through the attention transfer method. in learning. Finding joy and falling in love with learning, or working hard with the goal of learning, will not only make parents feel gratified, but also reduce their homesickness.

2. Chat with classmates, take a walk, relieve your mood through the deep friendship between classmates, to dilute the longing for home, people need feelings to fill, friendship can also temporarily replace the home. And you can also win yourself some sincere friends.

3. The teacher reflects his feelings of missing home, Xi. After all, they have many years of teaching experience, and they are very experienced in helping us solve all kinds of problems and troubles encountered by students, what you need to do is to boldly tell the teacher about your problems.

4. Most high schools are not allowed to bring mobile phones, but there should still be some ways to call ** to their parents, chat with them, talk to their hearts, - Generally, there will be some disobedient students who bring mobile phones or borrow mobile phones from teachers.

5. By often communicating with parents and elders, you can effectively alleviate your homesickness, after all, the most important thing in the family is people. Talking to your parents on the phone to reflect on your learning situation can also spur you to study hard and make your high school life more meaningful.

6. When parents are free, they can come to school to see their relatives, which can effectively alleviate their homesickness, and parents can also effectively encourage themselves to overcome difficulties encountered in learning. My family is supportive of my high school life, and I can still get through it well.

Asking questions is always nervous.

Anxiety is thinking about going home every day.

After all, it's been so long since I've been away from home for the first time.

Asking questions, others have adapted to it, but I haven't been able to, it's been a month, and every time I go to school, I feel uncomfortable and nervous.

Question: I always can't eat and sleep.

Halo 4! I've been a left-behind kid since I was a child. There is no home that can be lived in for a long time.

I'm doing a good job now, and everything is satisfying. It's a good idea for you to go home once every two weeks. The main thing is that you have to be independent and work in the future!

You can't guarantee that your job is close to home! People are meant to grow up – to be independent.

Try to think about learning, turn homesickness into motivation, when you are homesick, just think about this truth, you will be more diligent, maybe a little better, it will be good after a long time.

I felt the same way, and it was my first day of school. Relax, get to know more classmates, chat, and talk about your heart, and it will be much better!

I also came from the boarding school, so I can say that you should also focus on your studies,!! Don't talk about big questions!

I also just started high school, the school is too far from home, and I live in a dormitory, so I usually miss home.

And the quality of the people in our dormitory is quite low, and the environment is not very good, so my mother plans to rent me a house next to the school.

But, landlord, you think, everyone else can, why can't we! It's good to get used to it

So is it. Schoolgirl.. The first year of high school. I also want to. Go home once a week.

But.. I usually communicate with my roommates a lot. In the class, see if there is rice and fun. I can talk to you. Communication..

And ha... Find something to do.

For example, ha. I would make a bet with my roommate on the way back to the dormitory. There are people playing basketball on the basketball court (you can see the basketball court from the balcony of the dormitory). Find something to do.

Really immerse yourself in high school life.

I still want to cry on the first day of high school, but after a semester, I will get acquainted with my classmates, and you may not want to go home later.

Talk to a close classmate, or immerse yourself in your studies and forget about this emotion, and go to sleep when you are sleepy, so that you don't think about it too much =w=

Sometimes we can't change the environment, we can only change ourselves.

If you think about it, you can't go back every day, so it's better to study hard, the first year of high school is very important, it is the basis for developing good habits, you have to adapt as soon as possible, in order to go ahead of others.

Maybe you're too idle, you still have so much time to think about home all day long, get used to it, and when your homework is flying all over the sky, I guess you won't have so many small ideas, hehe.

In the future, he who will leave his home will be abandoned.

Thinking that I can be independent again, I face it with an optimistic attitude.

If you read more books, you won't think about anything.

Will high school be far from home? It's unimaginable that men love home so much...

1. Have a chance to go home and see more.

2. Multi-pass**, so that you can relieve homesickness.

3. Divert your attention and spend your time on the things you are interested in, 4. You can exercise more and play ball, 5. You can go shopping with your best friends and keep yourself in a good mood6. Make yourself independent, after all, you will have to leave home when you go to college, so you have to learn to do laundry, cook, and learn to deal with problems by yourself, and being independent will make you get praise from others.

7. You can study better, let your family rest assured, and you can also improve your grades, I hope these can help you.

Psychological Analysis: Hello! From your description, I feel the loneliness, depression, worry, depression, and pain in your heart.

You said that you are a prospective high school freshman, you have lived in the school for a week, you miss your parents, homesickness, grandmother, few friends at school, lonely and lonely in your heart, and you dare not tell your family, you are afraid that they will worry about you, affected by your negative emotions, you dare not tell your classmates and teachers, you have to hold back, bear everything alone, produce depression, affect learning, so you want to find someone who can answer your doubts, listen to your heart, and let you regain the sunshine. Next, I will give you three suggestions for your reference: First of all, I hope you can understand that it is normal to miss home, parents, and grandma now.

Because many high school freshmen, living in school for the first time, leaving their parents for so long, and changing to a new living environment, they will miss their families, so you have to tell yourself that it is normal for you to miss home and your parents now. The purpose of making you think this way is to hope that you can understand yourself and accept yourself first, so that you can have the extra energy to change the status quo. Secondly, I suggest that you talk to others about what you really think in your heart.

You said in the description that you don't dare to complain to your family, for fear that they will worry about you, and you can see that you are a sensible child who is willing to consider others, but you also need to know that you are not strong enough now, and you still need the support of your family, so you can talk to your parents and grandmother about the loneliness and loneliness in your heart, and their understanding, support and encouragement are likely to help you get out of the current situation. They love you and will worry about you, but they prefer that you can ask them for help in time, otherwise they will be even more worried if you are alone all the time. Of course, you can also talk to your classmates and teachers, sometimes talking in itself is helping you regain your sunshine.

Maybe you are worried that you will complain to others (because you dare not tell your classmates and teachers), and others will say that you are not strong enough, a bit of a loss of face, but in fact, it is not, which shows that you are a real person, and people like real people. When you express the negative emotions such as loneliness, loneliness, and depression in your heart, your heart will be much lighter, and this will help you get out of the current situation. Again, I advise you to focus on your own studies.

When you realize that it is normal for you to live in school and feel homesick, and you also confide your true thoughts with your family or classmates and teachers, then you will have more energy to focus on learning, and when you can focus on your own learning, your life will slowly get back on track, and at that time, you will smoothly pass the new environment adaptation period, and your life will be full of sunshine again. More importantly, through this experience, you have grown and become stronger, so that your problem-solving skills have also improved, and when you have negative emotions such as loneliness, loneliness, depression and so on in the future, you yourself are likely to be the one who answers your doubts and listens to your heart. Hope mine can help you.