After the divorce, which man or woman is more miserable?

Whether it is in real life around you or the information you see on the Internet, there are indeed more and more divorces, some people show off with divorce certificates, and some people cry like rain with divorce certificates, who are the people who show off? And who are the weepers? See how men and women view the ...... of a marriage

When we get married, we generally think that women are happier and happier than men, and it is not easy for a woman to find someone to rely on to live her life, and for men, it is an extra responsibility and responsibility, so that the woman around her will be happy for a lifetime, which is a core plan for the rest of his life. But how can everything be smooth sailing in life? Many marriages end miserably, what good horses don't eat back grass, what can't be hanged on a tree, if you live with such a mentality, then happiness will only get farther and farther away.

What will the woman face after the divorce? People who know around you will inevitably talk behind their backs, and psychologically fragile women can easily fall into the trough and can't get out, and there will be basically no hope for the next marriage, after all, most men are not easy to accept a divorced woman, and even if they do, they will not dig out their hearts and lungs for this woman, if there is, how low is this probability? If the woman takes another child, the probability of wanting to remarry is lower, and the quality of life after remarriage will drop a lot.

What will the man face after the divorce? A part of the property is bound to be divided by the woman, even if it goes to the court, there will not be too many changes, no matter who the child is awarded to, the child support is not able to run, there are many men who work several jobs for child support, and the bitterness is only experienced by themselves, what is it like to lose the property of the child and wife? The so-called freedom after divorce is just indulgence and depravity, how many men are there who are comfortable with themselves?

The pressure of life makes the probability of the man wanting to remarry not high, and the woman is more cautious about a divorced man, and will carefully consider the financial resources, personality, conduct, and habits, and can only continue to be single if she does not meet the woman's requirements.

At the same time, the divorce of both parties is very harmful to the child's psychology, it may directly change a child's character, whether it is the lack of father's love or mother's love, he is forever missing a link in mental health, some children who grow up in a single family are obedient and distressing, and some have embarked on the road of no return, many couples choose not to divorce for the sake of their children, and then choose the right opportunity to divorce the marriage when the child grows up, but life has missed a lot, and it is always embarrassing.

Whether you get married or divorced, you have to choose carefully, those money, appearance, vanity are fleeting, looking back, who will still stick to the past?

Men and women after marriage are actually more miserable for men, because men have no family, and when they return home, they can't wait for someone to cook for them and wait for someone to wash their clothes like an uncle, so they feel that life is particularly helpless.

I think women will have a worse life, because women are more used to running a family, and may not have a job, and it will be very difficult to go out to work at this age.

After the divorce, the man will have a worse life, because it is even more difficult for him to find a wife who has nothing to do with him and lives a down-to-earth life. On the one hand, they need to go out to earn living expenses for their children, and on the other hand, they are worried about their elderly parents at home, so they can only bear all the pressure of life alone.

Girls will be relatively miserable, it is difficult for girls to find a partner after divorce, they will be criticized, and once girls are invested in a relationship, it is difficult to get out.

The question is inconclusive. Whoever has a worse life after the divorce should look at their later lives.

I think,Men are more likely to be happy after divorce than women. Because men are strong, they must have a woman when they get married, and they are more beautiful than a woman and more liked by men.

Because men have money, they can change everything, especially marriage, men have a greater advantage in money, money is a man who determines the happiness of his life, as long as a man is rich, he must start with his marriage first, looking for a person he admires the most.

Women can't do it, they get married once, once they get old, they are not old, they are not old, as long as they are married, rich men will not appreciate them.

If a woman has been married once and has children, after the divorce, she is even more difficult to marry with children.

In the past, the parents ordered the matchmaker to say that they would marry a chicken and a dog and a dog.

Nowadays, people pursue a high-quality life, and their feelings are unwilling to settle, and if they have the capital to divorce, they will leave the marriage if they want to.

In the past, marriage depended on fate, and the current partners were all chosen by themselves, why did they still jump and fight after marriage? Is it because we chose the wrong one? Would it be nice to change one?

With dissatisfaction with the status quo and expectations for the future, many people choose to divorce, but are they happy after divorce? Was the original problem solved? None of the same.

There was once a sister who said that her ex-husband would soon remarry, and she demonstrated her affection every day. She was very uncomfortable for this and asked me, "Am I bad, am I really no one to want?" ”

I told her that remarriage after divorce is not a race, and that whoever finds the next home earlier will win. What's more, the more hasty the remarriage, the easier it is for people to see jokes.

Sure enough, in less than two years, her ex-husband fell into a family war again and once went to court.

In relationships, we often see some people who always take the trouble to step into the same river and make mistakes repeatedly. For these people, people are called "scumbag harvester", "green hat pick-up man" and other joking titles.

The thinking and behavior patterns of adults are stable, and once a person's cognitive, emotional, volitional and behavioral characteristics are formed, it is difficult to change. We all carry the lack of childhood, to find the person who can make us whole, so we will repeat the same mistakes again and again.

Vary. Comparatively speaking, it is more difficult for a woman to remarry after a divorce than a man.

Both men and women do a good job, each with its own good.

Divorce is due to various reasons, and they are not happy in life.

Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.

Here's why:

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.

You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.

Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

The third is that after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home. Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it!

When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!

In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!

After the divorce, both men and women can say that the most suffering is the child, so both of them must live a good life and let the child have a happy home.

I think it's generally worse for women, because I feel that men are doing well and are freer.

I think it's still a bit worse for women, because many women are not financially independent, and it is very difficult for them to live alone.

In contrast, men will have a worse life, because women really understand what is most important, so they will really make themselves better.

Male. Generally, after the divorce, there is no one to cook for you and do housework, and the quality of life will decrease a lot.

After divorce, men tend to regret it more than womenSociologists have surveyed 300 couples of recently divorced and those who have been divorced for 12 years, and the results are staggering: of the 150 men surveyed, seven committed suicide and three went to prison. Could it be that men are victims of divorce?

Scientists in the United Kingdom have found that divorced men are 76% more likely to die when they are young and strong than women.

The German men surveyed admitted that the biggest pain they suffered was the difficulty of seeing their children, followed by the financial pressure caused by "subsidizing" their ex-wives. Many men in Germany find a new life partner after 10 months of divorce, but they just don't get married. Sixteen percent of the men surveyed said that divorce was a mistake they regretted a lot.

According to a German statistic, 2 out of 3 divorced men and women are able to start a new family.

So, how to beat the divorce crisis? Of course, there is no "magic bullet", but psychologists give divorced men and women a few "pieces of advice": first, don't put all the responsibility for divorce on the other party; Second, hatred of the other side is not enough; Third, don't fantasize about the so-called "happy breakup", because divorce itself is intertwined with multiple emotions - hatred, anger, grievance, sadness.

If these feelings are not vented and become subconscious, it will be very dangerous. Such a person cannot get out of the cycle of divorce even at the last moment of his life. So, what love and hate do you have in your heart......Just let loose as much as you want!

After a period of self-catharsis, you ask yourself: What was wrong with me?