I ve been with my girlfriend for 7 years, but my parents don t agree now, what should I do now? 10

Don't cook raw rice into rice, in case your parents still don't agree, you will really hurt, the person you love, the two of you can do your parents' work together, anyway, it depends on your joint efforts, don't fall out with your parents, otherwise even if you are together, you will not be able to give up your family affection, let your girlfriend often go to your house, and contact your parents more, maybe after a long time, it will be better, your position in the middle is the most important, you must reconcile the relationship between them, I wish you success.

If you like your girlfriend, don't be afraid that your parents don't agree, you are with him anyway, your parents can understand it, your situation is similar to mine, I gave up my college, and I am with him. Now I'm with my boyfriend, we're happy, even though it's a big price I've paid, but I'm happy. I'm with someone I like!

Consider the reasons for parenthood

Maybe you're really not a good fit and you should reach out to someone else

But if you think it's appropriate, don't care what people say.

Do you think she deserves your parents' face? Of course, this is the worst scenario, if she is worth it, just stick to it, after all, it's not your parents who live with you for the rest of your life!

There are many reasons to disagree.

It is estimated that at such a juncture, it is impossible for you to calmly, rationally and objectively consider whether what your parents said is reasonable.

But. It's better to refer to your parents for marriage events.

And also. What about the attitude of the other parent? This one is also a weight.

The old story goes on for a long time.

Is it you who get married or who they get married.

And you tell them.

Love is your own thing.

If you find one you don't like.

Divorce after getting married.

See if they want to.

It's been 7 years, and my parents will agree!

Cook a raw rice into rice.

Use your love to impress them; With your sincerity, care for them!

Also, it's in a similar situation to me. My girlfriend and I are also in a six-year relationship. Her mother didn't like me ever since.

Drag it out to this year. Her mother had no choice but to agree. You must know that it is your wife who is married to accompany you for the rest of your life.

Not her mother. Worrying too much is asking for trouble. Knots don't make drags.

First ask what is the reason for disagreeing, just say that disagreement is too general, ask your girlfriend, or go and talk to her parents, and show some manliness

What episode? It must have been a serious episode.

Straight to Huanglong, ask her why her parents don't agree with you being together, what requirements do you have to meet them as much as possible, and you are still going to use you.

Rong is sincere to her to influence her parents, or to attack her father and mother one by one, with a kind of stalking attitude, you want your determination to be in place, it will definitely come to fruition! I think you still have hope, it will be really sad if you lose her, and even more sad in the future, come on!

The feelings that the family does not approve of are more difficult. Parents' attitudes are very important.

I think you've only been together for a year, and it's normal for her not to let you see your parents. A year is simply not enough, you know each other, many couples who have been dating for five or six years will break up, not to mention that you have only been together for a year. Before she has stabilized, tell your parents that if you break up with her in the future, what about the boy when your parents ask?

How should she face it as a girl? So I think if you don't have any plans to get married, and you've only been together for a year, you don't need to be in such a hurry to meet.

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and he has plans to take me to meet his parents, but I don't have plans yet. On the one hand, I am afraid of breaking up in the future, if the person who gets married in the future is not the person I bring back now, my parents will be embarrassed to ask, and the second is that the girls are more strict, and they don't let them fall in love, and they will be beaten by the stick when they go back. Maybe your girlfriend, like me, is a stricter person, so she won't take you to see your parents.

If you are in a stable relationship, it doesn't matter if you see your parents or not, just know each other. Just like me and my boyfriend, I told him that I couldn't take him to see my parents for a short time, and he chose to understand me. The relationship between us is very stable, but no one can say for sure in the future, he is also afraid that if he breaks up in the future, and he takes him back now, it will not be the same person when he gets married in the future, I will be difficult to be a person, the older generation is more feudal, most of them are from the beginning, and they will not change objects at every turn like we do now.

You don't have to worry too much, there's still a year to go, right? Before you actually get married, there is no guarantee that something will happen in between, maybe he will respect your decision, or maybe something will happen in between. Anyway, you can relax, and when the time comes, you can try it the way I do.

The two of you have been together for a year, and it can be said that the time is not short. But she always doesn't let you see her parents, indicating that she doesn't want to make your relationship public, and she still has doubts about you.

She's not ready, she's not sure you're her boyfriend, so she can't take you to her parents yet. You can think about whether you love each other very much. To the point where you don't have to. At that time, you don't want to see her parents, and she will take you to meet them.

I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year, and she just won't let you see him and her parents, there must be a reason for this, it's likely that you are a spare tire, she plays with you, and she may also have ulterior privacy.

It may be that she has not thought about your future development, or she doesn't want to continue to get along with you, or she may have low self-esteem and doesn't want you to see it.

It's possible that her parents still don't agree with her falling in love There is also a situation that you are not good enough, maybe when you are excellent, I will take you to meet her parents, if my boyfriend is not good, I will not take him to meet my boyfriend, one reason is that my parents definitely do not agree to fall in love with someone who is not able to take care of me, and the bad situation is that you are her spare tire, so she does not dare to take you to meet her parents.

I also fell in love for a year in college, but he didn't say that he wanted to meet my parents, and I think that the love I had when I was a student sometimes didn't reach the level of going to meet my parents, so there was no need But there are also a lot of relationships that I fell in love with when I was a student, and everyone has seen both sides, and the parents of both sides are very good to each other. But even if he asks to see my parents, I will never agree, because my parents have always told me when I came to college not to fall in love, saying that I should study hard and be admitted to graduate school or something, and I must be thinking about falling in love when I come out to work in the future, but I didn't take it seriously, people said that I would regret not falling in love in college, and I also took into account one point, that is, when I came out to work after I was admitted to graduate school, I would get older At that time, it was not suitable for falling in love. So because my parents didn't let me fall in love, I didn't dare to take him home to meet my parents.

Some girls just feel that it's not the time to take their boyfriend home now, because her boyfriend is not very good, in order to save face, you have to wait until he becomes excellent and then take him back to show off, this time must be very beautiful, and there is a situation that is to keep the feeling of being single, because if we are still single, there will be a lot of men come to see, if it is suitable, you can date, I have seen some girls like this, she was originally a boyfriend, But she disliked her boyfriend's family for having no money and no rights, that is, being poor, and then she told the people in our village that she didn't have a boyfriend, so there were many bachelors who came to her house to see if there was fate, and if it was the kind of rich family that came to see her, she would agree to have a relationship with the other party, and finally abandon her boyfriend. People like me just don't want my family to know that I'm in love. Another situation is that if you often take your boyfriend home to see your parents, but the frequency of changing boyfriends is large, many people will think that the girl is not serious, so many people are not willing to take their boyfriends home to meet their parents in this regard.

It should be that your girlfriend is not ready to let you meet her parents, so you can talk to your girlfriend and say that you want to meet her parents, so that she can take you to meet after she is ready, don't be in a hurry, and be patient with your girlfriend.

A year, to be honest, really isn't a long time, maybe your girlfriend thinks you haven't yet. This is the step of meeting both parents. Well, maybe you're in a hurry, but you can ask him what he thinks.

Is his time to feel that it has not yet come, or is his future not at all you, so there is no need for you to meet his parents for this reason, you must ask clearly, if he feels that the time is not yet, you can um, take out a little bit and wait now.

Maybe your girlfriend is not ready for herself, you can choose to wait, after all, marriage is a major event in a person's life, you should give your girlfriend more tolerance and understanding, you can convey your ideas to your girlfriend, but you can't impose your ideas on the other party.

I think your girlfriend thinks that you haven't met your parents yet, you can wait, the most important thing is to make your girlfriend feel safe, this is what a girl needs, as long as this way, I believe it won't be long before she is willing to take you to meet her parents.

It shows that the girlfriend is not ready to meet the parents, and the girlfriend should be given a little time to think.