If your ex contacts you suddenly, what is the most likely thing to hide?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-08
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the ex suddenly contacts you, it means that you are always the most important, so he will choose to contact you, if he no longer has you in his heart, he will ignore your existence, and he will not suddenly say that he will contact you, so the ex who contacts you is really in love with you.

    Everyone will have their own relationship in the process of growing up, some people are good at managing relationships, which will make their relationship particularly long-lasting, and some people will have a lot of problems when managing a relationship, and some problems will not be solved well, which will make this relationship fail. For the two people who broke up, they also loved each other, but some problems caused the two people to break up, so when they broke up, some people will choose to continue to love each other. If your predecessor suddenly contacts you, it means that he still loves you and doesn't want to lose you, so he will contact you, and in his heart, you are always the most important.

    If you love someone, you will repeatedly contact each other, if you don't love, you won't behave like this, two people will have too much time to break after separation, but time has passed, and when the time is long, you will miss each other. Companionship is the most affectionate confession, because when two people are together, it is the other party who has been accompanying them, so when they break up, they will feel empty in their hearts and want to chase each other again. Therefore, after the breakup, when the ex-president contacts you, it means that he still has you in his heart and doesn't want to lose you.

    When the ex-contact contacts you, he also has a hint of fantasy, wanting to get back together with you, in the process of chatting to see if you are interesting to him, to see if you are still single, if you are still interesting to him, he will ask you to get back together with him. In fact, for the reunion of the ex, we must maintain a rational psychology, if we continue to love, the ex can choose to get back together. If you don't like it, don't be soft-hearted, if you are soft-hearted, you will break up later, so it's better to break it directly, so it's the best end for both parties, if you're indecisive, you'll repeat the same mistakes later, so you must decide according to your heart.

    In fact, there are some exes who will contact you for revenge, some couples are good to get together and break up, but some couples are unhappy and break up, and they always want to prove that they are better than you after breaking up, so they will show off. Such a person, his mind is very narrow-minded, if your ex shows off his current life to you, you can ignore him, because such a person is very cautious, you take care of him, but make yourself angry. So the best thing to do is to choose to ignore, and only in ignoring is the best response, and your ex will not contact you next time.

    If you lose a relationship, don't think about keeping it, what you lose is always in the past tense, if you can never get out, then your whole life will be immersed in pain. Therefore, we must treat our feelings rationally, don't let your life leave regrets, only in your persistence, you will have a happier love, will meet the right him. Therefore, no matter how much the other party contacts you, you must be firm in your heart, only in this way can you deserve more happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The first thought is to want to know how you are doing, to see how you are doing. In fact, after separation, many couples will choose to cut off contact with each other by "old age and death", and do not want to have a "broken thread" relationship. So the contact will be severed, there will be no news of each other, and maybe you will see each other in the dynamics of mutual friends, but there is no direct contact.

    But people are not machines, people have emotions, good morning and good night that they are used to every day, greetings from the cold and warmth, and some small details when they get along with each other will make people touch the scene and ......

    At the beginning, you may be able to restrain yourself, but the more you restrain and suppress, the more ferocious and ...... you will beAt this time, you may not be able to resist contacting ......But in fact, I don't have too many ideas, I just want to know if you're doing well......

    One morning, my ex-girlfriend, who I hadn't been in touch with for a long time, sent me a confusing message, "Are you still alive?" ”

    I sent a black question mark to the past.

    She replied to me, that is, she was not dead.

    I:? Her: It's fine.

    I:? Her: It's good if you don't live.

    Me: Why do you suddenly ask this question?

    Me: You should be dreaming......

    Her: I don't know if I really dreamed of it......I'm cowardly......

    Let's see, what's going on with this....Everyone is well, everyone is not disturbed, and they are alive to ......

    The second thought is to see if you have started a new relationship and if there is still a chance to get back together. Of course, there are also some people who are unwilling to get back together after a breakup. Especially after meeting new people, I found out how good and rare the person I missed was, at this time, people with normal brains know that they should try their best to save this relationship.

    Therefore, this kind of person will contact the other party again, will re-recognize the good of the other party, try to understand the latest situation of the other party, and integrate into the other person's life ...... again

    Otherwise, why don't you think he or she contacted you ......?Actually, it's not because I think you're good and want to have your ...... again

    The third thought is that I want you to help. There are also some people, "nothing to do in summer and spring, nothing to do in the clock", employing people forward, not people facing backwards......They don't contact you out of nowhere, often with a strong sense of purpose. Suddenly contact you, and then she will make all kinds of "unreasonable demands", such as lending him money, such as helping him do something......There are also many such people.

    And because the two parties have already communicated, they are very familiar with each other, know what kind of contacts and resources the other party has, and often when they ask for help, they will also be "targeted" and can accurately find the point that the other party can do.

    However, I think that since they have been separated, it is their duty to be willing to help, and it is their duty to be unwilling to help, and there is no need for anyone to pay for ......the past feelingsNor should we be kidnapped by the emotional morality ......of the past

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    His careful thinking may be that he hasn't found a better one than you for a while, so he wants to use you as a spare tire, and when he finds it, there will be nothing to do with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your ex suddenly contacts you, either because he wants to get back together with you, or he just wants to see if you're doing well and wants to show you off about his happy life now. Either that, he got married, told you, and wanted to make you sad, and by the way, he gave a gift money. What do you think?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Most of them use you as a spare tire, come to you when they need you, and ruthlessly abandon them when they don't need them.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I want to fly like a kite, let go of my dreams, let go of my youth, and let go of my ideals

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe he wants to see if you're doing well now, maybe it's because he's not doing well, and suddenly thinks of how good you are.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's the other person I contact, because I haven't met a man I like for more than ten years. After getting in touch, I felt that the way he spoke was still the same, very straightforward, not very smart, and at that moment, I felt that the original decision was still right. So there are no regrets.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After the breakup, your ex suddenly contacted you, not because he loved you, but because he hid these three kinds of careful thoughts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I want to show you something.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

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